My boyfriend plans to break up with me when I go to college. Need some advice. Help?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. I will be entering college this fall, He will be a college senior. We have talked about having a future together and both know it is what we want. We have been through a lot in the previous months. To make a long story short i broke his trust. It has made things really hard because trust is very important to him. Now he wants to take a break for my freshman year because he thinks i will meet a guy and leave him. He says if it happens and we are on a break at least he won't get as hurt. He says that i can't tell him i won't meet another guy because anything can happen. I know i do not want another guy and everything inside me tells me he is the one and that this will last. But he says all of that can change.


We have already made it through a lot of rough times (he is in the military) and I truly believe we can make it through college. I know things can change but I fell that my love for him will not. I do not want to take a break when i go. I know anything is possible but i just do not believe my love for him will go away.





Am i being selfish for not wanting a break?


Am i crazy for thinking he is the one?


Am i wrong for thinking we can make it through college?


How can I get him to trust me enough to stay with me?


Is it even possible to get him to stay with me?


What can I do????My boyfriend plans to break up with me when I go to college. Need some advice. Help?
BREAK UP WITH HIM FIRST!My boyfriend plans to break up with me when I go to college. Need some advice. Help?
break up with him first.


you're at diff. points in your relaitonship and if you don't slow down or he don't slow down it's not gonna work out anyway.;





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To loving some one and then leaving isn't easy . . . .Hmmmm SORRY on suggestion . . . . . . but i wanna say one thing for a Guy Trust, its really metters lot. . . .
there will be lots of men in college, leave the boys behind.
BREAK UP
he is hitting **** like crazy behind your back... when your clam hits his college he is busted, no more random clams.
Let me see if I understand what you said.





';To make a long story short i broke his trust'; ...perchance, does that mean you screwed another guy? Lets assume it does.





So, now he wants to cut you loose because your going to be away at collage. AND you've already proved your not trustworthy.





I don't understand what your confusion is here. You think this guy is ';the one'; so much that you went out and screwed another guy? Are you seriously baffled about why he would want to break up with such a female?





You want him to trust you so that he'll stay. Sweetie, seems to me that time to build trust between you two has done gone past.... You remember the night when the opportunity was to build trust? That's right. It was the night you should have kept your legs closed.





You have seriously buried any chance at a relationship with this guy....especially if he's into trust as much as you say he is.





Well, lets all hope you learned your lesson and won't repeat this same error with the next guy.
Well, you have to understand that the number one thing that hurts a man is when his woman breaks his trust. Now, he is a college senior and for him to be breaking up with you when you enter college seems kind of strange. Im not trying to cloud your mind with crazy thoughts but I am saying that there are different ways to look at why.





1. He could be upset that you hurt him and he probably has seen couples break up because of college. I mean he has been in college for 3 years so he knows some stuff.





2. There are plenty of guys in college and you have not experienced the different kinds of guys so he feels that if you hurt him in while you were in high school, (where there arent many guys with big status, careers, or goals), then it is a definite deal for his reason to believe you will hurt him in college (where there are guys who are head of organizations, big futures, serious guys).





3. Maybe he feels that he is not good enough to compare with guys he's seen in college and that you may be attracted to them. For any reason (body, brains, popularity, dreams, etc.) He probably feels he cant compare with these guys, and feels they can probably do for you more than he can.





There are many reasons why he may feel like he needs a break. Maybe you should go to him, comfort him, apologize for whatever it is you did to break his trust and (since you believe he's the one) promise him that you will always represent him wherever you go. And encourage him by telling him that he is all you need and more. And DO NOT only tell him this. PROVE IT THROUGH YOUR ACTIONS.