i have horrible trust issues. I am always fearing the worst for no reason. I have no reason not to trust my gf but i just cant help but to worry. my gf has a lot of guy friends and i don't want her around them bc i don't want anything to happen. Can anyone give me tips on how to control these thoughts and be able to be worry free with my gf.Can anyone help me with relationship advice?
I think u should stop stressing .I mean u have girl friend's 2 and try to figure out why it is that makes u insecure.Is it past relationship's that u've had ? If it is than u just need to remember that not everyone is the same . And u just cant stress ur self out like that ....U cant blame that person for what sum-1 else did .Can anyone help me with relationship advice?
Well if you know they're just guy friends and she tells u they're just guy friends than u should trust her. This is what you should be thinking constantly: If she liked one of those guys and not you, SHE WOULDN'T BE WITH YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!! I also suggest that you not be over jealous because that really might drive her away. Knowing that you trust her will probably make her like you even more. But whatever you do, do NOT accuse her of anything you're not 100% sure of (and by that, i mean you SAW her doing it) because that will her hurt and might lead her to think ';well, he thinks im doing it anyway, so why not go ahead and do it';. So just trust her and be happy with her and don't accuse her of doing anything bc thats probably just gonna cause more drama for you and her lol
It's natural to be a little jealous, but it sounds like you just need to work on your self confidence! Just know that you're so wonderful, she wouldn't hook up with one of them, and if she did she's an idiot. By trusting yourself and knowing that you're an awesome bf, it'll be easier to trust her.
you have the same name as me, and you sound like me man. U ROCK
Sunday, December 27, 2009
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