Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Im thinking about making some not so great decisions and i need advice please help?

ok i am 15 and my friends get drunk every once in a while iv been so stressed i think i might do it withthem one day and i also want to get percings but idk if i should do it my mom would kill me i just dont know what to do if you can help that would be great thanksIm thinking about making some not so great decisions and i need advice please help?
Do not do either. If you are questioning whether or not it is right, then do not do it because something is obviously wrong about it. It is great that you have enough of a conscience and think enough to realize that this is not right. I think that you know it is not right but just feel pressure to do it to be more like your friends. And if they pressure you to do any of those things, then they are not good friends at all. And I do not think you should even associate with them to begin with if they are into that crap. They are not like you. You know right from wrong. As far as piercings go, ask permission. But as far as drinking goes... Wait until you are twenty-one! That is what I am doing. I do not care if people think I am a pussy for this, but I just do not want to do it. It is not good for you anyway. Do not do anything you aren't 100% comfortable with doing. Never succumb to peer pressure, and keep being a good kid.Im thinking about making some not so great decisions and i need advice please help?
I don't think that you have much to worry about. At 15 it is very hard to get alcohol and you also can't get piercings without parental permission till you're 18.


Just wait and relax. Spend time with friends who don't do those things. Find hobbies and things that you're interested in. Life can be stressful but don't let it get to you.
You already know the answers. I say that because in your question you wrote that the decisions are not so great. Peer pressure is tough but you can be tougher. If you don't think something is a great idea, don't get involved.
you shouldnt get drunk because everyone else is and you want to fit in.


you shouldnt change yourself or the way you think so other people will like you. you should do what makes you happy or whatever, not what makes other people happy.
if you're feeling stressed, getting drunk isn't going to help at all. after your hangover wears off, you'll probably feel even more stressed because you just made a bad decision.
don't do anything you would regret later, no matter how stressed
Definitly agree with the first two answers. Alcohol is not an answer.
don't do either - you said it yourself: they're not ';great decisions.';

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