Boyfriend help (advice)?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year.


%26amp; this year I am graduating.


I have to move and I don't want a long distance relationship, but I don't want to end things.


This is the real deal.


He says we should just take a break, but I think that's just his way of doing what he wants when Im gone.


I don't want to lose him or how close we are.


What should I do?





HELP!Boyfriend help (advice)?
make up your mind if you go he is free to do the nasty with who ever he wants. you want it both ways, that is a bit wacky.Boyfriend help (advice)?
hes probably right- take a break...cause long distance is hard- you can remain friends- just know he may date other girls..more than likely..just keep in touch
If you really have to move but don't want your relationship to end, and then you guys can most certainly have a long distance relationship. If you guys are really serious about each other, you wouldn't even have to ask about what you should do, because you would know that you would keep the relationship going, despite the long distance thing. I can understand why you are worried, you wont be able to see him as much as you do now, and you could be worried about what he's doing while you're away. If he's saying you guys should take a break, then it seems like maybe he doesn't like the idea of a long distance relationship, and he really means you guys should split up before you leave. Because no matter what, when you are gone, he will be able to do WHAT HE WANTS, so you just need to be sure that it is the real deal, and you both want to be with each other. I'm sorry about you having to go through this!
explain to him how you feel if need be have a break and stay in touch as friends and see what happens when you get home after college. you may be able to pick back where you left off or it mite be good to move on for both of you.
There's really nothing you can do, you say you don't want a long distance relationship and I'm sure you can't take him with you. Let him go and keep in touch. If its meant to be, it will be. Have your own fun and try not to worry about him.

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