In desperate need of help and advice ?

so today, i realized that im average.


there is nothing amazing about me.


my body is average. my looks are average.


my grades are average. my athletic ability is average.


also, im going to the gyno for the first time tomorrow and i want to kill myself.


how can i help myself change my opinions ?


please. i dont know what to do and im tired of feeling like this.In desperate need of help and advice ?
I used to feel that way. Everything about me was average and that I was nothing special. But then I had a few really good friends who I was close with and had fun hanging out with... And developed some hobbies that I truly enjoy and honestly all that matters is enjoying my life. Having fun where I can, learning things that make me happy and as long as I don't internalize and think too hard about myself then I'm happy.





I think if you aren't happy with your life right now, you should really try to see a therapist, I have a wonderful one who is, at the very least, a sympathetic ear.In desperate need of help and advice ?
Stop comparing yourself to others and learn to love yourself. Looks decay. There will always be a winner. No one said you had to be brilliant. But you have to learn to love yourself. Hold your head high in the sky. Nothing is more beautiful than a girl who knows how to wear her smile :)
I would just like to say that I saw your other question, and you are a very pretty girl. :} I am so envious, I will not lie. You know, an average is a statistic. So rather than comparing yourself to other people, by calling yourself average, look at what you excell in. And I am sure something is there. :) Don't worry about the gyno either. Looking at vaginas is their job. They won't be judging you. Be happy girl. (And I meant it. You're gorgeous!)
Trust me your not just average. Nobody is there is something special in all of use. You may not see it but its there. try asking other people. You may get a response you don't expect.
just do what you enjoy and you will eventually find something :)


maybe its writing songs


or giving people advice


or teaching


or helping people


or photography


or maybe theres a sport that you never tried that you are actually really good at!


for example, jorge posada of the new york yankees is a terribly slow runner, but hes really good at being a catcher! dont worry, it will take time, but you'll find it. i havent yet either...btw good luck at the gyno!! just pretend that the gyno is hermionie granger and maybe it wont be so bad hahaa