Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Guys help!! advice for a shy girl!!?

so i met this guy he asked me for my number and we have hung out a couple times.....now im very shy and he said he really likes me but he wants me to talk...but the thing is i just freeze when im with him and i dont know what to say or talk about so im usually just silent.....what are some things i could bring up or talk about so he can get to know me?Guys help!! advice for a shy girl!!?
Whether you swallow or not.Guys help!! advice for a shy girl!!?
It really depends on what common interests you both have. What hobbies do you share? How did you meet? Was it doing something? Talk about it. Usually the guy will suggest topics and you add in your opinion or twist it to get to what you want to talk about. But if everything does become quiet, just start talking about recent events that are interesting or current stuff around you. It can be the little things that spark bigger conversations. Just talk to him like a good friend. Don't be shy and just speak your mind. He'll like you for who you are.
start conversations that are about the things you like. try to control the conversation more. that way you can talk about the things that you like and are knowledgeable about. and once you get comfortable talking to him, just kind of letting the conversation flow
internet talk ok this works trust me. You feel more confident online (most anyway) and you can talk easily and freely more. so this could work out for you guys really try it or something on a rainy day or if you can't hang out that day cause of not enough time or your out of town
Well, usually i would just talk about my day or something, for a shy girl like me. I also just say things on my mind, anything really as long he doesn't seem bored, or you could get sit there and stare them, because that usually works for me. :)
just chillax be calm. talk to him like you would one of your friends try to find some common ground (liking the same kind of music,movies,tv shows etc.) and work from there just play it cool and don't let your shyness hold you back from getting to know this guy you might regret it
well, u can try 2 find out things he enjoyz doing and ask y. um u can find out what r his dreams and aspirations, his fav, tv showz, what he does 4 fun hobby wise. Jus take it easy, i know how u feel i was also shy wen i jus sttted dating my b/f i still am but a bit better now, ull get over it jus try those ok? good luck
just be straightforward with him. tell him u like him. and if he likes u then he should ask u out. and if u find urself lost for words then talk about little things like his day and if he had a bad day ask about his family or some other friends.





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Ask him what he likes to do, then he'll ask you what you like to do.





That's a good way to get know each other.





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i would advise you to find something that interests you both and go with that and if u dont kno wat interests you both ask him what he likes or what he is interested in if he likes you or even respects you he will have the courtesy to tell him
for me i don't really like shy girls.


you just need to be more confident and be yourself.


you don't want him to fall in love with the fake you.


just talk about your days and it'll just go on from there.


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talk abt global warming..drug abuse..deforestation.. terrorism, over-population


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figure-out some common topic among you..some subject that u both study.?? ur neighbourhood if u live nearby..?? go for some movie or party n then u can abt it n it wud bring u closer
Talk about yourself and be yourself. If he really likes you as you say, he'll definitely be interested in you just as you are.
the first thing you want to feel comfortable around him and bring up common discussions; ask him what his hobbies are, talk about stories, etc.
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hes the most latest thing that happend anyways
give him a questionare !! :D





Let him do the talking just agree or give input when you feel the need.





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hey whats up


hows it going


im bored what about you'


HEY HOE WASSUP (joke...)
just ask him like everyday questions.


like stuff about his family.


hope this helps.
Im not a guy, sorry. just open up and be how you are when your with your friends.
grow some balls and talk to him! or atleast tell him you shy dont let him slip away!
any interests or hobbies you may have, music is always a good one.
say ok and smile and walk away
he likkes youu too so dont sweat it just loosen upp
idk i have the same problem except im a boy

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