OK, so i have been with this girl for little over a year and a half, we have had our ups and downs. we broke up for a while due to the fact that she ';needed her time';. and now we have been together about 6 month, but during our break she slept with another guy a few time and to this day it still upsets me and i find it affecting me in a negative way. idk what to thinkGirlfriend advice. help?
If you slept with another girl during that time, or if you led your GF to believe you did, you really don't have a leg to stand on. Get both of you tested for diseases and when you're sure you are both clean, get over it and keep on stepping. If you were 100% faithful, even during your breakup, well, then you have to decide if you love this girl enough to forgive her for dating someone else while she wasn't going steady with you....that sounded kind of weird, didn't it? I guess the question is whether you were both virgins the first time you got together, because if not, I'd say you're even. That is, you slept with someone else when you weren't going with her, too.
If you wanted her to be faithful during ';her time';, did you say so? Did she promise that she would save herself and only sleep with you?
If you did not ask and she did not promise, either get over it or move on. In either case, I strongly recommend that you are tested for disease, because even if that other guy seems like a good egg and looks like a clean person, who knows? He might have had a hankering for a punch-board one night and picked up every disease any of her several hundred lovers may have given her.
Best wishes for a healthy future.Girlfriend advice. help?
well technically you were broken up for a while so basically what she did during that time it's her buisness and not your but w/e i mean you have the right to be kind of upset b/c i mean you are sticking your p.enis is her va jay jay which had been with another guy so i can see where you are coming from. next time when you break up for a while just to get her back you should sleep with a random girl to get even with her i'm not saying revenge is the best thing but i mean it is an option. but yeah don't dump her for it unless of course it was the day after you broke up that she slept with that other guy than you can break up with her forever
whats the point in staying with sumone if they have fooked sumone else? they dont truly love u cause they woudlnt have put themsleves in that position in the first place if she truly loved u she wouldnt have needed her time she would have wanted more n more of ur time she would have wanted to be in ur arms every second of everyday
You shouldn't be with anyone that makes you uncomfortable. She's done something that bothers you and you will never look at her the same. Can you really see yourself a few more years with this girl and that uncomfortable feeling lingering?
I'm sorry bro. I didn't know she was your girl. I won't let it happen again. If it helps any, she likes her hair in being pulled and on a rare passionate occasion will go brown eye to mouth. After such fun, you will forget about the Dirty Dog and be very sleepy.
i think that you should move on and find a new girl. i dont think she deserves you if she sleeps with an other guy on a break. so just call it off and go get an new girl that will be loyal to you.
Think what you wish, but I wouldn't have continued to be with her after she slept with another man while you two were taking a break. i don't believe that's love.
get over it....if she needed a break you shoulda set her on the curb then.....if you love her then you need to put it behind you like a man that made a mistake....
';she needs her time'; if this girl really likes you, she shouldn't eve think about another person. No good guy deserves that, find someone, else.
its hard but think what it would be like without her, if you want to stay with her then stay, the past is the past you know?
thats gross knowing someones been in your woman
break it off
she broke up with you and slept with someone in her ';peace time';?
wth is that?
Not to be with her. You need a polite life partner!
Date me
Dump her...there is plenty of fish in the sea ...
Ya.....What Dusty man said...Kick her to the curb
Thursday, December 31, 2009
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