He likes me but wont talk to me..i am sooo over it.....any advice/help!?

ok this guy likes me and he wont talk to me!!


like today me and him were hanging out on the same level and he kept walking back and forth and my friend was like 'he keeps looking at you' and stuff like 'oooooh he just checked you out' and he purposly walks by and when hes past me he turns around and does it again!! and he ALWAYS makes sure he is facing me or like he makes sure im in his view





ugh i dont understand this kidd


hes just waiting for me to go talk to him and im also waiting for him to talk to me


and today his friend who told me that he liked me started bitching at me for not making a move!!


hes all like 'why are u passing up this great opertunity, hes waiting for you to go talk to him! are you just gunna be like this ur whole life....ur gunna be a loser!! are you just gunna sit around and just call him cute and watever when you can get to know him' and all this other hurtful stuff


then when i had to go to class he was like 'think about what i said'





this made me think all day even now and what he said is really true and it put me in a really bad mood and everytime i told this story to my friends i had to stop for a couple seconds b/c my throat was like getting that feelling that i was about to cry





didnt you just notice this little 'crush' situation is getting serious and evryone of my friends are like go talk to him and UGH! i dont know what to say or do b/c hes just gonna stare at me (he always does)





....i dont know what to do...i feel like if he doesnt talk to me it means that he doesnt like me enough or sumthing........and this has been going on for about 2 weeks now





its been getting me depressed about everything.....it gets me thinking and all of a sudden i think about TONs of stuff like homework, my friends, my family and mostly about what my friend said to me





and i think that if he doesnt have the nerve to talk to me and if we do date this relationship is gonna go NO-WHERE b.c hes shy im shy





im sorry if this took you forever to read its just getting to me and writing about this takes a big weight off my shoulders, since someone is gonna help me with my situtation





and if we doesnt make a move quick im gonna start liking other guys and move on b/c i threw away all my feelings for other guys for him and i feel like im wasting my time just thinking and thinking





and you can also message me about it so we can talk and stuffHe likes me but wont talk to me..i am sooo over it.....any advice/help!?
It seems maybe he's scared to make the first move.


I know that some guys had told me that they like it


when girls make the move.


idk.


Maybe he thinks that you dont really like him (unless you told him personally)


%26amp;+ he's scared to talk to you and get rejected,


whichs concludes about him waiting for you to talk to him.





I say talk to him.


If it's too hard to talk to him in person.


Try txting him first.


If you get stuck on what to say to keep the convo going,


just ask random questions to get to know alittle more about him.He likes me but wont talk to me..i am sooo over it.....any advice/help!?
talk to him, im a guy I wouldnt mind
Okay i know EXACTLY how you feel. But i do have to tell you, from an outsiders point of view, you are over thinking things WAY too much. Don't think about what the relationship will be like ( like when you said you are both shy so it will be awkward...) THink about what you can do NOW to get teh ball rolling. FIRST: TALK to him! get to know him! maybe he will turn out to be this great guy. If you don't know him well then you don;t know if you even like him seriously enough. So be friendly, show you are interested, get to know him as a friend and then take things a step further and fflirt. It will all work ou in the end but you have to take action. I agree with your friend (although they seemed kind of rude about it) when he said you can't just wait around waiting for things to happen. Take the intiative and go after what you want!





Good luck and you can email/contact me if you need to talk more. :)
Judging by your question alone, it sounds like you're pissed off with this kid, but you still feel something for him (and consequently hate yourself for doing it) and instead, directing your anger at him instead.
well, it's obvious. TALK TO HIM!





Trust me, i am in a VERY SIMILAR situation to this, I am shy as anything, and if he's like me, hes BEGGING for you to come talk to him...so just do it, he wont judge you!





You should learn about him just as friends and if he still interests you and he doesn't like anyone else and still shows some interest in you, ask him out.