Friday, April 30, 2010

I don't like my little sister please help me I need advice?

My little sister is almost 4 and I'm almost 13 she gets what ever she wants cause no one wants to hear her cry.Everyone always says aw she is so cute. I am sick of it. Please help me what do I need some advice. It's getting to the point that I hate my little sister. When I try to tell my family how I feel they say she is just a baby and she doesn't know and I do. I don't like my little sister please help me I need advice?
Yep I hated my baby sister also. But guess what? We are grown-up now and when I had breast cancer guess who held my hand during chemotherapy etc. Yep my sister! She's 13 years younger but we do get along so much better now.


You'll both grow up one of these days and I hope you are as good as friends as my sister and me.I don't like my little sister please help me I need advice?
They are right that she is just a little toddler, but you are right in that she needs more discipline in her life. People are pretty much teaching her how to get whatever she wants and how to manipulate adults which will probably lead to problems when she gets to school. It's not your sister's fault though, so you should avoid getting angry at her. Instead, you should try to spend time with your sister and play with her, but don't let her push you around. I think that in this way you would be able to have more control over her behavior, which is what you need, and she will have more discipline in her life which will help her in the long run. It may not be fun at first, but you two will probably become close in the future.
You're jealous of your sister because she's little and get what she wants, which is exactly how you were treated when you were a baby. You need to just grow up, accept that you're the older sibling and just deal with it. She wont go away, regardless of how annoying she gets, so show your maturity with your family and just stay away from her.
i know what you are feeling but just think about this...God gives you a little sister in order to experience new things in life and to have understanding,love,respect and other values.anyway,i think that you're really important to your family or parents because without you,who would ever take care with your sister?!right?they really really need you!just always think that without you you're family that you're with..ISN'T COMPLETE!:)
sell her on Ebay, that usually get a good amount of people looking to buy stuff, just make sure they have a 90% plus rating








Comin from a large family, i say blame your parents, i aleays did %26amp; now they still don't like me





O %26amp; wait till there finished school %26amp; still act like it





HA HA I'M ALREADY CRAZY
we the older sisters always need to give for our lil sis.well, it's a fact that u hate ur sister.the age gap is too much,and sometimes its a shock to have a sister with 9 years of being solo. maybe you should just get over it.tell ur parents that u r their daughter too,need attention too here.advice ur parents not to treat the lil sis too much,or she'll be getting very demanding.and when dat time has come,blame ur parents then
...ive two younger sisters...me 19 ..thw younger one 15 and the youngest 7..!!! and she being 7 is always let off with her mistkes and again gets what she wants but huney this is normal..!!





Stop hating ur sister ...she really is in no position to exactly understnd her own or anybdy else's actions...!! she is a todd......i thnk u shud be the one more sacrifyng ....dnt get pissed at ur familys reactions..its so wit evry famly..!!





my 7 yr old sis is like that...no matter wht mistake she does we let her off......i had the same kinda feeling for my sis who is now 15 wen we were young but trust me ryt nw she is da person i lov da most and can count on da most..!!
I had the same problem with my little sister, for her it was just a phase. Just dont put up with it the way your parents do. Treat her like she is older than 4. Then she will act different around you. If you dont let her get away with things, she wont try to.
i felt exactly the same with my little bro. it's just because of her age. don't let her see how you feel now and play with her as much as possible. once she reaches 6/7 you'll want to spend everyday with her
Try doing more things with your sister. If that doesn't work , you can try to hang out with your friends more often. Sometimes getting out of the house is all you need.
She is just a kid so you should let some of the things go. But maybe you should get a lock for your room, and hang out with your friends more! And if you do, don't do anything stupid!
just do whatever it taked to do something about her and be true to yourslef no matter what
I reccommend a good travel agent.
welcome to being an older sister,stop being selfish.
just tell here
You are 13, meaning a teen. Don't you think honey it is just a bit silly to be jealous of a 4 year old tyke. At that age, even your were fussed over, and you don't remember it, it's not the babies fault is it. And I am sure you were cute at that time and everyone called you that. Now that is her turn, you are being self-centred cause you think no one is paying you attention. Tell me can she do everything for herself that you can? And as she grows old, she will be compared to you, ';oh your older sister is so much well mannered, studious blah blah, how do you think she will feel being baby-ed, she is old enough to understand, and won't be able to do all the things you will, like going to party, going on date, going out by yourself with friends. etc!





I would understand your feeling had she been just a year or two younger, but this almost a decade between you two. I have little baby sister, (I am 45 and she is 32) and to me she is like a daughter, and I treat her as one. So honey forget the jealousy, everyone loves you as well, but you have already gone through those stages, now be graceful and let the little one have some attention. Be a loving older sister, and you will have a faithful loving sister, who will want to be just like her elder sister.

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