OCPD - help just found out my fiance has OCPD - What to do? Any advice?

He has made some very ';compulsive'; choices throughout his life. Now I am beginning to see the pattern of his choices and see that many of the choices are not for our good and cause problems - financial and time investment focused only on one thing - these are the main concerns!!OCPD - help just found out my fiance has OCPD - What to do? Any advice?
You say you found out he has it, is this an observation or a diagnosis? Sounds like you are prepared to help him through this, good for you. There is alot of help out there, but I think he will probably have to be identified as having the disorder before alot of the resources are available. However, plenty of books, websites and community people have tons of info on this. I have added a few, but be sure to look for something in your community, as it may lead to hands on help. Good luck.





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BEFORE you marry him for your sake and his tell him that you two have to get some professional help. His disorder can be treated and his acknowledgement of it and decisions do have hope. However, you have to be willing to seek the treatment too. Spouses of OCD people really need to have a true understanding of the disorder too. It affects you too, obviously. He really needs to get this help prior to an actually wedding or you could find yourself in a worse condition than what your complaints are already! Good Luck!!
This is what I would do, you dont have to... this is a free site and technique that is reportedly working (read articles) www.emofree.com and then I would change errors in diet, lifestyle, and get healthy.... off processed foods, sugar, etc....


you might try michael thurmonds site for body type and diet...


you might try a naturopathic, homeopathic, or someone trained to find food /chemical sensativities


You two are just going to have to get healthy... regular therapy and medicine will just put you on expensive drugs that dont help, and tell you there is no cure..... that isnt true, go to the site I gave you and see for yourself that people are healing from this...