Need a some advice / help?

Im 21 yrs old and i currenty dont have a job lost my last job a month ago. I had one interview since then. I try to apply to one place a day. I also I dont drive cause, to myself I wasnt ready till about 3 months ago and I use my mothers car to drive people if they have to go some where for now till im READY to take the test. I have a bf that I have been dating since 4/06 and he is 29. He is telling me that he wants me to get a job and my license by Dec. If not he is leaving me, he want to go to the next step in our relationship like living together and what not. I know he has the ring cause he told me if you dont do that your never getting it ever. If you do, do that you well get it. I dont want to get casue of all of that. I want to be a suprise. Also I feel towarn between both him and my parents as well. I want to please both at the same time but i cant. I dont want to lose him at all plus I dont want my parent to give up on me and say forget it cause of him. HELP ME!Need a some advice / help?
Your 21......





Are you going to school?





Why are you only applying to one job a day? You should at least apply to 10-15 day, depending on how big the city is you live in.





A lot of men will drop you if they see that your not doing anything with your self. Your man sounds no different, he is an older man that wants to see his woman doing something to better her self and not living off of him, or her mama...





So now you should really work on your self. Your so young get involved in school, and other things to keep you busy.





Take careNeed a some advice / help?
I wouldn't want to marry someone that didn't have a job or a car either. He just wants you to aspire to be more then that. Marriage is about building lives TOGETHER, he's probably worried that to be with you means to support you.
Wow!!! First of all sweetie, who is he to give you an ultimatum?? Sounds like he is trying to controll you and thats not something you need in life. If you do these things do them for you, not because he told you to.

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