Ok. i never saw him until July last year. We are never in the same class so I don't know how he's like. But I know he's name. He's one of the popular guys so many of the girls like him. Almost nobody except people from my class know my name. One of my friend is in his class n she told me he's really nice and kind. My friends say '; he doesn't know your name, he doesn't even notice you n Blah Blah Blah'; I know its true its never gonna happen but I can't help it. I mean wat should I do? What should I do to make him notice me? I know your gonna tell me to go n say Hi/ Hello but i'm too shy. your also gonna tel me to be myself but it doesn't work so give me some good advice please...Is this gonna work? What should I do? Am I in love? Give me some advice.. HELP?
the best thing to do b4 making a move is to notice him, examine him c what he does in certain situations ... like for 1 how does he react infront of girls specially the 1s who dress a bit 'provocatively' n act a bit flirty n stuff ... n if anybody falls or drops sumtin infront of him accidentally (u cud do it urself if u want to) does he help them? or ignore them? dis way u can find out what type of personality he has n if u like it n if u feel hes an open person then go ahead conversate with him in the best suitable way n u can read psycology books to help Good luck n God bless sweets....
P.S: u dont need to dress like a 'hottie' or sumtin to get his attention u can dress prettily yet conservatively guys dont c many girls dress dat way now n dat may hopefully make him like u (i'm saying this from experience)Is this gonna work? What should I do? Am I in love? Give me some advice.. HELP?
Well, what you already know is true. It works to a certain degree.
But, if you have friends you can really trust, then ask them to help you out. Say, for example, chat the guy up (for the bolder of your friends) and then have you around, then say.. maybe.. something that would require a reply from you, and then have your friend introduce you.
You can start with that._ If you don't have friends you can trust, then you'll really have to muster the courage to take a bold step forward. :) Ball's in your court.
I have a suspicion that the people telling you those negative things, like him as well and would be jealous if the two of you dated. Unfortunately the only surefire way to get him to notice you is to smile at him and say hello. Meet his gaze for a few seconds only though so he doesn't get spooked or think that you are some sort of stalker. When you have the chance try to start up a conversation. These things take time; just be a little patient. Good luck to you.
yeah...everybody will say say hello hi stuff....cuz its tue girl! just dont be shy!! why be shy??
DO NOT BE SHY!!
go to him...
flrt and all!
good luck
byee
tc
make your self noticeable make him know who you are
so he'll come up to u and ask for your name
make him want to know you
Make urself look hot, and walk past him to make him notice u so hes like ';WOAAAA WHO IS THAATT!'; and then hes urs. :)
you have to take a step if u really like him DO SOMETHING
add him on msn so then when you talk to him he cant see you!
Yes, I was gonna say ';say Hi.'; =P
Your eventually going to have to do it, anyway; how else are you going to have a conversation?
Anyhow, maybe your friend in his class knows him well enough to talk to him like in the hall [and you come over to talk to her and introduce yourself] or do you have the same lunch period (Start sitting at his table with a few friends if so and warm up to him- but don't give off just friend vibes)? Find his interests and sorta set up a date after that - a group date if your still a little uncomfortable, maybe 2 extra friends. [Suggestions- ';Hey you hear about the new movie coming out..(fill in).. You think it looks any good?? He responds. [If he says yes]- We should go see it';
Also don't be shy; a few of my friends are considered shy, but in all actuallity they are far from it. ';We are all born with unlimited potential'; and only we ourselves can halter our own abilities. (People have even called me shy before- even though i'm not) If you really like him just go for it. Whats the worse that can happen, you dont have chemistry? At least you will know and can find another hot guy. Really just go for it.... [P.S. if i was able to ask a guy to prom you can talk to a guy and maybe ask him out]
Oh by the way cosmopolitan.com has some good advice on this kinda stuff.
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