Please I really need some advice to help a friend!

My friend is going through a tough time right now. I sent her an e-mail asking if she was ok and this is what she e-mailed back...


no i'm not okay.


my grandpa is in the hospital and not doing well.


eric is mad at me cause i'm not in a good mood so i kinda told him off so now we're on a break. and i don't want to be.


i want to watch a movie and ppl keep interrupting me.


i want to do a fall activity that my family doesn't approve of.


my mom thinks i cant do this job that was just offered to me and i have an interview on friday.


i got hit on by a lesbian who didn't understand that i didn't return the feelings.


i hate everyone.


i wanna be with my grandpa.


and i can't take any more of this **** anymore!!!!!!!!!





I don't know how to help or comfort her or maybe I should just lay back and let Jesus Christ (yes I'm catholic and proud of it) play it all out. Please help me. I need the advice. ThanksPlease I really need some advice to help a friend!
well ask if she can come over nd spend the nite


2 ur house nd show her a fun time to try to get her mind off her grandpaPlease I really need some advice to help a friend!
if you have a praying friend, invite her over for an intense prayer session to uplift her. pray for her and her grandfather. then it will be easier for her to deal with her other problems. and if you want, the both of you can talk to her boyfriend and make him understand that she is going thru a rough time. things may get even easier for her with her partner by her side. then with these first two problems solved, it will be easier for her to solve the others, or at least deal with. i hope everything gets better for you both
Wow Well you can't do much like i think you should stay by her side to help her get pass this.





For her grandpa she can't do nothing but pray and hope for the best





For her friend i think that she should call him back and tell him why she acted like that. If she does'nt want to call him then ask her if you can do it, because he may say somthing and she may just flip out on him. Tell him that she is having a bead time now. For to break up with her now was the wrose time ever he should be there to help her out.





For the fall activity maybe her mom does'nt want her to go because it's to much money. Or she wants her to be safe.





The watching a movie thing... Tell her to go to a different room and wach the movie. If she can't go anywhere else to see the movie tell her to call the t.v ... meaning she tells people the time she is going to wach t.v and tells them at that time she does't want to bothered. So everyone knows not to try to wach t.v at that time or to bother you at that time.





For her mom not thinking that you can't do that job she can tell her that you want to try it. It's what she is goign to work as not her.





About that lesbian forget about her.. if she don't get it. Then just tell her not to stand or be around her.





As for you as a friend just be there for her and don;t give up on her. Just try to make her smile etc.





Good luck and i hope her grandpa gets better!!!!



tell her that you are really sorry. ask her if she wants to go to the mall or something to keep her mind off of all these issues. ooo maybe take her to a spa so she can get a massage, manicure, and pedicure with you so she can try to get rid of the stress and relax while talking to you. Can you drive? Maybe you can take her so she can see her grandpa. good luck. your friend is having a really hard time and she is stressing a lot so she needs you there. keep her company. have her over to your house or something so she can let out all of her feelings to you. just sit there right in front of her and look at her for the whole conversation while she gives you her heart and tells you about her issues. she would really appreciate that. she needs you :)