What do I do? Need help and advice about my best friend.?

I have known my best friend (girl) for 2 years now. I am a guy. We used to be so close, and did absolutely everything together. Now she has a new boyfriend, who she told me about even before they got together. She does everything with him now, and hardly ever texts and calls me. I always intiate conversation.


She still says we are best mates but things will be different, but she said I don't like you any less than I did. But when we meet up, she does not really want to be there, she just does it so she has ticked the box and has met up with us.


I am in two minds with this relationship - either to leave her to it, and let her come and find me when she is ready, or just to stay with her and feel a lot of pain inside. I try to tell her how I feel but she gets angry and so does her boyfriend. I am also jealous and feel very lost.


She is changing. I don't know what to do anymore. Any advice before its too late.What do I do? Need help and advice about my best friend.?
People change. Her feelings have obviously changed about you but she is not mature enough to admit it. Be a friend to her but realize that things are not the same.





Go on with your life and focus on your life goals. If she feels you are pulling away from her, and she still has feelings for you, it could cause her to try to get you back.





You have told her how you feel and she has expressed her feelings toward you with anger. At this point you cannot convince her to like you.





Always, be gracious to her and her boyfriend. Wish them well. Don't let them get to you and bring you down--it will hurt you more than it will hurt them.





Focus on whatever it is that you've been wanting to try or get really good at. That is the best thing to do at this time.





Cheers!What do I do? Need help and advice about my best friend.?
Well, if you ARE in love, do NOT just bust that out on her - esp. since you said she gets angry when you tell her how you feel about not seeing her any more. You'll lose her for sure then.





You have every right to feel the way you do. And she is not being your friend when she gets angry with you for just trying to talk to her. In fairness, it may be quite probable that her boyfriend has finally revealed that he is majorly insecure over you (she's probably talked about you A LOT, since you two are best friends) and she is terrified that you'll compromise their new relationship - an idea planted in her through her new guy, who also has a right to feel the way he does, even if it is otherwise unfounded, although he does not have the right to keep you two apart against her will if it comes to that.





Since this separation seems to be her choice, let her get settled into her new life and just let her know that you'll be there for her if she needs anything. Don't give her boyfriend any cause for concern. You might want to suggest that the two of them go out with you and a couple of other friends so that her new guy knows that you aren't a threat and you can get to know him and spend time with her. If he is a good guy for her, he won't want to keep her friends from her life.





If the guy doesn't want anything to do with you, you'll just have to hang back. Your friend obviously doesn't want to hear anything bad about her new guy and you will lose her if you try. If she was ever your friend, she'll realize her loss and seek you out.
Sounds to me like your IN LOVE! I think you let her get away and now you regret it. If you want her then fight for her. Tell her the truth that your are in love with her!!!!!!!!


Or say nothing and loose the Love of your Life.





Go get her Tiger!!!!!
I would keep in contact with her. Let her know that your there for her. But give her some spaces. Her boyfriend probably has some insecurities with the fact that your a guy. She's probably getting complaints from her boyfriend for spending time with you. She'll come around in time.
when first i met my husband i had a friend (boy). we were close but never else than friends. but my husband (was my boyfriend) was jealous and obliged me to not see my friend again. i had to choose between the two of them. i chose my husband. but my friend after i cut with him started calling me and inviting me as for a date. but it was too late. why u guys when u have the girl u don't say anything and when u loose her u want her back. it is not so easy for her. she was with u and u didn't say a word, she will not now loose one who is telling her he loves her for trying again with u. u should act earlier.
leave her alone for a while im pretty sure that if things dont work out between her and her man you'll be the first she comes looking for