Friday, April 30, 2010

Advice/ help appreciated; 10 pts.!!!!?

I really like a guy I work with who's like 6 years older than me. I'm pretty mature for my age I'm17 and at the AoC (age of consent). He's an assistant manager and I've been told doesn't believe in ';fishing from the company pond';. I've been told he finds me attractive by a few different people. He knows I like him, and he flirts all the time. Only with me too, which is annoying considering he hasn't acted on it.





I've been trying to let it go and move on. We're not extremely close friends or anything, we just talk back and forth every so often. I'm really shy, I blush when I talk to him about anything. (I never really used to as much; now I've just become overbearingly shy and can barely speak to him.) Over the past few days I've been completely avoiding talking to him or being around him. He seems concerned, and has attempted to listen in when I talk to my friends (who are also my co workers) about it.


At this point, though It would be nice, I'm not after a relationship. I just want my independence. I just want him to act or let it go. If it can't happen then I don't want to make an awkward situation worse by saying something. (As I said before, he KNOWS I like him, he should say something if he feels the same way)








Another thing is that he doesn't drive, and I do. It kind of bothers me...


how should I handle this?Advice/ help appreciated; 10 pts.!!!!?
If you don't feel conformable telling him yourself write a letter to him and have a friend give it to him after your shift is over. Tell him if he likes you he better make a move cause you're not gonna be a sitting duck for long. In the letter tell him that you don't plan on working where you are forever cause I'm assuming your gonna go to college or try to find a better job so it's not like it would make a werid work environment and you would keep it totally professional inside of the work place. Tell him that if he wants ya he'd better make a move leave your cell phone number on the letter you write and leave it at that. If he doesn't respond he's just not that into you and he don't know what he's missing.Advice/ help appreciated; 10 pts.!!!!?
I worked in an office full of secretary's. If you are willing to open your life to every ones opinions,... You also state you're not in a relationship, You don't say much about this man-likes you, doesn't drive. At 17 you're interested in a man who is 23. Why doesn't he drive? Do you realize that a boy 6 years younger than you would be 11. A friend of mine had an 11 year old sister who wanted to have sex with me when I was 13. This made no sense to me. There was no question in my mind-that was not going to happen.
Just be friends with him. Build on friendship if u want so that if u end up working s'where else you two might have a chance. Flirt back if u want. Don't put ur heart into it and don't b so serious. He might not want to go to jail b/ ur 17. He can't act if he's a supervisor anyway. Besides a little fun at work doesn't hurt anyone. B light hearted. Find another fish in the sea.

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