I need alot of advice and help from anyonee.! please?

Okay so I just found out that I was pregnant yesterday and my boyfriend was okay about it but now like 5 minutes ago he told me we needed a break because hes not feeling the relationship anymore. We were doing great earlier today.. ugh i just dont what to do. He finds out im pregnant then leaves me. what should I do.? and by the way im 17 turning 18 in septemberI need alot of advice and help from anyonee.! please?
There is nothing that you can do unfortunately. That's the thing with immature boys. Hang in there! It's not just dealing with teenagers. I was 22 and had my career all in order. My ex was 27 his career was all in check as well. He broke up with me when I was pregnant. I cried everyday for a month. Then something inside me snapped and figured out I better without him. He sees our daughter regularly. I don't like the guy. I tolerate him for my daughter. She deserves to have he dad in her life. Ten years later I'm married have my oldest a two year old and one on the way. You have a long road ahead of you. It'll get worse before it gets better. I promise it will get better. Lean on your family and friends that's what they are there for!I need alot of advice and help from anyonee.! please?
How long have you been dating? He is probably scared because he is so young and the responsibility of becoming a father is surreal. Talk to his family if they are accepting of you, otherwise I am pro choice so think clearly about what you want to do before you go farther. If you decide you want to keep it then work on getting stable an hope he will come around, if not, there are other guys out there who will accept you later, just think things through first. Good luck!
I'm sorry to hear that=(


I'm going throu the same,my ex was in Iraq for 5 months...and as soon as he cameback he left me like the 2nd day...I was 6 months preggo. He went to what I thought was an ex fiance but I guess never was. Its so hard,I love him but it hurts I'm going throu so much because of him. Now its to the point where I'm realizing that maybe its for the best,I don't even want to talk to him,everyday he's becoming more cruel,heartless,and causes me pain. But when I feel her kick,move every single tear is worth it,so I'm not worried,I have great family and friends supporting me. Don't do anything stupid because of him,love for child doesn't compare to0 any other. I hope that ur guy is just scared,it could be that,and I hope things work out for you.


Good luck!
He's probably freaking out. Going by statistics with teen pregnancies, there's a good chance he's bailing on the relationship. I don't know if you are planning on keeping the baby or not, but if you are still thinking about this, I would think about it assuming that he won't be in the picture. I'm sorry, but if he says that now, there's a chance he won't be around for you or the baby later. I know it's harsh, but you should be prepared for all the outcomes. I might be wrong, and I hope I am!
It sounds like he's just scared and he's freaking out. Give him some time to think things over.
He could just be scared, becoming a dad is a huge step. Give him some time to get used to the idea.





If he doesn't come around make sure you get him for child support and consider yourself better off without him.





good luck!
You need to get into high gear now and present him with legal papers that say that he will support the baby for the next 18 years, whether he is ';feeling the relationship'; with you or not. Or he can sign away his parental rights, then you look for a family to adopt this baby and pay your expenses during the pregnancy. Accept the fact, that doing great together is not real and lasting, in light of this responsibility. It's easy to be doing great together until real life hits you in the face. He may never be ready to accept the responsibility for you and his baby and you need to take a long look at his ability to support you, a home and a baby. Don't hang on to unrealistic hope and dreams, you're a mommy now and need to do what is best for this innocent baby.
The thing about pregnancy is that it forces the father to either accept the situation or bolt away from it. Remember your pregnancy options including termination if you are not ready to have a baby.
Im sorry but he sounds like a dirtbag, he needs to take responsibility for his actions!! and you need to tell him that, he may not want to be in a relationship but let him know there is no way he is leaving you to raise that baby alone! He is just as responsible for that miracle as you are, and please let him know that, this baby deserves a chance!!
becoming a dad is a major step and its going to change his life forever. he probably is freaking out and doesn't know what to do with himself. give him a little space so he can figure things out.


make sure that you include him in drs appointments and stuff like that.


if he doesn't come around you can make sure he pays child support and at the very least sees his child once in a while.





i hope this helps you out a little bit, you are in a tough situation, just stay strong and be brave you can make it through this! good luck!
AWW Honey. Yes as the other person said before me. This is a VERY VERY VERY large step in his life becoming a father, and yours becoming a mommy. I know that things may seem like they are going all bad for you right now but give you booh a little bit of space and see what he really wants to do. Talk to him and ask him is he willing to walk out on both you and the baby and see what he says. I know you will make the correct decision and you will be a great mommy to your new bundle of joy.
He's probably terrified of the fact that he's going to be a father. Give him time, maybe he'll cool down and you guys can be a family if not then just focus on your baby!
You should have counseling for the two of you. And parenting classes. If he is the dad, he has to deal with it. People always say you can't force someone to deal with an issue. But he impregnated an underage girl and he needs to deal with it and be more of an adult.