I'm on birth control I take it like I'm supposed to all the time. I have never had unprotected sex until this once (around April 5th cannot remeber exact day) jus happened I know it was stupid but nothing I can do now. So the day after I had the unprotected sex I got my period probably like 6-7 hours after actually. I bleed for a couple hours then nothing until 2 days later and I got what seemed to be a normal period. A week later I took a pregnancy test and it came up negative. I got what seemed to be a normal period at the beginning of this month too. (I've heard that some women still have their period and are pregnant) Now I'm not really sure what the symptoms are but after my period in April for like a week I had really sore breasts and they seemed bigger to me not sure if its my imagination or what but they do. Also I have this feeling I'm super full all the time but I get hungry too but always feel full. And today is the only day I've had a really bad headache. No sickness at allMaybe pregnant 17yrs old? Help, advice, whatever?
Kiddo.... go to the doctor and stop having sex!
Chlamydia (sp?) often gives false symptoms of pregnancy. I would say if you're on the pill you're *fairly* (NOT 100%) safe... from pregnancy.Maybe pregnant 17yrs old? Help, advice, whatever?
Get another pregnancy test
If you've gotten two seemingly normal periods since the unprotected sex then more than likely you are not pregnant. But stranger things have happened. Yes it's true that *some* women might experience periods while pregnant but it's usually not a full-force ';normal'; period and it's also rather rare.
The symptoms you are experiencing more than likely would also not be present this early in a pregnancy, even if you were pregnant. Headaches and sore breasts can be the sign of any hormonal change and can simply be a symptom of your periods.
Buy another pregnancy test or go to Planned Parenthood for a test to be sure... and then relax about it... And always use protection from now on if you're not wanting a baby.
Good luck!
It could be the BC causing some changes in your body - that is common. If you haven't taken a second test, do so just to answer that question. You need to go talk to your Doctor either way - it is possible that the cramping and other problems are something serious, like an STD or a cancer.
You're still young, so your body is still growing, it could be that your breasts are sore because they are growing, and you're hungry because you are growing.
I doubt you are pregnant, but talk to your doctor to figure out what IS going on.
wait til one month of not having a period and then go get tested.
You could go to a free clinic and be tested.
But it sounds to me like you're fine. I've heard of people's bodies changing due to mental stress. So if you're stressing over being pregnant your body could just be adjusting. However, you should wait a little while longer and if your periods are still regular and the test it still negative, don't worry. I'm sure you're fine.
First of all it sounds like you wanna get pregnant, i had a baby at your age and trust me its no fun. i hope you are not trying to get pregnant because you are stupid if you are.
sounds like the birth control doing a number on your hormones esp if your body is still trying to get adjusted to it. I don't think you are pregnant, but to be on the safe side get another test. Good luck!!!
Hi I would definately be seeing a doctor. Im not saying that you are pregnant as this may not be the case. Worrying over things like a pregnancy can interfere with your menstrual cycle by delaying it or making it irregular. Being on birth control and taking it properly is a good contraceptive but like all contraceptives nothing is 100% effective. I would say to see a doctor though, even if you are not pregnant as it may be something else making your period out of whack. I'd say it is because you are stressing over it though, stress can make our body do weird things. I had a baby at 17, and I wouldnt change things for the world. Always know that there will always be people to help you and support you through a pregnancy and the birth.I think you are worrying though which is causing the irregularities. Good Luck :)
well u should go to a clinic so they can do the blood test just to make sure if you are or not, but when i got pregnant my symptons were sore breast... wow big time.... i oculdnt even move, but if you gor ut preiod wellmaybe ur sore because of that.... andu get cramps also
I highly doubt that you are pregnant if you got your period twice already and are on the pill. Its probably the stress thats giving you the symptoms, or sometimes even when you miss a dose of the pill it throws your body out of whack. If you want to know 100 percent go get a blood test. Your parents dont have to know becuase of the doctor patient confidentiality. STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX YOU CAN GET AIDS AND DIE!!
If you are on birth control, your pregnancy test was negative, and you are getting your period, you are not pregnant. You may be so stressed out that you are convincing yourself that you have symptoms that don't exist.
Yes you could be pregnant, there's always that small chance. It just takes that one time. Bleeding right after the egg emplanting is normal for some people. Light cramping was normal for me. You should take another test. If you are, you need to stop the pill and call your doc to let them know. If you are having a neg test and still having problems, cramping, bleeding off and on, you need to go in for a check up. STD's, Aids,,,,,Hepatitis,,,,,,all BAD things you don't want. STD's could mimic signs of pregnancy. You shouldn't be having sex, if you aren't prepared for consequences of possibly raising a child. You are still young and have much to do,,,,go to college....good job...so forth. Value yourself and what you are worth, not just by what you got between your legs.
Good luck to you.
I think your mind is playing tricks on you. You made a mistake by having unprotected sex, causing you to be freaked out about the possibility of being pregnant.
But just to be safe, take another pregnancy test. And I suggest you at least wait until you've finished high school to have sex (if you wait until age 20, you reduce your chances of cervical cancer), because birth control doesn't always work. Do you really want to deal with a baby at your age?
oh no
If you've had what feel like normal pregnancies, the little changes you've noticed might just be your body regulating. Being 17, you're still young enough that changes in your cycle are considered pretty normal. Sometimes my breasts are visibly larger either the week before or after my period, it's just part of the process.
If you think there's something going on, get a doctor's appointment. If you can, keep a log of your periods and what you think is different each month, it will help the doctor figure out if anything's wrong. Keep in mind that your cycle is affected by everything from the weather to stress, so if you think something's wrong, that could cause enough stress to alter your cycle. So don't worry yet, until you know you have something to worry about. Best of luck to you, whatever the outcome.
If you suspect the test are wrong, the only way to be totally positive about a pregnancy is to get a blood test. Is there a free clinic you can go to? Either way you should consult a nurse or doctor because if you are not pregnant these symptoms could be a sign of some other ailment.
if you are on the pill, and you take the pill everyday at the hour you have chosen, there is a very very very small chance of you actually getting pregnant. so small it`s not even taken into consideration.
so i advice you to calm down, if your period is coming and the test came up negative you are not pregnant.
best way to be 100% sure is to go to a gynecologist and he`ll make the pregnancy test, which is more accurate than the ones we buy in stores, and also answer your questions better than any of us (unless there is an gynecologist answering in yahoo).
i think your just going through a change in your cycle. Its normal to start having PMS symptoms around this age...you'll get pregnancy like symptoms like nausea, sensitive to smells, fatigue and bloating along with cramps. These symptoms as pregnancy usually start around after your late. Not before you start. I think your ok. Just keep track of your symptoms and your cycle so you know when its about to start.
Could just be you need to change pills.
If you think you might be pregnant, go get a blood test at the doctor, and if it comes up negitive, which it probably will, explain the symptoms to your doctor.
I had some break through bleeding, one almost absent period, and I was crampy, bloated and really moody the week before my period on my last formulation. I took a pregnancy test once to make sure, but it was negitive and I had a normal cycle for a couple months and then experienced the same problem.
There are tons of formulations and sometimes they just need to be swapped out.
I have been on 4 different formulations myself. Your hormones are constantly changing, especially at your age.
If you haven't been on the pill very long, it's possible that what you're seeing is just side effects of being on the pill. My hormones got pretty wonky when I took those.
Friday, April 30, 2010
I need help choosing a new laptop does anyone have some good advice in the thousand dollar range?
i am thinking dell, sony, or hpI need help choosing a new laptop does anyone have some good advice in the thousand dollar range?
Brand just doesn't matter - they all make junk and all make good models
I suggest Dell only because you can configure online all the exact components which should be:
1. any dual core CPU
2. any dedicated graphics such as ATI 3650 or NVidia 8600
3. any 7200 rpm hard drive
4. 4 gig of ram
It is unclear if those simple specs can be achieved for thousand dollars but you can poke around in the ';Dell Coupons'; link at notebookreview.com
Dell Studio 15 or 17 might be a possibility if you can configure it as above. Sometimes you have to talk to a Dell rep to get the right config and also they can deal on the price a bit...
I need help choosing a new laptop does anyone have some good advice in the thousand dollar range?
Try ebay... theres thousands on sale on ebay.. thats the wonder of ebay...whiteheads
Brand just doesn't matter - they all make junk and all make good models
I suggest Dell only because you can configure online all the exact components which should be:
1. any dual core CPU
2. any dedicated graphics such as ATI 3650 or NVidia 8600
3. any 7200 rpm hard drive
4. 4 gig of ram
It is unclear if those simple specs can be achieved for thousand dollars but you can poke around in the ';Dell Coupons'; link at notebookreview.com
Dell Studio 15 or 17 might be a possibility if you can configure it as above. Sometimes you have to talk to a Dell rep to get the right config and also they can deal on the price a bit...
I need help choosing a new laptop does anyone have some good advice in the thousand dollar range?
Try ebay... theres thousands on sale on ebay.. thats the wonder of ebay...
I play golf and i have hte WORST tan lines on my arms and legs. any advice to help me even it out?
OMG!! I totally had this problem when I played golf, lol...it doees really suck doesn't it? All of the other girls on my golf team never got such bad tan lines as I did, because my skin just tans very well. I mostly just didn't wear flip flops with shorts or capris, I would wear them with jeans and stuff...I just always covered up my lines so people couldn't see them. You could try a sunless tanner product, but be careful if you use it on your feet, I tryed that once, and it turned them this nasty orangeish color that looked awful!! You could just try going swimming and stuff to even out the color naturally, but idk...w/e you wanna try, go for it.I play golf and i have hte WORST tan lines on my arms and legs. any advice to help me even it out?
for now you can puteither high SPF on your tan part and see if that evens it out or put on self tannerI play golf and i have hte WORST tan lines on my arms and legs. any advice to help me even it out?
use a self tanner machine or buy self tanning lotion, buy jergens or dove. make sure you wash your hands or : hello orange hands.
for now you can puteither high SPF on your tan part and see if that evens it out or put on self tannerI play golf and i have hte WORST tan lines on my arms and legs. any advice to help me even it out?
use a self tanner machine or buy self tanning lotion, buy jergens or dove. make sure you wash your hands or : hello orange hands.
Advice to help me with a boy mate please?
I've got a boy mate who I'm really close to. He really likes girl who he's been dating on and off for ages and she always treats him like rubbish, but he always takes her back. Although me %26amp; our other mates have tried to help him get over her, I'm not sure if he ever will. I always hope he'll see sense but I don't think he can see how horrible she is, what should I do?Advice to help me with a boy mate please?
sounds like he is in love and only he will be able to see her faults when he is ready....Advice to help me with a boy mate please?
Lol, i have a boy mate like this too.
His lass has flirted wi loadsa other guys in the past [apparently one she asked sum1 else out when she was going out wi sum1]. Well basically i told him what me and my mate thort of her and that we thort he could do so much better than her, but guess what he said, 'i cant dump her i love her too much'. Anyway hes still wi her, and all that..yeh. But to be honest i dont think there is much you can do about this, until it comes to a point when he actually sez 'iv had enough, and then tells her where to shove it' xo
this sounds like your mate really likes this girl and wants to go out with her. you cant do anything to help him get over her even though you want to help. sooner or later he will relaise and see through her.
Did you like him? it sounds like you were. thats ok!
I say if care too much about him, and he himself does not care, I guess you should'nt try.
hmm... Having been in your situation and knowing its not easy, i really sympathise. The best thing to do is to tell your friend that you dont like his girlfriend, but your not trying to split them up. And then be there for when it all ends in tears.
sounds like he is in love and only he will be able to see her faults when he is ready....Advice to help me with a boy mate please?
Lol, i have a boy mate like this too.
His lass has flirted wi loadsa other guys in the past [apparently one she asked sum1 else out when she was going out wi sum1]. Well basically i told him what me and my mate thort of her and that we thort he could do so much better than her, but guess what he said, 'i cant dump her i love her too much'. Anyway hes still wi her, and all that..yeh. But to be honest i dont think there is much you can do about this, until it comes to a point when he actually sez 'iv had enough, and then tells her where to shove it' xo
this sounds like your mate really likes this girl and wants to go out with her. you cant do anything to help him get over her even though you want to help. sooner or later he will relaise and see through her.
Did you like him? it sounds like you were. thats ok!
I say if care too much about him, and he himself does not care, I guess you should'nt try.
hmm... Having been in your situation and knowing its not easy, i really sympathise. The best thing to do is to tell your friend that you dont like his girlfriend, but your not trying to split them up. And then be there for when it all ends in tears.
Need some potty training help/advice please!!!?
My 18 month old girl keep telling me soon as she's had a poo or even just a wee that she needs her nappy changing!! I've been told this is a good sign to start potty training - i thought it a bit young - maybe not though!! I have no idea where to start! Please help!!Need some potty training help/advice please!!!?
Well, she's definitely ready if she is telling you to change her nappy. If it's summertime where you are put some undies on her, or training pants. Let her run around outside and remind her to tell you when she needs to go. She's going to have (lots) of accidents but this will be a true indicator if she's ready or not. Good luck!Need some potty training help/advice please!!!?
Well ma'am I am 13 for starters and am also a red-cross babysitter with a license and ma'am your daughter needs tough love sit her on a Special potty seat in front of the tv and she has to stay there until she poops or pees and gets a hour off then back on again and repeat this until she has it down pact and in no time she'll be right on track and also the more often she goes the more time you give her off it's a win win to me I have also did this for 4 of the kids I babysat and the parents loved it by the way you could choose whether or not you want to serve her breakfast and lunch there or at the table!!
Yes she's definitely showing the signs of a toddler who's ready to potty train. First introduce the potty to her, you can get books that introduce potties or you could sit her doll on the potty for example, just so it isn't daunting. If she attends nursery they can give you some tips and work together with you to train her. Be prepared for potty training to take time. Good luck!
My 16 month old just started doing that too. My husband went out and bought her a potty. We left it in her play area for a few days and talked to her about it saying that its a potty and its for big girls and asking her if she wants to sit on it. After a few days of playing with it and getting comfortable with it, we put it in the bathroom. Now we ask her all the time if she needs to go potty and if she wants to try and sit on her potty. Sometimes she will sometimes she wont. But when she tells us she is dirty while we change her we talk to her about how she did potty in her diaper and next time try and tell us before she goes and she can go like a big girl in her potty. I've also started putting her on her potty at times I know she needs to go like when she first wakes up, before and after nap, and before bath time. She sits for a while we sing potty songs and read a potty book. When she does go we praise her a lot and make it a big deal. She smiles and seems proud of herself. We are no where close but were starting to introduce it to her.
i introduced the potty to my daughter at 15 mos before she told me she had to go, go get her a potty and sit it in the bathroom. let her go to the bathroom with you. let her sit on the potty to if she wants. but start putting her on the potty as soon as she wakes up until she pees. if she hasnt peed in the first half hour give her a half hour break and do it again. the first time she pees or poos in it act like your favorite team just one the super bowl and praise the heck out her. she ll love it and want to do it more. my daughter was completely potty trained by 23 mos good luck
if she is telling you that she is dirty and that she will be ready a her pants and summer is the best time to teach her also she will have some accidents don't worry she will get there i started my we boy age 2 and hes now out of them even at night age 3
Well, she's definitely ready if she is telling you to change her nappy. If it's summertime where you are put some undies on her, or training pants. Let her run around outside and remind her to tell you when she needs to go. She's going to have (lots) of accidents but this will be a true indicator if she's ready or not. Good luck!Need some potty training help/advice please!!!?
Well ma'am I am 13 for starters and am also a red-cross babysitter with a license and ma'am your daughter needs tough love sit her on a Special potty seat in front of the tv and she has to stay there until she poops or pees and gets a hour off then back on again and repeat this until she has it down pact and in no time she'll be right on track and also the more often she goes the more time you give her off it's a win win to me I have also did this for 4 of the kids I babysat and the parents loved it by the way you could choose whether or not you want to serve her breakfast and lunch there or at the table!!
Yes she's definitely showing the signs of a toddler who's ready to potty train. First introduce the potty to her, you can get books that introduce potties or you could sit her doll on the potty for example, just so it isn't daunting. If she attends nursery they can give you some tips and work together with you to train her. Be prepared for potty training to take time. Good luck!
My 16 month old just started doing that too. My husband went out and bought her a potty. We left it in her play area for a few days and talked to her about it saying that its a potty and its for big girls and asking her if she wants to sit on it. After a few days of playing with it and getting comfortable with it, we put it in the bathroom. Now we ask her all the time if she needs to go potty and if she wants to try and sit on her potty. Sometimes she will sometimes she wont. But when she tells us she is dirty while we change her we talk to her about how she did potty in her diaper and next time try and tell us before she goes and she can go like a big girl in her potty. I've also started putting her on her potty at times I know she needs to go like when she first wakes up, before and after nap, and before bath time. She sits for a while we sing potty songs and read a potty book. When she does go we praise her a lot and make it a big deal. She smiles and seems proud of herself. We are no where close but were starting to introduce it to her.
i introduced the potty to my daughter at 15 mos before she told me she had to go, go get her a potty and sit it in the bathroom. let her go to the bathroom with you. let her sit on the potty to if she wants. but start putting her on the potty as soon as she wakes up until she pees. if she hasnt peed in the first half hour give her a half hour break and do it again. the first time she pees or poos in it act like your favorite team just one the super bowl and praise the heck out her. she ll love it and want to do it more. my daughter was completely potty trained by 23 mos good luck
if she is telling you that she is dirty and that she will be ready a her pants and summer is the best time to teach her also she will have some accidents don't worry she will get there i started my we boy age 2 and hes now out of them even at night age 3
What i am tring to say is i want out i need help advice i'm currently in a absuive realtionship?
Get out asap. If he is abusing you he doesnt love you or respact you no matter what you think.
it is never ok eventually it will turn to Physical if it hasnt already. tell your friend or parents
i dont know the whole situation but
please e-mail me
i have training in this and i could help you more
and give you help lines.
The most important thing is to get a safe place and
be firm with him and tell him its over.
Dont let him minipulate you stay strongWhat i am tring to say is i want out i need help advice i'm currently in a absuive realtionship?
Go to your parents, if you live with him and you explain to them, they'll let you come home and dump him till you get back on your feet, they're there to help.What i am tring to say is i want out i need help advice i'm currently in a absuive realtionship?
go to ur friends house call him on the phone tell him its over...then the next day go to the police and file a report..im sorry this has happened to u but u need to get him off the streets so he doesnt do this to another girl good luck girl =)
you need to go to someone and ask them if you can stay at their house till you get on your feet. parents freinds anyone. make sure when you move you do it when he's not home and you have time to get your things. if you think it'll be a problem get the cops involved.
Leave him/her go to DHS for help if you need to before it is to late. I would not want to here about a tragic death on the news. Please get out before it is to late.
it is never ok eventually it will turn to Physical if it hasnt already. tell your friend or parents
i dont know the whole situation but
please e-mail me
i have training in this and i could help you more
and give you help lines.
The most important thing is to get a safe place and
be firm with him and tell him its over.
Dont let him minipulate you stay strongWhat i am tring to say is i want out i need help advice i'm currently in a absuive realtionship?
Go to your parents, if you live with him and you explain to them, they'll let you come home and dump him till you get back on your feet, they're there to help.What i am tring to say is i want out i need help advice i'm currently in a absuive realtionship?
go to ur friends house call him on the phone tell him its over...then the next day go to the police and file a report..im sorry this has happened to u but u need to get him off the streets so he doesnt do this to another girl good luck girl =)
you need to go to someone and ask them if you can stay at their house till you get on your feet. parents freinds anyone. make sure when you move you do it when he's not home and you have time to get your things. if you think it'll be a problem get the cops involved.
Leave him/her go to DHS for help if you need to before it is to late. I would not want to here about a tragic death on the news. Please get out before it is to late.
What is your advice for helping someone feel good about the way they feel when They are down?
Always remember '; This too shall pass ';. If you recognize that you are down then start working your self out of it. Do something..Go out with friends,walk the dogs,read,get into a house cleaning frenzy. Most of the time we get down because we are not busy..We have too much time to think and wallow in self pity ----so mentally dig a hole and bury that feeling and those negative thoughts and put on some up beat music and start dancing...Get busy..The down want have a chance..All things work out in the end...This too shall pass.What is your advice for helping someone feel good about the way they feel when They are down?
A big hug and a listening ear.What is your advice for helping someone feel good about the way they feel when They are down?
always look on the bright side of life
du du du du
always look on the bright side of life
du du du du
lifes a piece on s h i t when you look at it....
Look at yourself in the mirror, feel sorry for yourself, then cry until you can't cry no more.... that's how I used to make myself feel better when I was younger. Now I get mad, cry, then move on.
well before i'd give that person some advice, i would encourage him/her to talk about it and cry if you must. then i would tell him/her God wouldn't make you feel this way if you aren't strong enough to get through it.
Tell them to look in the mirror and point out all the good things about him/her.
ex) nice eyes, funny, smart, long legs, skinny, muscular, kind, etc.
That always works for everyone I know!
A big hug and a listening ear.What is your advice for helping someone feel good about the way they feel when They are down?
always look on the bright side of life
du du du du
always look on the bright side of life
du du du du
lifes a piece on s h i t when you look at it....
Look at yourself in the mirror, feel sorry for yourself, then cry until you can't cry no more.... that's how I used to make myself feel better when I was younger. Now I get mad, cry, then move on.
well before i'd give that person some advice, i would encourage him/her to talk about it and cry if you must. then i would tell him/her God wouldn't make you feel this way if you aren't strong enough to get through it.
Tell them to look in the mirror and point out all the good things about him/her.
ex) nice eyes, funny, smart, long legs, skinny, muscular, kind, etc.
That always works for everyone I know!
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