Me and my best friend have been fighting alot lately because were only 13 and she already choosing guys over me and she says she not after i confront her
i am not jealous because i have a boyfriend now but i would never choose him over her.. what should i do?
thanksFriends advice? Help?
Your real friends will never choose a guy over you. YOU are a true friend. Don鈥檛 settle for anything less than you deserve.Friends advice? Help?
Try to stick with her. Don't keep confronting her about it as it will only make things worse. You will be lucky if you can keep your friendship lasting at this age. It is very fragile already because girls from 11-14 lose friends quick if they place to much blame on the other person. Just try to deal with it for a while and if it doesn't get better...well...say bye?
The level of any relationship bound not by age but the mature person knows when it's just pettiness don't get hurt when hits the field and leg fell hurt girls not girls friend shame not shame
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Girlfriend advice. help?
OK, so i have been with this girl for little over a year and a half, we have had our ups and downs. we broke up for a while due to the fact that she ';needed her time';. and now we have been together about 6 month, but during our break she slept with another guy a few time and to this day it still upsets me and i find it affecting me in a negative way. idk what to thinkGirlfriend advice. help?
If you slept with another girl during that time, or if you led your GF to believe you did, you really don't have a leg to stand on. Get both of you tested for diseases and when you're sure you are both clean, get over it and keep on stepping. If you were 100% faithful, even during your breakup, well, then you have to decide if you love this girl enough to forgive her for dating someone else while she wasn't going steady with you....that sounded kind of weird, didn't it? I guess the question is whether you were both virgins the first time you got together, because if not, I'd say you're even. That is, you slept with someone else when you weren't going with her, too.
If you wanted her to be faithful during ';her time';, did you say so? Did she promise that she would save herself and only sleep with you?
If you did not ask and she did not promise, either get over it or move on. In either case, I strongly recommend that you are tested for disease, because even if that other guy seems like a good egg and looks like a clean person, who knows? He might have had a hankering for a punch-board one night and picked up every disease any of her several hundred lovers may have given her.
Best wishes for a healthy future.Girlfriend advice. help?
well technically you were broken up for a while so basically what she did during that time it's her buisness and not your but w/e i mean you have the right to be kind of upset b/c i mean you are sticking your p.enis is her va jay jay which had been with another guy so i can see where you are coming from. next time when you break up for a while just to get her back you should sleep with a random girl to get even with her i'm not saying revenge is the best thing but i mean it is an option. but yeah don't dump her for it unless of course it was the day after you broke up that she slept with that other guy than you can break up with her forever
whats the point in staying with sumone if they have fooked sumone else? they dont truly love u cause they woudlnt have put themsleves in that position in the first place if she truly loved u she wouldnt have needed her time she would have wanted more n more of ur time she would have wanted to be in ur arms every second of everyday
You shouldn't be with anyone that makes you uncomfortable. She's done something that bothers you and you will never look at her the same. Can you really see yourself a few more years with this girl and that uncomfortable feeling lingering?
I'm sorry bro. I didn't know she was your girl. I won't let it happen again. If it helps any, she likes her hair in being pulled and on a rare passionate occasion will go brown eye to mouth. After such fun, you will forget about the Dirty Dog and be very sleepy.
i think that you should move on and find a new girl. i dont think she deserves you if she sleeps with an other guy on a break. so just call it off and go get an new girl that will be loyal to you.
Think what you wish, but I wouldn't have continued to be with her after she slept with another man while you two were taking a break. i don't believe that's love.
get over it....if she needed a break you shoulda set her on the curb then.....if you love her then you need to put it behind you like a man that made a mistake....
';she needs her time'; if this girl really likes you, she shouldn't eve think about another person. No good guy deserves that, find someone, else.
its hard but think what it would be like without her, if you want to stay with her then stay, the past is the past you know?
thats gross knowing someones been in your woman
break it off
she broke up with you and slept with someone in her ';peace time';?
wth is that?
Not to be with her. You need a polite life partner!
Date me
Dump her...there is plenty of fish in the sea ...
Ya.....What Dusty man said...Kick her to the curb
If you slept with another girl during that time, or if you led your GF to believe you did, you really don't have a leg to stand on. Get both of you tested for diseases and when you're sure you are both clean, get over it and keep on stepping. If you were 100% faithful, even during your breakup, well, then you have to decide if you love this girl enough to forgive her for dating someone else while she wasn't going steady with you....that sounded kind of weird, didn't it? I guess the question is whether you were both virgins the first time you got together, because if not, I'd say you're even. That is, you slept with someone else when you weren't going with her, too.
If you wanted her to be faithful during ';her time';, did you say so? Did she promise that she would save herself and only sleep with you?
If you did not ask and she did not promise, either get over it or move on. In either case, I strongly recommend that you are tested for disease, because even if that other guy seems like a good egg and looks like a clean person, who knows? He might have had a hankering for a punch-board one night and picked up every disease any of her several hundred lovers may have given her.
Best wishes for a healthy future.Girlfriend advice. help?
well technically you were broken up for a while so basically what she did during that time it's her buisness and not your but w/e i mean you have the right to be kind of upset b/c i mean you are sticking your p.enis is her va jay jay which had been with another guy so i can see where you are coming from. next time when you break up for a while just to get her back you should sleep with a random girl to get even with her i'm not saying revenge is the best thing but i mean it is an option. but yeah don't dump her for it unless of course it was the day after you broke up that she slept with that other guy than you can break up with her forever
whats the point in staying with sumone if they have fooked sumone else? they dont truly love u cause they woudlnt have put themsleves in that position in the first place if she truly loved u she wouldnt have needed her time she would have wanted more n more of ur time she would have wanted to be in ur arms every second of everyday
You shouldn't be with anyone that makes you uncomfortable. She's done something that bothers you and you will never look at her the same. Can you really see yourself a few more years with this girl and that uncomfortable feeling lingering?
I'm sorry bro. I didn't know she was your girl. I won't let it happen again. If it helps any, she likes her hair in being pulled and on a rare passionate occasion will go brown eye to mouth. After such fun, you will forget about the Dirty Dog and be very sleepy.
i think that you should move on and find a new girl. i dont think she deserves you if she sleeps with an other guy on a break. so just call it off and go get an new girl that will be loyal to you.
Think what you wish, but I wouldn't have continued to be with her after she slept with another man while you two were taking a break. i don't believe that's love.
get over it....if she needed a break you shoulda set her on the curb then.....if you love her then you need to put it behind you like a man that made a mistake....
';she needs her time'; if this girl really likes you, she shouldn't eve think about another person. No good guy deserves that, find someone, else.
its hard but think what it would be like without her, if you want to stay with her then stay, the past is the past you know?
thats gross knowing someones been in your woman
break it off
she broke up with you and slept with someone in her ';peace time';?
wth is that?
Not to be with her. You need a polite life partner!
Date me
Dump her...there is plenty of fish in the sea ...
Ya.....What Dusty man said...Kick her to the curb
Help! Any advice on raising a 15 year old girl? Adult's and kid's advice is much appreciated!?
I'm 23 and live by myself in Portland, Oregon and my younger sister is 15 and lives with our parents in Ohio. She's been getting in a lot of trouble so my dad is sending her to live with ME! I have no idea how to raise a 15 year old. Anyone have advice? Thanks!Help! Any advice on raising a 15 year old girl? Adult's and kid's advice is much appreciated!?
Ya gotta RELAX i know easyer said then done right?
But ok, So when she comes to stay with you,\
Tell her the rules sraight up
But dont be too strict eaither
Give her some space but not too much
Like let her help u come up with the rules
Like meet er half way on a cerfew time
Tell her that u dont wanna see her geting into
Trouble and let her know that no matter how
Much she has messed up that she an always come to u for help
And if she screws up , Try not to yell at her
Let her know ur dissappointed but dont
Like flip at her
Good luck!!! =] ♥Help! Any advice on raising a 15 year old girl? Adult's and kid's advice is much appreciated!?
I'm not really sure why your dad would force that upon you, but I'm a smart, well-behaved 15 year-old girl, so I'm sure I can help.
1. Check her cell phone if you suspect something. Check her texts, who shes' texting, etc. She's probably used to her parents doing this to her.
2. Curfew. Establish rules and boundaries.
3. Meet her friends. Know who they are, if they can drive, where she's going, if anyone else is going to be there, etc...
4. I know I'm making it sound like you need to be a witch to try to raise her properly, but if she's getting into so much trouble, you need to do something! I would suggest to try to get to know her better, also. The #1 thing I argue about with my mom is that she never listens to me, or isn't paying attention. Listen to her, ask questions, strike up a conversation, etc. You've just taken on a huge responsibility, and all the bases must be covered here. Discipline, understanding, and monitoring are all key.
Most of all, love her. She's your sister, so I'm assuming that's the case, although you're eight years apart, so it may not be a close relationship right now.
Good luck! I hope you help your sister succeed.
Be nice to her, but also be strict. Lay down the rules; tell her what she can and cannot do. Give her a curfew. But you can also spend 'quality time' if you have not bonded enough.
Try and be the cool older sister that every teenager wants to live with. ( :
Make sure that your rules are reasonable (ones that she will follow)
If she breaks one of the rules, give her a punishment.
Example: Maybe you could ground her from her cell phone, tv, computer etc.
Keep up with her school work, and make sure that she does her homework, or anything school related.
You could maybe get her into an after- school sport, or an extra- curricular activity.
Good Luck!
Hope I helped!
I'm 14 and I have a trouble child sister whos 17. Believe me I know trouble my mom has called the police 4 times on her! My first piece of advice is chose your battles. Dont get all DO IT NOW! Basically second don't pull the ';i'm in charge'; card unless you really have to keep it friendly. As soon as she gets there set litmits that you could live by when you were that age like a cerfue. Have movie nights and girly sopping days to make sure your relashtionship stay good when you are an athority figure. Never forget you can always call home for some help.Good luck!
I feel as if she has been ';raised'; already. The raising age is like infants - preteen.
I was 15 last year and my parents could not change or raise me anymore, they could only limit me. She is at the age where she has to desire to change.... you can't change her anymore. She thinks abstractly and can reason.
Lay down the rules and if she does not follow them, lay down punishments. That's basically it.
That is going to be one hell of ride for you both. Not trying to scare you but it won't be sisterly wonderland and you know that anyway. My 31 years old brother has raised me since I was eleven and his rule has always been ';do as I tell you not as I do';. He said to me when I first came to his home and he was much younger that he was finishing growing up and that he wanted to make sure I understood he was not perfect but that he was the figure of authority and he expected respect and honesty regardless of what I thought of him. So for example, my brother used to smoke but he never allowed me to, he stayed up until very late but I had to go to bed at a certain time. It seems confusing to not lead by example but because you are young she might think she has a free pass on things and she shouldn't. Make rules for both of you about talking honestly and doing the best to live in peace, let her know that she is welcomed in your house and that she is not charity case, and don't be afraid to be the impopular sister when you need to discipline her. Give her resonable responsibilities, she is not a baby and let her make some reasonable choices too. Help her feel at home by allowing her to decorate her room or pick up some persona ittems so she doesn't feel like she's in a strange place. Talk to her with honesty, if you are feeling stressed out or worried about what things are going to be like tell her so and say that you hope for the best. She doesn't have to like you, she has to obbey you. Good luck.
The same way you would raise another person. You help her with homework, you discipline her, you feed her, you lay down the rules and don't let her walk all over you just because your her sister. Whilst she's in YOUR house she'll abide by YOUR rules. Just think back to when you were 15 and how your parents raised you.
She might actually relax and settle down abit whilst she's with you.
i think its a good idea. it will help you grow up and her understand parents point of views also. Little sisters look up to their big sisters and she will be more likely to reason and listen to you then her parents. I don't know if you have seen the show What I like About You, but its the same concept.
Sucks! Teens these days are just awful. The paretns [sisters] with the most rules NEVER win. Don't be a total push over but don't set so many rules or expectations.
It's all about discipline. If she smart smouths you or acts up, remind her she is not too old for a good spanking.
Help her to make good choices and reach her full potential.
I'd take Shelly Beans advice.
Plus she's mad hot!
Ur dads a lazy d1c|{
JUST ACT LIKE SHES YOUR ';FRIEND'; AND HANG OUT W/ HER
Ya gotta RELAX i know easyer said then done right?
But ok, So when she comes to stay with you,\
Tell her the rules sraight up
But dont be too strict eaither
Give her some space but not too much
Like let her help u come up with the rules
Like meet er half way on a cerfew time
Tell her that u dont wanna see her geting into
Trouble and let her know that no matter how
Much she has messed up that she an always come to u for help
And if she screws up , Try not to yell at her
Let her know ur dissappointed but dont
Like flip at her
Good luck!!! =] ♥Help! Any advice on raising a 15 year old girl? Adult's and kid's advice is much appreciated!?
I'm not really sure why your dad would force that upon you, but I'm a smart, well-behaved 15 year-old girl, so I'm sure I can help.
1. Check her cell phone if you suspect something. Check her texts, who shes' texting, etc. She's probably used to her parents doing this to her.
2. Curfew. Establish rules and boundaries.
3. Meet her friends. Know who they are, if they can drive, where she's going, if anyone else is going to be there, etc...
4. I know I'm making it sound like you need to be a witch to try to raise her properly, but if she's getting into so much trouble, you need to do something! I would suggest to try to get to know her better, also. The #1 thing I argue about with my mom is that she never listens to me, or isn't paying attention. Listen to her, ask questions, strike up a conversation, etc. You've just taken on a huge responsibility, and all the bases must be covered here. Discipline, understanding, and monitoring are all key.
Most of all, love her. She's your sister, so I'm assuming that's the case, although you're eight years apart, so it may not be a close relationship right now.
Good luck! I hope you help your sister succeed.
Be nice to her, but also be strict. Lay down the rules; tell her what she can and cannot do. Give her a curfew. But you can also spend 'quality time' if you have not bonded enough.
Try and be the cool older sister that every teenager wants to live with. ( :
Make sure that your rules are reasonable (ones that she will follow)
If she breaks one of the rules, give her a punishment.
Example: Maybe you could ground her from her cell phone, tv, computer etc.
Keep up with her school work, and make sure that she does her homework, or anything school related.
You could maybe get her into an after- school sport, or an extra- curricular activity.
Good Luck!
Hope I helped!
I'm 14 and I have a trouble child sister whos 17. Believe me I know trouble my mom has called the police 4 times on her! My first piece of advice is chose your battles. Dont get all DO IT NOW! Basically second don't pull the ';i'm in charge'; card unless you really have to keep it friendly. As soon as she gets there set litmits that you could live by when you were that age like a cerfue. Have movie nights and girly sopping days to make sure your relashtionship stay good when you are an athority figure. Never forget you can always call home for some help.Good luck!
I feel as if she has been ';raised'; already. The raising age is like infants - preteen.
I was 15 last year and my parents could not change or raise me anymore, they could only limit me. She is at the age where she has to desire to change.... you can't change her anymore. She thinks abstractly and can reason.
Lay down the rules and if she does not follow them, lay down punishments. That's basically it.
That is going to be one hell of ride for you both. Not trying to scare you but it won't be sisterly wonderland and you know that anyway. My 31 years old brother has raised me since I was eleven and his rule has always been ';do as I tell you not as I do';. He said to me when I first came to his home and he was much younger that he was finishing growing up and that he wanted to make sure I understood he was not perfect but that he was the figure of authority and he expected respect and honesty regardless of what I thought of him. So for example, my brother used to smoke but he never allowed me to, he stayed up until very late but I had to go to bed at a certain time. It seems confusing to not lead by example but because you are young she might think she has a free pass on things and she shouldn't. Make rules for both of you about talking honestly and doing the best to live in peace, let her know that she is welcomed in your house and that she is not charity case, and don't be afraid to be the impopular sister when you need to discipline her. Give her resonable responsibilities, she is not a baby and let her make some reasonable choices too. Help her feel at home by allowing her to decorate her room or pick up some persona ittems so she doesn't feel like she's in a strange place. Talk to her with honesty, if you are feeling stressed out or worried about what things are going to be like tell her so and say that you hope for the best. She doesn't have to like you, she has to obbey you. Good luck.
The same way you would raise another person. You help her with homework, you discipline her, you feed her, you lay down the rules and don't let her walk all over you just because your her sister. Whilst she's in YOUR house she'll abide by YOUR rules. Just think back to when you were 15 and how your parents raised you.
She might actually relax and settle down abit whilst she's with you.
i think its a good idea. it will help you grow up and her understand parents point of views also. Little sisters look up to their big sisters and she will be more likely to reason and listen to you then her parents. I don't know if you have seen the show What I like About You, but its the same concept.
Sucks! Teens these days are just awful. The paretns [sisters] with the most rules NEVER win. Don't be a total push over but don't set so many rules or expectations.
It's all about discipline. If she smart smouths you or acts up, remind her she is not too old for a good spanking.
Help her to make good choices and reach her full potential.
I'd take Shelly Beans advice.
Plus she's mad hot!
Ur dads a lazy d1c|{
JUST ACT LIKE SHES YOUR ';FRIEND'; AND HANG OUT W/ HER
I am really need advice help me!!?
My son seems to get a bad rash . He poops usually 6 to 7times a day then developes a bad rash in his but. He is changed right after he poos. The area is cleaned and I apply vasoline to the area. This is really becoming a problem, What can I do to prevent this from happening? He is 2 months old and I only started having this problem from one week..I am really need advice help me!!?
Try the baby powder that is pure cornstarch. Use at every diaper change. This is the only thing that helps my son. He seems to be allergic to any of the creams.I am really need advice help me!!?
Switch diapers. He might be allergic to them.
my son would get these really bad rashes, like they were rubbing his legs raw and his little booty and everything would break out, come to find out he was allergic to the diapers and when I spoke to her about the rashes she told me that Desitin, Boudreaux and other diaper creams only prevent the rash, she then gave me a presciption for diaper rash which knocked it out right away.
Baby powder (or cornstarch) is better because it will keep the area dry, vasaline will lock in the moisture.
sometimes regular baby powder is all that works for my triplet sons with sensitive skin. they just turned 2 and we have been through lots of creams and ointments and many diarrhea viruses. once we had to leave the diaper off for an hour without anything on one of them to let the rash heal then used the desitin once we put the diaper back on.
I would use something other than Vaseline. Vaseline really irritates my sons diaper area. Try something like Destitn everytime you change him. I have also used Aquaphor with great success. It coats like Vaseline but is not as irritating. My son's nurse suggested it to us and we have been doing it for years!
The formula your using is not agreeing with him consult your doctor. And buy unscented diaper wipes. Sometimes certain babies need to bathed right after bowel movements.
I have used a product called Triple Paste. It really clears up the diaper rash quickly. I know this will sound crazy, but my aunt swears on it: Preparation H (hemorrhoid cream). Her son had a really bad rash as a baby and NOTHING made it go away, except of Preparation H. Her doctor had suggested it.
I would call the doctor to ask about him pooping that much in one day. That really seems like a lot. Good luck!
Desitin is great. Maybe change his diaper and also maybe change your diet if you are breastfeeding or possibly change formula. Talk to dr.
I use A%26amp;D Ointment and it works also Zink oxide is great
Begin to use diaper cream. My pediatrician said Vaseline is fine to help prevent a rash, but once one occurs it will not cure it.
If it is a bad rash, i would buy Triple paste (brand of diaper cream). It is more expensive but it does wonders (quickly) on a bad rash. then buy some regular diaper cream for once the rash heals. Call the pediatrician, b/c if they think it is a bad rash, they can prescribe some medicated cream for him.
Good luck
I swear by Desitin... it doesn't wash away with each pee... it's still on after a full night's sleep.
If it doesn't clear up I would take him to the doctor... it could be a yeast infection and not a diaper rash.
It am guessing it goes away after each cleaning? If that is the case just keep putting on the Vaseline and cover that with cornstarch. You can use the kind in the kitchen.
If it is a continuous rash and it has little red bumps and raised edges, ask your Ped. to see if it is a yeast rash. This kind you have to have a special cream for. You can get a script from your Ped, but I just bought some Neosporin AF (anti fungal). It cleared up almost immediately. But keep using it for a few days.
Good luck. It's so hard when the baby is uncomfortable.
look at his diet a little closer
I'm not really sure what to do, though some of the other advise looks good, but I don't advise applying vaseline, especially not six to seven times a day. It contains petroleum, which is bad for the child's delicate skin, especially in that location. You can ask your doctor about something soothing to apply. (Cornstarch and baby power are apparantly very good.)
try a%26amp;d ointment, it has worked miracles for my son....oh, and try to let it get some air once in awhile...if it continues go to the doctor
If you are using baby wipes...I would stop until it clears up. Use a wet paper towel or cotton balls. Give him some bare butt tummy time after diaper changes and then slather on the desitin!
Try the baby powder that is pure cornstarch. Use at every diaper change. This is the only thing that helps my son. He seems to be allergic to any of the creams.I am really need advice help me!!?
Switch diapers. He might be allergic to them.
my son would get these really bad rashes, like they were rubbing his legs raw and his little booty and everything would break out, come to find out he was allergic to the diapers and when I spoke to her about the rashes she told me that Desitin, Boudreaux and other diaper creams only prevent the rash, she then gave me a presciption for diaper rash which knocked it out right away.
Baby powder (or cornstarch) is better because it will keep the area dry, vasaline will lock in the moisture.
sometimes regular baby powder is all that works for my triplet sons with sensitive skin. they just turned 2 and we have been through lots of creams and ointments and many diarrhea viruses. once we had to leave the diaper off for an hour without anything on one of them to let the rash heal then used the desitin once we put the diaper back on.
I would use something other than Vaseline. Vaseline really irritates my sons diaper area. Try something like Destitn everytime you change him. I have also used Aquaphor with great success. It coats like Vaseline but is not as irritating. My son's nurse suggested it to us and we have been doing it for years!
The formula your using is not agreeing with him consult your doctor. And buy unscented diaper wipes. Sometimes certain babies need to bathed right after bowel movements.
I have used a product called Triple Paste. It really clears up the diaper rash quickly. I know this will sound crazy, but my aunt swears on it: Preparation H (hemorrhoid cream). Her son had a really bad rash as a baby and NOTHING made it go away, except of Preparation H. Her doctor had suggested it.
I would call the doctor to ask about him pooping that much in one day. That really seems like a lot. Good luck!
Desitin is great. Maybe change his diaper and also maybe change your diet if you are breastfeeding or possibly change formula. Talk to dr.
I use A%26amp;D Ointment and it works also Zink oxide is great
Begin to use diaper cream. My pediatrician said Vaseline is fine to help prevent a rash, but once one occurs it will not cure it.
If it is a bad rash, i would buy Triple paste (brand of diaper cream). It is more expensive but it does wonders (quickly) on a bad rash. then buy some regular diaper cream for once the rash heals. Call the pediatrician, b/c if they think it is a bad rash, they can prescribe some medicated cream for him.
Good luck
I swear by Desitin... it doesn't wash away with each pee... it's still on after a full night's sleep.
If it doesn't clear up I would take him to the doctor... it could be a yeast infection and not a diaper rash.
It am guessing it goes away after each cleaning? If that is the case just keep putting on the Vaseline and cover that with cornstarch. You can use the kind in the kitchen.
If it is a continuous rash and it has little red bumps and raised edges, ask your Ped. to see if it is a yeast rash. This kind you have to have a special cream for. You can get a script from your Ped, but I just bought some Neosporin AF (anti fungal). It cleared up almost immediately. But keep using it for a few days.
Good luck. It's so hard when the baby is uncomfortable.
look at his diet a little closer
I'm not really sure what to do, though some of the other advise looks good, but I don't advise applying vaseline, especially not six to seven times a day. It contains petroleum, which is bad for the child's delicate skin, especially in that location. You can ask your doctor about something soothing to apply. (Cornstarch and baby power are apparantly very good.)
try a%26amp;d ointment, it has worked miracles for my son....oh, and try to let it get some air once in awhile...if it continues go to the doctor
If you are using baby wipes...I would stop until it clears up. Use a wet paper towel or cotton balls. Give him some bare butt tummy time after diaper changes and then slather on the desitin!
New kitty owner needing advice, help..........?
I've had my kitty for 4days (6 wks old) I noticed today that when he has a bowel movement there seems to be excess hanging from his bottom and I'm having to wipe away excess. I'm giving him Precise Plus, should I switch to something else and if so what would you recommend. This is my first kitty. Help............New kitty owner needing advice, help..........?
Drawing from my own experiences, this is normal for kittens, especially kitty was given away too soon. Normally the mama cat takes care of the grooming needs of her kittens until they learn to clean and groom themselves. You may have to continue to do this for the kitten for a short time, and be patient this is a learned behavior, and you have to teach the kitty how to clean itself. For assistance, you could ask your vet.New kitty owner needing advice, help..........?
Quit giving your kitty medicine, unless a vet says so,your kitty is like a baby his stool is not hard yet and when he/she gets older they will take care of the problem. Nothing wrong with your kitty. I have raised 5 cats your kitty is fine.
I wouldn't give a new kitten any sort of medicine! I also would ask a vet about it but I tend to agree with BlueKitty's answer. Your kitten is fine and I think its so cute that your so into your kitty and want to make sure it will be ok, awwwww...carmex balm
Drawing from my own experiences, this is normal for kittens, especially kitty was given away too soon. Normally the mama cat takes care of the grooming needs of her kittens until they learn to clean and groom themselves. You may have to continue to do this for the kitten for a short time, and be patient this is a learned behavior, and you have to teach the kitty how to clean itself. For assistance, you could ask your vet.New kitty owner needing advice, help..........?
Quit giving your kitty medicine, unless a vet says so,your kitty is like a baby his stool is not hard yet and when he/she gets older they will take care of the problem. Nothing wrong with your kitty. I have raised 5 cats your kitty is fine.
I wouldn't give a new kitten any sort of medicine! I also would ask a vet about it but I tend to agree with BlueKitty's answer. Your kitten is fine and I think its so cute that your so into your kitty and want to make sure it will be ok, awwwww...
Guys, i need some advice/help please?
im just wondering if this sounds normal to you...my boyfriend seems to get an erection whenever we do anything ...i mean anything when we are kissing or when i am just rubbing his leg and it seems to always lead to something further, now the problem is sometimes we end up having sex a couple times or i have to give him up to 4 BJ'S A DAY!!! is that too much am i being too nice??Guys, i need some advice/help please?
that means you are very attractive and he really gets turned by just the sight of you. but 4 a day sounds a little much. i would tell him or teach him how to relax.
watch out for him he might've already gotten used to being hard all the time that when you stop he may go look for it elsewhere.Guys, i need some advice/help please?
The same thing was happening to me and my girlfriend. She did a lot of the same stuff that your doing just not the 4 BJ's a day. Anyway we just eased off on how much sexual interaction we were doing. Now we can hangout and stuff without any problems.
well thats fine and is very nice of you :) he must really like you but he needs to do more for you because you deserve it too, tell him its ur turn to pleasure me :)
You simply are meant to be together:you do not mind his sexual appetite and he loves it
Keep it that way.
A happy new year
Chaos
That happends with most guys, if not theres a prob. Its normal.
that's kinda wierd that's a lot if you don't want to don't if you do go ahead
thats a bit much, i would slow him down cuz he may get usd to it and get addicted...maybe one a day will do
You should not have 4 a day put it to a minimum.
that means you are very attractive and he really gets turned by just the sight of you. but 4 a day sounds a little much. i would tell him or teach him how to relax.
watch out for him he might've already gotten used to being hard all the time that when you stop he may go look for it elsewhere.Guys, i need some advice/help please?
The same thing was happening to me and my girlfriend. She did a lot of the same stuff that your doing just not the 4 BJ's a day. Anyway we just eased off on how much sexual interaction we were doing. Now we can hangout and stuff without any problems.
well thats fine and is very nice of you :) he must really like you but he needs to do more for you because you deserve it too, tell him its ur turn to pleasure me :)
You simply are meant to be together:you do not mind his sexual appetite and he loves it
Keep it that way.
A happy new year
Chaos
That happends with most guys, if not theres a prob. Its normal.
that's kinda wierd that's a lot if you don't want to don't if you do go ahead
thats a bit much, i would slow him down cuz he may get usd to it and get addicted...maybe one a day will do
You should not have 4 a day put it to a minimum.
Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?
Recently, I had a job offer that was more money (25% + more)and promotion. Because of greed of getting more money than the original offer, I held back. Because of my mistake, the deal fell through and the employer hired someone else. This has been really bothering me. It has been nearly two months now and I can't get past this. I cannot even focus on my current job and my family. I don't know what to do. I feel like I missed out and it's bothering me beyond words. I have never felt like this before. Call it crazy, but I sometimes even get to tears. Help! How can I overcome this? How would you rank this in terms of a regretful life event? Thank you for your help.Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?
grow up and move on, if this is your only problem you should be happy.Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?
It happens to me all the time. An event, or a thing I said will bug me for so long and keep me awake at night. It makes me feel so stupid!!! But you should not worry. You just have to stop thinking about it. Think of the good stuff. A mistake is only there to help you. You'll learn from it and never do it again. I'm sure next time, it will be different.
We are not all the same, some sail through this sort of 'trauma' as if it were no more than a write of passage - part of life's university of ups and downs - others, such as yourself and many many more have a personality trait (not flaw) that needs to put everything in order and to have some sort of closure on a personal event of this magnitude.
As time goes by this painful and unsettling outcome that has in your mind's eye played a dirty trick on you will relinquish it's not unsubstantial hold on your daily outlook on life and you too will eventually be strong enough to lay this troublesome ghost to rest and allow your self to move forward.
To move forward you may need to talk to a professional - your MD/GP who may wish to refer you to a specialist/councillor
Allow yourself to forgive yourself, what happened
was human nature - you can call it greed if you wish but it was not greed, you were only trying to do what was right for you and your loved ones.
Forgive yourself you have wronged no-one least of all yourself.
I hope this passes soon for you - good luck..
We ALL make mistakes, and some of them really make us sick, but usually they happens for a reason. You may have a better offer in the future. Just hang in there, and dont stop looking and dont give up!
You need to remember that regret one of the feelings that helps you to not make the same mistakes. However, it serves no purpose if you just dwell on it. Regret is about the past and dwelling on the past moves your life nowhere. You're human, and humans are susceptible to greed. Just stop punishing yourself, move on and remember this feeling next time.
let it go,you can't live in the past
A mistake is just a concept that we invent to consider our current and future actions. For example, we can say that to put our hands in the fire is a mistake. This reminds us that we do not want to do that. In reality, of course, every thing goes in accordance with the laws of nature without any mistake. The true mistake is to assume that you could have done otherwise. Don't do that mistake. This is the worst of all mistakes. It makes you suffer. You did in accordance with your nature. Don't regret. Be happy, learn, progress, and yes don't do something if you know it to be a mistake. In particular, don't think that you did a mistake in the past because it is the worst mistake. You did what you had to do. Just happily accept the consequences, and learn, progress.
Dear Hurting-
It occurs to me that if it was I mulling such a ';mistake'; to the extent of which you speak, and it has been, and sometimes it continues to be, something I do, I would wonder two things. Was it a real mistake? What if your inner voice said whoa! Taking this job is the mistake. I don't know why I feel this way but I may be willing to take the risk. However not for this amount of money. Therefore I will ask for that amount I am worth in this case. Secondly, I wonder if realizing you are capable of greed just like the rest of us isn't a bit of a surprise burden. If that is the case it is better to know of that bit of moral elastia, or hiccup than to go down that road eyes closed. Deal with it on a case by case basis and you may find yourself simply human.
Geez - it's only money, pal. By stressing over it, you're just repeating the same mistake. You lost because of greed, and now your regret is fueled by greed. Forget about it and look ahead - AND STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP!
Well, dont concentrate so much on the missed opportunity. You did what you thought you had to do at the time. Now you know better right? Think of this as a learning opportunity.
Sometimes knowledge comes only with a hefty price.
The next time, you will be in a better mental position to make a decision that is right for you.
I think you need to work on acceptance. When we keep working through stuff that happened in the past (over and over and get stuck) it's usually because we are refusing to accept the truth. What about this is making you rehash this all the time and feel bad about it? If you can figure that out, you can figure out how to move on from it.
Everyone makes mistakes. What you learn from those mistakes is what determines what your future will be like. You learned a valuable lesson. Take that into your future and learn from it because that's all you can do--can't change the past.
Also remember -- if you got that job, which pays 25% more, then you can get another job that pays that much more too.
Forgive yourself for holding back, learn from the experience, and move on. The only 'regretful life event' is one that you don't learn from.
Good luck to you.
When one door closes, another opens.
You have a job that pays and a family that loves you. Count your blessings because things could be a LOT worse. Money is important to live off of but, it's bad to live life FOR it. Money can't buy happiness regardless of what people think.
Forgive yourself. We all make mistakes in life. More opportunities will come your way if you leave this behind you and strive towards a more rewarding future. What is done is now done and you cannot live your life regretting this action. You may not realise, but sometimes there is a downside to something that looked so great to begin with. You made your choice at the time so accept that choice and be happy with it. You have obviously learned that wealth doesn't get handed out on a platter and that you need to work hard for it. This is not a huge misjudgement on your part. It is a totally forgivable mistake. Please don't be so hard on yourself. You will succeed and you never know what is waiting around the corner for you. Good Luck and Best Wishes for the future.
grow up and move on, if this is your only problem you should be happy.Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?
It happens to me all the time. An event, or a thing I said will bug me for so long and keep me awake at night. It makes me feel so stupid!!! But you should not worry. You just have to stop thinking about it. Think of the good stuff. A mistake is only there to help you. You'll learn from it and never do it again. I'm sure next time, it will be different.
We are not all the same, some sail through this sort of 'trauma' as if it were no more than a write of passage - part of life's university of ups and downs - others, such as yourself and many many more have a personality trait (not flaw) that needs to put everything in order and to have some sort of closure on a personal event of this magnitude.
As time goes by this painful and unsettling outcome that has in your mind's eye played a dirty trick on you will relinquish it's not unsubstantial hold on your daily outlook on life and you too will eventually be strong enough to lay this troublesome ghost to rest and allow your self to move forward.
To move forward you may need to talk to a professional - your MD/GP who may wish to refer you to a specialist/councillor
Allow yourself to forgive yourself, what happened
was human nature - you can call it greed if you wish but it was not greed, you were only trying to do what was right for you and your loved ones.
Forgive yourself you have wronged no-one least of all yourself.
I hope this passes soon for you - good luck..
We ALL make mistakes, and some of them really make us sick, but usually they happens for a reason. You may have a better offer in the future. Just hang in there, and dont stop looking and dont give up!
You need to remember that regret one of the feelings that helps you to not make the same mistakes. However, it serves no purpose if you just dwell on it. Regret is about the past and dwelling on the past moves your life nowhere. You're human, and humans are susceptible to greed. Just stop punishing yourself, move on and remember this feeling next time.
let it go,you can't live in the past
A mistake is just a concept that we invent to consider our current and future actions. For example, we can say that to put our hands in the fire is a mistake. This reminds us that we do not want to do that. In reality, of course, every thing goes in accordance with the laws of nature without any mistake. The true mistake is to assume that you could have done otherwise. Don't do that mistake. This is the worst of all mistakes. It makes you suffer. You did in accordance with your nature. Don't regret. Be happy, learn, progress, and yes don't do something if you know it to be a mistake. In particular, don't think that you did a mistake in the past because it is the worst mistake. You did what you had to do. Just happily accept the consequences, and learn, progress.
Dear Hurting-
It occurs to me that if it was I mulling such a ';mistake'; to the extent of which you speak, and it has been, and sometimes it continues to be, something I do, I would wonder two things. Was it a real mistake? What if your inner voice said whoa! Taking this job is the mistake. I don't know why I feel this way but I may be willing to take the risk. However not for this amount of money. Therefore I will ask for that amount I am worth in this case. Secondly, I wonder if realizing you are capable of greed just like the rest of us isn't a bit of a surprise burden. If that is the case it is better to know of that bit of moral elastia, or hiccup than to go down that road eyes closed. Deal with it on a case by case basis and you may find yourself simply human.
Geez - it's only money, pal. By stressing over it, you're just repeating the same mistake. You lost because of greed, and now your regret is fueled by greed. Forget about it and look ahead - AND STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP!
Well, dont concentrate so much on the missed opportunity. You did what you thought you had to do at the time. Now you know better right? Think of this as a learning opportunity.
Sometimes knowledge comes only with a hefty price.
The next time, you will be in a better mental position to make a decision that is right for you.
I think you need to work on acceptance. When we keep working through stuff that happened in the past (over and over and get stuck) it's usually because we are refusing to accept the truth. What about this is making you rehash this all the time and feel bad about it? If you can figure that out, you can figure out how to move on from it.
Everyone makes mistakes. What you learn from those mistakes is what determines what your future will be like. You learned a valuable lesson. Take that into your future and learn from it because that's all you can do--can't change the past.
Also remember -- if you got that job, which pays 25% more, then you can get another job that pays that much more too.
Forgive yourself for holding back, learn from the experience, and move on. The only 'regretful life event' is one that you don't learn from.
Good luck to you.
When one door closes, another opens.
You have a job that pays and a family that loves you. Count your blessings because things could be a LOT worse. Money is important to live off of but, it's bad to live life FOR it. Money can't buy happiness regardless of what people think.
Forgive yourself. We all make mistakes in life. More opportunities will come your way if you leave this behind you and strive towards a more rewarding future. What is done is now done and you cannot live your life regretting this action. You may not realise, but sometimes there is a downside to something that looked so great to begin with. You made your choice at the time so accept that choice and be happy with it. You have obviously learned that wealth doesn't get handed out on a platter and that you need to work hard for it. This is not a huge misjudgement on your part. It is a totally forgivable mistake. Please don't be so hard on yourself. You will succeed and you never know what is waiting around the corner for you. Good Luck and Best Wishes for the future.
Good website for teen sex advice/tips/help?!?!?
i need some good websites that provide help with sex topics that arent exactly telling us ... NO SEX!!! SEX IS BAD!!
i mean realistically all teens have sex or will have sex before marraige and i just want some advice or tips or help .... so what are some sites that are like teens talking to teens about sex or how to do it right or watnot ...
please dont google search ';teens ask teens about sex'; .... i have done thatGood website for teen sex advice/tips/help?!?!?
www.itsyoursexlife.comGood website for teen sex advice/tips/help?!?!?
I'm a member of this site, its really good for sex tips among other things. You should check it out.
http://ymrealdeal.proboards.com/
define teen ... my 19 yr old wife is fine to have sex. we waited til marriage.
sex without love is wrong, no matter the age.
Sex is just the feelings and pleasure. You can go to any site or maybe try asking dr. phil?
no google ';teens sex safety forums'; , you might find some. not sure, I haven't .
you might be an adult and sick adult.
planned parenthood:http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
You could always try Girlsteachguys.com. They talk about all types of relationship things...even sex
teenwire.com
its pretty good. not all teens do before marriage. not all will or do.
teenwire.com
i mean realistically all teens have sex or will have sex before marraige and i just want some advice or tips or help .... so what are some sites that are like teens talking to teens about sex or how to do it right or watnot ...
please dont google search ';teens ask teens about sex'; .... i have done thatGood website for teen sex advice/tips/help?!?!?
www.itsyoursexlife.comGood website for teen sex advice/tips/help?!?!?
I'm a member of this site, its really good for sex tips among other things. You should check it out.
http://ymrealdeal.proboards.com/
define teen ... my 19 yr old wife is fine to have sex. we waited til marriage.
sex without love is wrong, no matter the age.
Sex is just the feelings and pleasure. You can go to any site or maybe try asking dr. phil?
no google ';teens sex safety forums'; , you might find some. not sure, I haven't .
you might be an adult and sick adult.
planned parenthood:http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
You could always try Girlsteachguys.com. They talk about all types of relationship things...even sex
teenwire.com
its pretty good. not all teens do before marriage. not all will or do.
teenwire.com
I want to help my Daughter Though her depression, but i really need some advice. Please help if you can?
My Daugther has been looking after me since she was 6,
( I have M.S) and with other things in her life like her farther leaving and trauma she has been though, it has left her with derpression and social phobia for the past 4 years.
she has seen many thearpist, been on many differnt kinds of medication, done hpynothearpy many self help books but not alot seems to work.
but i was talking to an old friend on how she got though her derpression, was by going away having a week to think to herself with out stuff like looking after me for example.
but she is very scared to be on my own, but i really think she needs it, where do you think she could go to be safe and to think?
Please help thank you xxxxI want to help my Daughter Though her depression, but i really need some advice. Please help if you can?
I'm actually 18+ years old,which is similar to your daughter, and I'm also visiting a therapist now.I know Wat's the feeling of being depress.personally,I think traveling can help a lot, it can open your eyes,and heart.don't just stay in home,go out and let her know that this world is so beautiful,let her know that it's better spending time to do something meaningful rather than being sad.Cause time still go on,whether you are in good mood or bad. Recently,there was one Taiwanese actress died at the age of 28,which is a totally shock news for all the fans around Asia. After I got to know that, I've realized that life is really unpredictable,so why don't just spend times you have in happy mood? ask your daughter that. and tell her that you will be very regret for being sad always,if you get to know you'll going to leave this world tomorrow.
By the way,for therapy,personally, I think should just find a good one,and focus on it.I want to help my Daughter Though her depression, but i really need some advice. Please help if you can?
Seriously, if she's ';seen many therapists, been on many different kinds of medication, done hypnotherapy %26amp; many self help books';...and nothing has helped, then I can't see how a few days away (particularly if she has a social phobia) is going to succeed. What this says to me (and you must surely have considered the possibility already) is that some ongoing stressful situation in her life is preventing her responding to treatment. If this is her caring for you, for example, then you might consider employing someone so she can have regular time off. You mentioned trauma she has been through and her father leaving, but unless these are still ongoing situations, they would not hold her back from recovery. I suspect something in her present daily life will have to definitely change before she can start to get well again.
As soon as she get's herself out from under the burden of caring for you. She will be fine...
That is, if... you spared her the manipulation and guilt that sick people often put others through out of sheer fear based desperation.
I suggest you make an honest attempt at sending her away for college so that she can have a life... Rent and watch the movie called Stella with Bette Midler...
Guilt and fear can really do a number on anyone of an otherwise sound nature. Loving her enough to let her go without guilt is the cure...
Have you considered a psychiatrist, instead of a therapist? It's possible that she has a physical cause to the behavior, and could be treated with a medication other than antidepressants or antianxiety drugs.
My experience is that treating mental illnesses is a matter of finding the right kind of treatment for the right kind of diagnosis. (My husband, who is bipolar, had seen every therapist and tried every antidepressant without success, When he finally saw the right doctor, he was diagnosed and treated- with results within months- using mood stabilizers that the therapists never considered.)
It's worth a try. I sure hope she gets better, as I know it must be hard for both of you. She needs to be on her own, and know she has value apart from being a caretaker, but the freedom probably makes her feel guilty and afraid. You want her to get better, but can't do it for her.
Good luck.
read overcoming depression by professor peter cooper robinson books www.constablerobinson.org its the best book ever written on depression its brilliant it will help you understand everything about depression
your daughter is so young yet she seems to have been through a lot you just need to be there for her and with professional help the both of you will be able to get through it if you are in the uk phone parent line plus or go to the web site just type in parentline plus and they will put you in touch with right people ! good luck xx
Put her on:
1. a psychotherapy waiting list
2. a plane to Lake Balaton in Hungary, and book her a cheap hotel.
No. 1 I cannot stress enough, I have suffered from depression since her age (14 years ago) and it still has not been treated. If I had gone on a waiting list then I might have been seen 10 years ago.
There is a support group for carers- I've seen adverts in my doctor's surgery...
Perhaps you could organise someone else to look after you, %26amp; arrange for your daughter to be taken on a holiday of a life-time via one of the childrens' charities?
Your daughter deserves recognition %26amp; a medal.
Sing her praises to the right people...
She doesn't need a psychiatrist- she is just lonely %26amp; lacking experience in a few social skills due to her isolation...
She needs some respite- some strain taking off her shoulders so she can just be a normal kid...
REWARD her! %26amp; she'll blossom
XX
The power of kindness says:
Rule number one:
Whether a plant, an animal or a person;
If it's alive it's much more likely to thrive
when you give it lots of loving attention.
Rule number two:
Isolation kills. You don't have to believe me or Deanna, just check the statistics on death rates of babies in orphanages versus in homes and the death rates of geriatric patients in nursing homes versus home health care. The numbers speak louder than words.
To read more please visit here http://www.lollie.com/Bkind/Bkind.html
This is something that I have a lot of personal experience with. I was 17 when i went into the absolute worst depression in the world. It crippled me for nearly 20 years. It took a lot of soul searching and the quiet support of my family and friends to help me through it. The best advice, just be there for her. The more you push her to talk the deeper the depression will go for her. I know it's hard, I am now a mother too, to sit by and watch your child suffer, but once she feels comfortable with you as a support and not a threat so to speak she will eventually open up to you. Just be patient and be her friend that she can trust right now. That's exactly what she needs more that anything right now. When the time is right your mother instincts will kick in. Believe me I wish my mother had done it this way. She died 2 years ago not knowing that I had beaten it. She couldn't get over being a mother instead of the best friend that I needed so much. Don't let this happen to you and your daughter. If it does you will never forgive yourself
i would say medication for the depression and CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) for the social phobia
as for going off by herself for a week, i guess everyone deals with depression in their own way.
the situation seems more complicated in that she is your primary carer - is there any way of you getting respite care for a weekend so she go and be a teenager without worrying about how you are?
i suggest you go to the GP and push for her to see a CPN and/or community mental health team.
that doesnt mean she is mad, just ill and needs a bit of help.
she is still young and deserves help.
http://www.cchr.org/index.cfm/8771
( I have M.S) and with other things in her life like her farther leaving and trauma she has been though, it has left her with derpression and social phobia for the past 4 years.
she has seen many thearpist, been on many differnt kinds of medication, done hpynothearpy many self help books but not alot seems to work.
but i was talking to an old friend on how she got though her derpression, was by going away having a week to think to herself with out stuff like looking after me for example.
but she is very scared to be on my own, but i really think she needs it, where do you think she could go to be safe and to think?
Please help thank you xxxxI want to help my Daughter Though her depression, but i really need some advice. Please help if you can?
I'm actually 18+ years old,which is similar to your daughter, and I'm also visiting a therapist now.I know Wat's the feeling of being depress.personally,I think traveling can help a lot, it can open your eyes,and heart.don't just stay in home,go out and let her know that this world is so beautiful,let her know that it's better spending time to do something meaningful rather than being sad.Cause time still go on,whether you are in good mood or bad. Recently,there was one Taiwanese actress died at the age of 28,which is a totally shock news for all the fans around Asia. After I got to know that, I've realized that life is really unpredictable,so why don't just spend times you have in happy mood? ask your daughter that. and tell her that you will be very regret for being sad always,if you get to know you'll going to leave this world tomorrow.
By the way,for therapy,personally, I think should just find a good one,and focus on it.I want to help my Daughter Though her depression, but i really need some advice. Please help if you can?
Seriously, if she's ';seen many therapists, been on many different kinds of medication, done hypnotherapy %26amp; many self help books';...and nothing has helped, then I can't see how a few days away (particularly if she has a social phobia) is going to succeed. What this says to me (and you must surely have considered the possibility already) is that some ongoing stressful situation in her life is preventing her responding to treatment. If this is her caring for you, for example, then you might consider employing someone so she can have regular time off. You mentioned trauma she has been through and her father leaving, but unless these are still ongoing situations, they would not hold her back from recovery. I suspect something in her present daily life will have to definitely change before she can start to get well again.
As soon as she get's herself out from under the burden of caring for you. She will be fine...
That is, if... you spared her the manipulation and guilt that sick people often put others through out of sheer fear based desperation.
I suggest you make an honest attempt at sending her away for college so that she can have a life... Rent and watch the movie called Stella with Bette Midler...
Guilt and fear can really do a number on anyone of an otherwise sound nature. Loving her enough to let her go without guilt is the cure...
Have you considered a psychiatrist, instead of a therapist? It's possible that she has a physical cause to the behavior, and could be treated with a medication other than antidepressants or antianxiety drugs.
My experience is that treating mental illnesses is a matter of finding the right kind of treatment for the right kind of diagnosis. (My husband, who is bipolar, had seen every therapist and tried every antidepressant without success, When he finally saw the right doctor, he was diagnosed and treated- with results within months- using mood stabilizers that the therapists never considered.)
It's worth a try. I sure hope she gets better, as I know it must be hard for both of you. She needs to be on her own, and know she has value apart from being a caretaker, but the freedom probably makes her feel guilty and afraid. You want her to get better, but can't do it for her.
Good luck.
read overcoming depression by professor peter cooper robinson books www.constablerobinson.org its the best book ever written on depression its brilliant it will help you understand everything about depression
your daughter is so young yet she seems to have been through a lot you just need to be there for her and with professional help the both of you will be able to get through it if you are in the uk phone parent line plus or go to the web site just type in parentline plus and they will put you in touch with right people ! good luck xx
Put her on:
1. a psychotherapy waiting list
2. a plane to Lake Balaton in Hungary, and book her a cheap hotel.
No. 1 I cannot stress enough, I have suffered from depression since her age (14 years ago) and it still has not been treated. If I had gone on a waiting list then I might have been seen 10 years ago.
There is a support group for carers- I've seen adverts in my doctor's surgery...
Perhaps you could organise someone else to look after you, %26amp; arrange for your daughter to be taken on a holiday of a life-time via one of the childrens' charities?
Your daughter deserves recognition %26amp; a medal.
Sing her praises to the right people...
She doesn't need a psychiatrist- she is just lonely %26amp; lacking experience in a few social skills due to her isolation...
She needs some respite- some strain taking off her shoulders so she can just be a normal kid...
REWARD her! %26amp; she'll blossom
XX
The power of kindness says:
Rule number one:
Whether a plant, an animal or a person;
If it's alive it's much more likely to thrive
when you give it lots of loving attention.
Rule number two:
Isolation kills. You don't have to believe me or Deanna, just check the statistics on death rates of babies in orphanages versus in homes and the death rates of geriatric patients in nursing homes versus home health care. The numbers speak louder than words.
To read more please visit here http://www.lollie.com/Bkind/Bkind.html
This is something that I have a lot of personal experience with. I was 17 when i went into the absolute worst depression in the world. It crippled me for nearly 20 years. It took a lot of soul searching and the quiet support of my family and friends to help me through it. The best advice, just be there for her. The more you push her to talk the deeper the depression will go for her. I know it's hard, I am now a mother too, to sit by and watch your child suffer, but once she feels comfortable with you as a support and not a threat so to speak she will eventually open up to you. Just be patient and be her friend that she can trust right now. That's exactly what she needs more that anything right now. When the time is right your mother instincts will kick in. Believe me I wish my mother had done it this way. She died 2 years ago not knowing that I had beaten it. She couldn't get over being a mother instead of the best friend that I needed so much. Don't let this happen to you and your daughter. If it does you will never forgive yourself
i would say medication for the depression and CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) for the social phobia
as for going off by herself for a week, i guess everyone deals with depression in their own way.
the situation seems more complicated in that she is your primary carer - is there any way of you getting respite care for a weekend so she go and be a teenager without worrying about how you are?
i suggest you go to the GP and push for her to see a CPN and/or community mental health team.
that doesnt mean she is mad, just ill and needs a bit of help.
she is still young and deserves help.
http://www.cchr.org/index.cfm/8771
Hi everyone, bit of help or advice please? Greatly appreciated.?
I have to get a laparoscopy (keyhole surgery through my belly button) done soon to see if I have endometrosis.
Just wondering if this surgery is painful? how long does it take to heal and if you are left with scarring?
Any personal experience stories will help also.
Thank you!Hi everyone, bit of help or advice please? Greatly appreciated.?
I don't know from experience, so I can't really help you.
But the whole idea of keyhole surgery is that it is a simple incision, which certainly limits any follow up discomfort and which should mean minimal if any scarring.
I found this information:
What is Laparoscopy?
It is an operation where a tiny telescope is inserted through a small incision in your naval to see the abdominal cavity and pelvis. More small incisions are necessary so that other instruments can be used to perform the procedure. The incisions are closed with a single stitch or closure tape.
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So I don't think you should worry Amanda. If the incisions are so small you shouldn't notice them afterwards. And of course your belly button is not entirely smooth anyway, so that would make it harder to se any tiny marks.
I wish you well and I'll be thinking flowers and chocolates for you!Hi everyone, bit of help or advice please? Greatly appreciated.?
had surgery thru the belly button for gall bladder removal. this is the most painful area to get an incision. i wasn,t able to put a seat belt on for a week. for such a tiny cut, it hurt! takes about two weeks to be forgotten.
i have had keyhole surgery in my knee 2 times and it was sore for about a week and it was fine then and i only had 3 stitches, you will be fine and you shouldnt have a scar afterwards good luck with the surgery.
If they are just going through your belly button it won't be as painful as if you got a c-section cut. They will put you under so when you wake up you will have some gas bubbles that will make you uncomfortable as they have to pump your belly full of gas to be able to see everything. Sometimes the gas bubbles travel to your neck so don't be alarmed.
I had a double surgery about 1 1/2 years ago. It was only supposed to be a laparoscopy to reverse a tubal ligation but when I woke up they told me that they found and removed a small amount of endometriosis. I was in the hospital for 2 days and on morphine which worked well while I was there but they sent me home with something that didn't work at all. I was fine when I was lying down but when I attempted to get up it was pretty uncomfortable. But again I had the c-section cut as well so I think that's why it was so bad. Luckily I had taken the week off from work as I really needed to rest after that and my kids where away so I didn't have to worry about getting up much. They say it takes about a week to fully recover. I just know that I felt like I got hit by a truck for a couple of days. As for the scarring, I can barely see mine. I have worn bathing suits since the surgery and can't even tell unless I look really close, it's basically one cut straight across the lower end of your belly button about an inch or so long.
You will feel crappy for a few days or so but it'll be worth it if they find and are able to remove the endometriosis and soon after you will feel so much better. Just remember to rest afterward, and no strenuous activity (they may even tell you not to have sex for a few weeks afterward). Good luck. And remember to ask your doctor any questions or concerns before you get it done and if you are unsure of how you are feeling afterward (they are here to help you).
Just wondering if this surgery is painful? how long does it take to heal and if you are left with scarring?
Any personal experience stories will help also.
Thank you!Hi everyone, bit of help or advice please? Greatly appreciated.?
I don't know from experience, so I can't really help you.
But the whole idea of keyhole surgery is that it is a simple incision, which certainly limits any follow up discomfort and which should mean minimal if any scarring.
I found this information:
What is Laparoscopy?
It is an operation where a tiny telescope is inserted through a small incision in your naval to see the abdominal cavity and pelvis. More small incisions are necessary so that other instruments can be used to perform the procedure. The incisions are closed with a single stitch or closure tape.
++++++++++++
So I don't think you should worry Amanda. If the incisions are so small you shouldn't notice them afterwards. And of course your belly button is not entirely smooth anyway, so that would make it harder to se any tiny marks.
I wish you well and I'll be thinking flowers and chocolates for you!Hi everyone, bit of help or advice please? Greatly appreciated.?
had surgery thru the belly button for gall bladder removal. this is the most painful area to get an incision. i wasn,t able to put a seat belt on for a week. for such a tiny cut, it hurt! takes about two weeks to be forgotten.
i have had keyhole surgery in my knee 2 times and it was sore for about a week and it was fine then and i only had 3 stitches, you will be fine and you shouldnt have a scar afterwards good luck with the surgery.
If they are just going through your belly button it won't be as painful as if you got a c-section cut. They will put you under so when you wake up you will have some gas bubbles that will make you uncomfortable as they have to pump your belly full of gas to be able to see everything. Sometimes the gas bubbles travel to your neck so don't be alarmed.
I had a double surgery about 1 1/2 years ago. It was only supposed to be a laparoscopy to reverse a tubal ligation but when I woke up they told me that they found and removed a small amount of endometriosis. I was in the hospital for 2 days and on morphine which worked well while I was there but they sent me home with something that didn't work at all. I was fine when I was lying down but when I attempted to get up it was pretty uncomfortable. But again I had the c-section cut as well so I think that's why it was so bad. Luckily I had taken the week off from work as I really needed to rest after that and my kids where away so I didn't have to worry about getting up much. They say it takes about a week to fully recover. I just know that I felt like I got hit by a truck for a couple of days. As for the scarring, I can barely see mine. I have worn bathing suits since the surgery and can't even tell unless I look really close, it's basically one cut straight across the lower end of your belly button about an inch or so long.
You will feel crappy for a few days or so but it'll be worth it if they find and are able to remove the endometriosis and soon after you will feel so much better. Just remember to rest afterward, and no strenuous activity (they may even tell you not to have sex for a few weeks afterward). Good luck. And remember to ask your doctor any questions or concerns before you get it done and if you are unsure of how you are feeling afterward (they are here to help you).
I am depressed but I had it before for 6 months and it went away. Anybody else have that and advice? HELP!?
When i was in 7th grade my friends ditched me and i went into a depression, eventually also thinking of ending my life. But then once i made new friends half a year later i slowly went away. Now i'm having the same problem again and it's gotten so bad that i am having those 'thoughts' again. I really hope i'm not the only one out there and that you guys won't make fun of me.. It's just that i really need some help and i would love some advice. If there is anybody out there that could shed some light on my situation.. I know it sounds childish but i can't get through a day without crying. Thanks so much.I am depressed but I had it before for 6 months and it went away. Anybody else have that and advice? HELP!?
Bro.
I'm fifteen and i've been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and depression.
It's not childish.
I've attempted suicide by drinking alcohol.
I know this is going to sound scary, but i want you to talk to your parents.
I want you to ask them to take you to the doctor, and ask your doctor about a medicine called Lexapro.
Tell him all the symptoms you're having.
You should tell him if you don't want your mom/dad to hear, than you can ask the doctor to speak to them privately.
The parent would HAVE to leave the room, because patient doctor privacy.
You're not alone, i'm here for ya bro (online, i don't quite know you in real life.)
Try writing music, sing in the shower.
if you need to talk, i'd prefer you message me on myspace.
myspace.com/ehwatchthebeatI am depressed but I had it before for 6 months and it went away. Anybody else have that and advice? HELP!?
thanks %26lt;3
Sounds like me. I can't get through a day without crying. I cry myself right into a migraine. I am much older than you but my depression really didn't kick in until my late twenties. I have tried everything. You name it I tried it. There is no cure. All the people who tried to help me were being paid too and they failed but got their money. Friends abandoned me. I have just about given up. I don't know what to tell you except you are not alone. I have tried all antidepressants and they don't work.carmex balm
Bro.
I'm fifteen and i've been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and depression.
It's not childish.
I've attempted suicide by drinking alcohol.
I know this is going to sound scary, but i want you to talk to your parents.
I want you to ask them to take you to the doctor, and ask your doctor about a medicine called Lexapro.
Tell him all the symptoms you're having.
You should tell him if you don't want your mom/dad to hear, than you can ask the doctor to speak to them privately.
The parent would HAVE to leave the room, because patient doctor privacy.
You're not alone, i'm here for ya bro (online, i don't quite know you in real life.)
Try writing music, sing in the shower.
if you need to talk, i'd prefer you message me on myspace.
myspace.com/ehwatchthebeatI am depressed but I had it before for 6 months and it went away. Anybody else have that and advice? HELP!?
thanks %26lt;3
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Sounds like me. I can't get through a day without crying. I cry myself right into a migraine. I am much older than you but my depression really didn't kick in until my late twenties. I have tried everything. You name it I tried it. There is no cure. All the people who tried to help me were being paid too and they failed but got their money. Friends abandoned me. I have just about given up. I don't know what to tell you except you are not alone. I have tried all antidepressants and they don't work.
Housing grant help advice?
My fianc茅 just literally got up and left our 2 yr old and me. I was a stay at home mother so I don't have any money saved up. Our lease is up in 4 months and idk how I am goi g to be able to find a place to live. I went to HUD and their program is full for the next 10 years. Does anyone know of any grants or have any suggestions? Were found to to from a very nice apartment to being homeless. I live in Chicagoland.Housing grant help advice?
Two words Government grants. With the economy being as weak as it is the government is pumping a lot of free grants in to the economy, free grants that you ill never have to pay back. The hardest thing is finding a reputable source here's a link to a article that gives great info on getting the free government grants out there.
Two words Government grants. With the economy being as weak as it is the government is pumping a lot of free grants in to the economy, free grants that you ill never have to pay back. The hardest thing is finding a reputable source here's a link to a article that gives great info on getting the free government grants out there.
Looking for help/advice, I'm I really a loser and how I can change.?
Hi,
These past couple of days I鈥檝e come to a realization that I've been going thru life these couple of years in automatic pilot, no goals, no fire, no purpose. All this time I've giving excuses to my self and others. I been like this so long that I don't see even where to begging or if is even possible to change. All I鈥檝e doing is thinking and thinking. I believe deep down I'm not a loser. i guest what I鈥檓 looking for is guidanceLooking for help/advice, I'm I really a loser and how I can change.?
Congratulations: The first step to change is to realize that you have a problem.
Now you have to stop thinking that you are a loser, and make a list of what did you always wanted to do, or to study, and begging with this.
You should also look for professional help.Looking for help/advice, I'm I really a loser and how I can change.?
As long as you have hope and the desire to change for better you're never a loser. I've been/was in the same boat as you and realized it last Octoberish, I must admit that Yahoo answers really helps, it helps remind me that I have lived, have done things with my life and have accumulated some wisdom that can help (hopefully) other people. I've also decided and now am doing some things that always made me happy, just because some of my dreams died in my youth, doesn't mean I can't do what I enjoyed, only now without the pressure I put on myself to succeed and go further. Just because I never made it farther than high school in baseball doesn't mean I still can't play and enjoy pitching like I did-I've found a summer recreational adult league and have been working out in preparation. In college I liked to play rock and roll, I never got a record deal but it was fun, so I've found some other dudes to rock with. Make your first goal to be happy and do what you want and what it takes to be so, when you're happy you'll find other goals come along and change is easier to make. Start small, a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
your not sweety,
your just going through a hard time in your life.. eveyone does, i did too. just keep yourself busy take your time and you'll get there honey. it don't happen overnight kiddo. ciao
You see, the fact that you are willing to seek help tells me that you are not a loser. At certain point, a person has to stop complaining and take an active part in changing what he/she perceives as ';wrong'; n his or her life. What about writing a list of what is good about you, what is not so good about you, and what you believe to be wrong with you. Then you go ahead and for the short term goals, you can try small steps to either improve on what is good about you, or to change what is not so good about you. Small steps make the task look smaller. Besides, having a list of what is good about you will give you some perspective that you are really NOT a loser!
Then you have to decide what to do long term: go back to school, change jobs, start an exercise program, start a new hobby, or whatever you think you need to change in your life. Good luck!
we are our worst enemy first make some goals then fallow threw them try small ones at first like make a list of to Dos and fallow threw them do not make a list of 100 try 5-10 and finish that off. help the elderly deliver food to them do something for your community and it makes you feel better it has proven to help people in a good way like meals on wheels or helping with the salvation army or any honest organization it will make you feel like a winner . hope this advise will help out
hi, you are not a loser you are going thru what many people are going thru myself and others i know this world seems to be overwhelming most of the time you are already on the right road by asking for help my advice is to make a plan for your life and go for it the sky is your limit you can do it!
You're not a loser. You just have to find the fire in you and let it out. I recommend reading this book ';Your Sacred Self'; by Wayne Dyer and you'll be on your way to making changes in your life.
I found that book when I was at my lowest and was having suicidal thoughts. This was the book that saved me.
I am the exact same way... just that i have been pushed to do stuff that is how i went to school and got a full time job... But i feel the same way because i am not internally happy with what i have done with my life... i am married but that is not enough... i feel empty and that i still need to do more stuff to feel complete... don't feel bad i do too
Why on automatic pilot? You are the ONLY one that can really change your life (along with the help of God). You just have to make a decision that this is what I want to do, this is what I want to be and get up the next morning and put one foot in front of the other and do it! You CAN be all that you WANT to be and do all that you want to do! Every day every one of us have the same decisions to make about our lives.. we just have to do it! I believe in you!! Hang in there! Believe in yourself! and DO IT!
If you recognize you are wrong, you have taken a big step. Next one is to get help from someone that can help u professionally. Mayebe a therapist or a social worker.
Well for starters,you need to know that losers don't know that they are losers so let's drop that b4 we start.Second,you are not alone in this and you CAN change.First you need to change your attitude.You are an important part of OUR world.You CAN contribute and make a difference .In the great scheme of things it's the little people in our world{I'm speaking metaphorically}who make a difference.What is YOUR idea of sucess?Figure that one out and go from there.You CAN be whomever you want.Just look at Flava Flave.He can't sing but he's a recording artist, he's not much to look at but people love watching his show,He came from a poor background and now he's rich as Crocus.All you need to do is LOVE YOURSELF.YOU CAN DO THIS.Hope this helps and good luck to you.
start making small goals for yourself and stick with them. and i recommand reading some good books. there's a lot out there can change your view point of life. I recenlty reading Rich Dad, Poor Dad, by Robert Kiyosaki. i didn't learn to become a business person. but i learned something for other uses. like broadening my view point of life and human relation, the idea used in business but you can use them on sth else........or go back to school. talk to some friends, get ppl's similar experience and ask how they go over it.
i sometimes feel i am a loser but i never give up. i believe i will make it someday
good luck for both of us
I know the feeling. I am 31 years old and at one time life held promise for me. I had a great job, car and despite my retarded upbringing, I was destined for success. Then I screwed it all up. I was depressed so i quit my job and ended up on a disability pension because of severe depression and anxiety. I crashed the car I worked so hard to pay off and I didn't have insurance anymore. Now I'm stuck in this house thats miles away from town so I have no way to get anywhere. I have gained weight and smoke cigarettes and I'm also a pot-head. Even the house I Iive in is a write-off. I get so sick of being stuck here that I give up on cleaning it. So now I sit here, with my house a distaster feeling fat and stoned and useless and hopeless. I KNOW I need to change but it's so hard to know where to start!! Good luck on finding your path in life. I hope we find a way out of our self-inflicted predicaments soon.
just think what you have in life don't think what you did not have wen ever you have life hope thinking you b naver a looser
The smoothest way to start is with body language and mindset I believe. You've already sort of done that with your last line, believing that you're not a loser.
When you walk and talk with authority, and by that I mean holding your head up, shoulders back and relaxed, straight up posture, with a smoothness to your walk and the ability to maintain eye contact people will respond to you differently and you will feel differently as a result. You'll notice eyes watching you in a positive way and smiles.
From there, you have to figure out what it is about yourself that you want to change. Lose weight? Dress better? Know more about basketball? Whatever it is, these are ultimately perogatives you set for yourself in your mind that tell you what to do with your life. The idea is to fit the image you see in your mind as closely as possible. Then start slow and just work at changing those things through gained information or experience, whatever your style is.
I promise if you do that you will feel tremendously better about yourself. I've always found that knowing gives me confidence, so if there is something you are unsure about, then research it and understand it. The more you know, the more prepared you are to handle life's obstacles. Good luck.
find something you're interested in and learn as much as you can about it. go to college and get ready for a new career. get active in your community. do some volunteer work somewhere
Hi there
You are not a loser!
The best thing anyone can do for themselves is realise when they're not happy with their current situation - and you've done that.
So often we can go through life, doing things our hearts aren't in.
The most important thing, in my opinion, is to know yourself. Know what you want to do in life and make positive steps to achieve what you want to achieve.
All the best
These past couple of days I鈥檝e come to a realization that I've been going thru life these couple of years in automatic pilot, no goals, no fire, no purpose. All this time I've giving excuses to my self and others. I been like this so long that I don't see even where to begging or if is even possible to change. All I鈥檝e doing is thinking and thinking. I believe deep down I'm not a loser. i guest what I鈥檓 looking for is guidanceLooking for help/advice, I'm I really a loser and how I can change.?
Congratulations: The first step to change is to realize that you have a problem.
Now you have to stop thinking that you are a loser, and make a list of what did you always wanted to do, or to study, and begging with this.
You should also look for professional help.Looking for help/advice, I'm I really a loser and how I can change.?
As long as you have hope and the desire to change for better you're never a loser. I've been/was in the same boat as you and realized it last Octoberish, I must admit that Yahoo answers really helps, it helps remind me that I have lived, have done things with my life and have accumulated some wisdom that can help (hopefully) other people. I've also decided and now am doing some things that always made me happy, just because some of my dreams died in my youth, doesn't mean I can't do what I enjoyed, only now without the pressure I put on myself to succeed and go further. Just because I never made it farther than high school in baseball doesn't mean I still can't play and enjoy pitching like I did-I've found a summer recreational adult league and have been working out in preparation. In college I liked to play rock and roll, I never got a record deal but it was fun, so I've found some other dudes to rock with. Make your first goal to be happy and do what you want and what it takes to be so, when you're happy you'll find other goals come along and change is easier to make. Start small, a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
your not sweety,
your just going through a hard time in your life.. eveyone does, i did too. just keep yourself busy take your time and you'll get there honey. it don't happen overnight kiddo. ciao
You see, the fact that you are willing to seek help tells me that you are not a loser. At certain point, a person has to stop complaining and take an active part in changing what he/she perceives as ';wrong'; n his or her life. What about writing a list of what is good about you, what is not so good about you, and what you believe to be wrong with you. Then you go ahead and for the short term goals, you can try small steps to either improve on what is good about you, or to change what is not so good about you. Small steps make the task look smaller. Besides, having a list of what is good about you will give you some perspective that you are really NOT a loser!
Then you have to decide what to do long term: go back to school, change jobs, start an exercise program, start a new hobby, or whatever you think you need to change in your life. Good luck!
we are our worst enemy first make some goals then fallow threw them try small ones at first like make a list of to Dos and fallow threw them do not make a list of 100 try 5-10 and finish that off. help the elderly deliver food to them do something for your community and it makes you feel better it has proven to help people in a good way like meals on wheels or helping with the salvation army or any honest organization it will make you feel like a winner . hope this advise will help out
hi, you are not a loser you are going thru what many people are going thru myself and others i know this world seems to be overwhelming most of the time you are already on the right road by asking for help my advice is to make a plan for your life and go for it the sky is your limit you can do it!
You're not a loser. You just have to find the fire in you and let it out. I recommend reading this book ';Your Sacred Self'; by Wayne Dyer and you'll be on your way to making changes in your life.
I found that book when I was at my lowest and was having suicidal thoughts. This was the book that saved me.
I am the exact same way... just that i have been pushed to do stuff that is how i went to school and got a full time job... But i feel the same way because i am not internally happy with what i have done with my life... i am married but that is not enough... i feel empty and that i still need to do more stuff to feel complete... don't feel bad i do too
Why on automatic pilot? You are the ONLY one that can really change your life (along with the help of God). You just have to make a decision that this is what I want to do, this is what I want to be and get up the next morning and put one foot in front of the other and do it! You CAN be all that you WANT to be and do all that you want to do! Every day every one of us have the same decisions to make about our lives.. we just have to do it! I believe in you!! Hang in there! Believe in yourself! and DO IT!
If you recognize you are wrong, you have taken a big step. Next one is to get help from someone that can help u professionally. Mayebe a therapist or a social worker.
Well for starters,you need to know that losers don't know that they are losers so let's drop that b4 we start.Second,you are not alone in this and you CAN change.First you need to change your attitude.You are an important part of OUR world.You CAN contribute and make a difference .In the great scheme of things it's the little people in our world{I'm speaking metaphorically}who make a difference.What is YOUR idea of sucess?Figure that one out and go from there.You CAN be whomever you want.Just look at Flava Flave.He can't sing but he's a recording artist, he's not much to look at but people love watching his show,He came from a poor background and now he's rich as Crocus.All you need to do is LOVE YOURSELF.YOU CAN DO THIS.Hope this helps and good luck to you.
start making small goals for yourself and stick with them. and i recommand reading some good books. there's a lot out there can change your view point of life. I recenlty reading Rich Dad, Poor Dad, by Robert Kiyosaki. i didn't learn to become a business person. but i learned something for other uses. like broadening my view point of life and human relation, the idea used in business but you can use them on sth else........or go back to school. talk to some friends, get ppl's similar experience and ask how they go over it.
i sometimes feel i am a loser but i never give up. i believe i will make it someday
good luck for both of us
I know the feeling. I am 31 years old and at one time life held promise for me. I had a great job, car and despite my retarded upbringing, I was destined for success. Then I screwed it all up. I was depressed so i quit my job and ended up on a disability pension because of severe depression and anxiety. I crashed the car I worked so hard to pay off and I didn't have insurance anymore. Now I'm stuck in this house thats miles away from town so I have no way to get anywhere. I have gained weight and smoke cigarettes and I'm also a pot-head. Even the house I Iive in is a write-off. I get so sick of being stuck here that I give up on cleaning it. So now I sit here, with my house a distaster feeling fat and stoned and useless and hopeless. I KNOW I need to change but it's so hard to know where to start!! Good luck on finding your path in life. I hope we find a way out of our self-inflicted predicaments soon.
just think what you have in life don't think what you did not have wen ever you have life hope thinking you b naver a looser
The smoothest way to start is with body language and mindset I believe. You've already sort of done that with your last line, believing that you're not a loser.
When you walk and talk with authority, and by that I mean holding your head up, shoulders back and relaxed, straight up posture, with a smoothness to your walk and the ability to maintain eye contact people will respond to you differently and you will feel differently as a result. You'll notice eyes watching you in a positive way and smiles.
From there, you have to figure out what it is about yourself that you want to change. Lose weight? Dress better? Know more about basketball? Whatever it is, these are ultimately perogatives you set for yourself in your mind that tell you what to do with your life. The idea is to fit the image you see in your mind as closely as possible. Then start slow and just work at changing those things through gained information or experience, whatever your style is.
I promise if you do that you will feel tremendously better about yourself. I've always found that knowing gives me confidence, so if there is something you are unsure about, then research it and understand it. The more you know, the more prepared you are to handle life's obstacles. Good luck.
find something you're interested in and learn as much as you can about it. go to college and get ready for a new career. get active in your community. do some volunteer work somewhere
Hi there
You are not a loser!
The best thing anyone can do for themselves is realise when they're not happy with their current situation - and you've done that.
So often we can go through life, doing things our hearts aren't in.
The most important thing, in my opinion, is to know yourself. Know what you want to do in life and make positive steps to achieve what you want to achieve.
All the best
Tips, tricks, advice.......help?????
Im a shy girl but once you get to know me i can be very outgoing and fun. I am having trouble talking to a guy i like for this reason. I want to be more outgoing around him but i am just too shy. Do you have any tips that could help me be more comfortable and act myself around a him?Tips, tricks, advice.......help?????
hmm... this is tough. just because if you act different than yourself he will obviously know you like him and he will have ';the power'; but just say hi.. just a compliment to start off. then gradually better more in depth convo about real things
hmm... this is tough. just because if you act different than yourself he will obviously know you like him and he will have ';the power'; but just say hi.. just a compliment to start off. then gradually better more in depth convo about real things
Please help advice needed.could i be pregnant?
my boobs have grown bigger and are heavy and sore and i keep getting a funny feeling in my tummy but am still having periods as normal. with my last pregnancy by periods stopped so would that happen again?is it possible?Please help advice needed.could i be pregnant?
If you are pregnant, your periods should have stopped by now.
But if your really unsure then just take a pregnancy test.
Good luckPlease help advice needed.could i be pregnant?
take a home pregnancy test.
Does your nipples itch because that is a sign as well. your periods should have stopped by now if you are definitely pregnant.
dont know....wait and c....all the best
ur just getting fat
go on a diet
If you are pregnant, your periods should have stopped by now.
But if your really unsure then just take a pregnancy test.
Good luckPlease help advice needed.could i be pregnant?
take a home pregnancy test.
Does your nipples itch because that is a sign as well. your periods should have stopped by now if you are definitely pregnant.
dont know....wait and c....all the best
ur just getting fat
go on a diet
Should i do this help i need advice?
I've known this girl for years since i was a kid. I'm 18 now, and she's 15 my uncle is married to her aunt, And the 15 year olds mom likes me as her daughters bf. The daughter also said she likes me should i proceed to move into a relationship with her?
I would really like this since we're both virgins so i would be proud to marry her, and put a big ring on her finger and see her in a white dress.Should i do this help i need advice?
YES!!! This is sooo sweet and it is good to marry someone you know and ike before you are older and are forced into marrige. Obviously you cant get married now but proceed into a relationship and be happy! Also dont be surprised if you have fights that is natural and you guys will get over it. Just stay true to youself and each other. This is SOOOOO SWEET!Should i do this help i need advice?
I think that's considered incest.
I would really like this since we're both virgins so i would be proud to marry her, and put a big ring on her finger and see her in a white dress.Should i do this help i need advice?
YES!!! This is sooo sweet and it is good to marry someone you know and ike before you are older and are forced into marrige. Obviously you cant get married now but proceed into a relationship and be happy! Also dont be surprised if you have fights that is natural and you guys will get over it. Just stay true to youself and each other. This is SOOOOO SWEET!Should i do this help i need advice?
I think that's considered incest.
Kissing Advice... Help me girls!?!?
I am going to serious (not peck) kiss my girlfriend for the first time, and I've kissed before, but she hasn't. She knows that I am going to kiss her and I want it to be just right (within reason). What can I do to make it more comfortable for her, what would you want it to be like? eg. how should i build up to it, and what should i do while kissing?? ThanksKissing Advice... Help me girls!?!?
The best kisses are spontaneous, and not planned. The more u are stressed, the more uncomfortable it will be. The mere fact that you are on here asking about how to make her comfortable means you are a great catch :0) My advice is to talk about it before you try to kiss her...bring it up during the day, at a time when she feels comfortable to talk about her feelings or think about her answers. Does she even want to kiss? Dont leave it until the last minute when you want to kiss her and ask her...it might lead to an embarassing first kiss! Start by talking to her about your feelings for her, why you care about her, what you like about her. Giving girls complements will make them want to kiss you eventually :o)Kissing Advice... Help me girls!?!?
Since you are experienced, you should be leading her. I suggest that you find somewhere quiet and peaceful so there would be no one bothering the two of you {especially her first kiss} Do it at a random time. This will be better than planned out kisses. I find that if you say you're going to kiss its more boring than what you think. You wanted to build up? Skinship is technically very important when doing a passionate kiss. you could hold hands or fiddle with her hair or maybe even hold her back in support! there are so many ways. but the best one is you can only find the key way to kiss when you actually kiss. Everyone has their own ways!
Goodluck~
What a sweet question this is. A kiss is more personal than anything else to me. If you care for her a great kiss is going to come naturally, but if your that nervous you can try looking her square in the eyes pull her close put both your hands on her face and under her hair and kiss her nicely but deeply (use your tongue). If you analyze this too much your gonna suck as a kisser (and that matters) so just do it, believe me she's probably more than ready.
going out to the movie or on a candlelight date
after that sit on a bench make her feel comfortable with talks
spontaneous
like in the movie
hug her
waaaalaaahhh
here come the KISS
lol
idk my first kiss was under the bridge
its dark and so cold because raining
we have to wait there almost two hour
just us
alone
then ..... well u know what to do if she said ';im so cold';
i really don't know...since i haven't had my first too. probably it would be better to kiss her off guard but make sure its on the right moment.....just the two of you so as not to make her embarrassed. it's her first so maybe she'd get really nervous and stuff so try to make her comfortable first maybe by talking etc.
I was in her situation not too long ago actually. Make sure you're alone (not at the movies..) like a park or something cute. Just start by kissing her with slow pecks and build up to it. Break and give her a hug ask her how she is feeling. Everything should just got smoothly from there. Hope I helped! :)
I would say go on with your heart, if it doesn't feel right then it's not right.
Don't follow other peoples idea on how to do it right. You make it right, be comfortable with your choices even if it will hurt you.
The heart wants what it wants, even that which is bad for it.
lol just be patient and go with the flow control the emotion and make her want more lead but don't push and don't rush! let her decide when its over listen to her body motions and the sounds she makes, look for the ';spark'; and don't stare at her while yer kissing here that's creepy. good luck
I think you shouldn't ketch her off guard. Make sure she is comfortable. Do it like at a movie and do the old arm over the shoulder, then kiss her (like a peck) and look her in the eyes and kiss her again, this time longer.
okay!!! i have the puuuuurrrfect-0 answer!!! kiss her 1st (peck) then when she triez to turn away pull her back and put ur hand on the side of her face;) that wudd beeee soooooo000ooo0o0o0 romantic ♥ DO it!!!!! awww ghood luck!! Lulubby♥
Sweet talk her, go to a nice alley way or cinema and stare her in the eyes.
search on youtube for how to kiss, it has amazing vids it takes you step by step. And it will be perfect and comfortable
If you need advice on your first kiss with her, wait until your first ****!!
grab her and make out with hercarmex balm
The best kisses are spontaneous, and not planned. The more u are stressed, the more uncomfortable it will be. The mere fact that you are on here asking about how to make her comfortable means you are a great catch :0) My advice is to talk about it before you try to kiss her...bring it up during the day, at a time when she feels comfortable to talk about her feelings or think about her answers. Does she even want to kiss? Dont leave it until the last minute when you want to kiss her and ask her...it might lead to an embarassing first kiss! Start by talking to her about your feelings for her, why you care about her, what you like about her. Giving girls complements will make them want to kiss you eventually :o)Kissing Advice... Help me girls!?!?
Since you are experienced, you should be leading her. I suggest that you find somewhere quiet and peaceful so there would be no one bothering the two of you {especially her first kiss} Do it at a random time. This will be better than planned out kisses. I find that if you say you're going to kiss its more boring than what you think. You wanted to build up? Skinship is technically very important when doing a passionate kiss. you could hold hands or fiddle with her hair or maybe even hold her back in support! there are so many ways. but the best one is you can only find the key way to kiss when you actually kiss. Everyone has their own ways!
Goodluck~
What a sweet question this is. A kiss is more personal than anything else to me. If you care for her a great kiss is going to come naturally, but if your that nervous you can try looking her square in the eyes pull her close put both your hands on her face and under her hair and kiss her nicely but deeply (use your tongue). If you analyze this too much your gonna suck as a kisser (and that matters) so just do it, believe me she's probably more than ready.
going out to the movie or on a candlelight date
after that sit on a bench make her feel comfortable with talks
spontaneous
like in the movie
hug her
waaaalaaahhh
here come the KISS
lol
idk my first kiss was under the bridge
its dark and so cold because raining
we have to wait there almost two hour
just us
alone
then ..... well u know what to do if she said ';im so cold';
i really don't know...since i haven't had my first too. probably it would be better to kiss her off guard but make sure its on the right moment.....just the two of you so as not to make her embarrassed. it's her first so maybe she'd get really nervous and stuff so try to make her comfortable first maybe by talking etc.
I was in her situation not too long ago actually. Make sure you're alone (not at the movies..) like a park or something cute. Just start by kissing her with slow pecks and build up to it. Break and give her a hug ask her how she is feeling. Everything should just got smoothly from there. Hope I helped! :)
I would say go on with your heart, if it doesn't feel right then it's not right.
Don't follow other peoples idea on how to do it right. You make it right, be comfortable with your choices even if it will hurt you.
The heart wants what it wants, even that which is bad for it.
lol just be patient and go with the flow control the emotion and make her want more lead but don't push and don't rush! let her decide when its over listen to her body motions and the sounds she makes, look for the ';spark'; and don't stare at her while yer kissing here that's creepy. good luck
I think you shouldn't ketch her off guard. Make sure she is comfortable. Do it like at a movie and do the old arm over the shoulder, then kiss her (like a peck) and look her in the eyes and kiss her again, this time longer.
okay!!! i have the puuuuurrrfect-0 answer!!! kiss her 1st (peck) then when she triez to turn away pull her back and put ur hand on the side of her face;) that wudd beeee soooooo000ooo0o0o0 romantic ♥ DO it!!!!! awww ghood luck!! Lulubby♥
Sweet talk her, go to a nice alley way or cinema and stare her in the eyes.
search on youtube for how to kiss, it has amazing vids it takes you step by step. And it will be perfect and comfortable
If you need advice on your first kiss with her, wait until your first ****!!
grab her and make out with her
Guy advice... help me please!!?
how can i tell if he really truly likes me.. we are going to different high schools and i dont know if i will ever see him again
some days it seems like he has a crush on me like at the party a few nighs ago, but sometimes he totally seems like he's avoiding me and its awkward
i really really like him...but im not the kind of girlwho chases after guys...
do i try to get him to notice me as like a girlfriend or should i give up on this crush???????Guy advice... help me please!!?
Hey thats exactly what im doing right now
theres this girl some days i pay a lot of attention to her other days i dont even say a word to her
I do this on purpose just to see if she really likes me or not
for example :
Will she come up to me to start a convo?
will she look at me at least and not ignore me ?
Is she really is interested in me she would hang with me and not with her Girlfriends
get what im saying?
All this time i always talked to her
say hi when ever i get the chance to say hi when she is close to me
Im the one that talks to her first but she never talks to me first
see what im saying
hope this helped
cheersGuy advice... help me please!!?
He either does not know how to ask you out
or
He is not interested.
Hey, your only in high school...Graduate High School, Goto College, Mature a little into adulthood, find a man...
some days it seems like he has a crush on me like at the party a few nighs ago, but sometimes he totally seems like he's avoiding me and its awkward
i really really like him...but im not the kind of girlwho chases after guys...
do i try to get him to notice me as like a girlfriend or should i give up on this crush???????Guy advice... help me please!!?
Hey thats exactly what im doing right now
theres this girl some days i pay a lot of attention to her other days i dont even say a word to her
I do this on purpose just to see if she really likes me or not
for example :
Will she come up to me to start a convo?
will she look at me at least and not ignore me ?
Is she really is interested in me she would hang with me and not with her Girlfriends
get what im saying?
All this time i always talked to her
say hi when ever i get the chance to say hi when she is close to me
Im the one that talks to her first but she never talks to me first
see what im saying
hope this helped
cheersGuy advice... help me please!!?
He either does not know how to ask you out
or
He is not interested.
Hey, your only in high school...Graduate High School, Goto College, Mature a little into adulthood, find a man...
Dance advice help!?
i want ot take more dance classes but my mom wont let me because she is busy with my sis and brother also! i take tap jazz ansd ballet all one a week.i want to take pointe, but i dont no when to start if ill like it or what is the best bran of shoes? if i dont like it, it was a waste of buying the shoes! does it hurt to releve on pointe? do gell or soft toe pads for inside the shoe work better? do you have to be flexible in order to do pointe? please give some advice!*Dance advice help!?
I used to take dance for 7 years.....if your wanting to take pointe you should try out when audtions are held, if you go to a dance studio. umm... try borrowing some shoes from someone that takes pointe, perhaps and see if you like them,. To do pointe you must have very strong ankels, lamb's wool toe pads are generally worn in them and are pretty effective.... from what I can remember, I am not for sure too much on good shoe brands, When you audition they will judge you on character, determination, leg strenght, ankle strength, balance support,etc. I hope this helps! I will try to find out some shoe info for you!
Remember pointe isn't for everyone, and if you don't make it don't worry about it because it doesn't make any less of a good dancer.Dance advice help!?
If you live close to your studio, walk there! If you are going to go on pointe, you have to be prepared to be dedicated to it. you can't you on for a month, stop for a month, then go back on. After trying many brands of shoes, I think bloch is the best brand, but it is all about personaly prefrence, you should get a professional fitting tofind what you like. At first, when you are breaking in shoes, it will be a littl ebit painful, but it will stop, or you will get used to it. I recomend lambs wool or ouch pouch toe pads. About the flexability thing, it all depends on your studio, and you would know about their levels of expectation on flexabilty.
hope this helps!
I used to take dance for 7 years.....if your wanting to take pointe you should try out when audtions are held, if you go to a dance studio. umm... try borrowing some shoes from someone that takes pointe, perhaps and see if you like them,. To do pointe you must have very strong ankels, lamb's wool toe pads are generally worn in them and are pretty effective.... from what I can remember, I am not for sure too much on good shoe brands, When you audition they will judge you on character, determination, leg strenght, ankle strength, balance support,etc. I hope this helps! I will try to find out some shoe info for you!
Remember pointe isn't for everyone, and if you don't make it don't worry about it because it doesn't make any less of a good dancer.Dance advice help!?
If you live close to your studio, walk there! If you are going to go on pointe, you have to be prepared to be dedicated to it. you can't you on for a month, stop for a month, then go back on. After trying many brands of shoes, I think bloch is the best brand, but it is all about personaly prefrence, you should get a professional fitting tofind what you like. At first, when you are breaking in shoes, it will be a littl ebit painful, but it will stop, or you will get used to it. I recomend lambs wool or ouch pouch toe pads. About the flexability thing, it all depends on your studio, and you would know about their levels of expectation on flexabilty.
hope this helps!
Track advice help me plezzz!!!!?
hey,
im joining track and i was wondering what type of shoes i should get if im running distance relays . ... help me plezTrack advice help me plezzz!!!!?
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im joining track and i was wondering what type of shoes i should get if im running distance relays . ... help me plezTrack advice help me plezzz!!!!?
http://answerring.njhurst.com
A very informative website you can also get much information in website
Hair advice help ????????
whenever i straighten my hair in the night before school (and keep it in a bobble) it still never stays straight for the next day so i have to re- straighten it in the morning. I also use tresmme heat defence spray before i straighten my hair... any help/ other options ?
Also when i want my hair to be a little curly so i put it in plaits it never works properly :( i have naturally sort of straight hair %26amp; i would appreciate pics to go with answers thanks :DHair advice help ????????
this is how I personally straighten my hair.First I wash it and put conditioner on it. Than I leave my conditioner to go do something else such as take a shower.Than I come back to rinse the conditioner off and put motion wrapping foam on my hair and wrap it.I sit under the dryer for about 45 minutes to a hour(I have thick hair).When I am done I leave it wrap and put a scarf around my head and go to sleep.When I wake up I comb my wrap down spray oil sheen on it and my hair is bouncier than ever.
Also when i want my hair to be a little curly so i put it in plaits it never works properly :( i have naturally sort of straight hair %26amp; i would appreciate pics to go with answers thanks :DHair advice help ????????
this is how I personally straighten my hair.First I wash it and put conditioner on it. Than I leave my conditioner to go do something else such as take a shower.Than I come back to rinse the conditioner off and put motion wrapping foam on my hair and wrap it.I sit under the dryer for about 45 minutes to a hour(I have thick hair).When I am done I leave it wrap and put a scarf around my head and go to sleep.When I wake up I comb my wrap down spray oil sheen on it and my hair is bouncier than ever.
College admissions...advice/help?
I have been intensely looking at colleges in the past few months, and I was wondering what tier schools I should be looking at.
SAT:
710cr
800m
750w
SAT2:
770 math 2
720 literature
800 chemistry
APs taken:
Calculus AB - 5
Calculus BC
Psychology
Statistics
Literature
U.S. History - 4
Chemistry
If you could give me a few schools I should be looking at as safety or mid-level schools, that would be great. ThanksCollege admissions...advice/help?
Wow, your SAT scores are impressive. A 2250 should be enough for ivy schools such as Cornell and maybe even Brown
Your math and chemistry scores are very impressive. If you are looking at engineering, some schools to look at are:
California Institute of Technology
Georgia Institute of Technology
Carnegie Mellon University
Purdue University (West Lafayette Campus)
University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign
Columbia
It really depends on what major you're aiming for and how the overall campus feels toward you.
Good luck and have fun searching!
SAT:
710cr
800m
750w
SAT2:
770 math 2
720 literature
800 chemistry
APs taken:
Calculus AB - 5
Calculus BC
Psychology
Statistics
Literature
U.S. History - 4
Chemistry
If you could give me a few schools I should be looking at as safety or mid-level schools, that would be great. ThanksCollege admissions...advice/help?
Wow, your SAT scores are impressive. A 2250 should be enough for ivy schools such as Cornell and maybe even Brown
Your math and chemistry scores are very impressive. If you are looking at engineering, some schools to look at are:
California Institute of Technology
Georgia Institute of Technology
Carnegie Mellon University
Purdue University (West Lafayette Campus)
University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign
Columbia
It really depends on what major you're aiming for and how the overall campus feels toward you.
Good luck and have fun searching!
Advice help !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
OK well i was going out with my ex bf for a month and two weeks i broke up with him on saturday the reason i broke up with him was his sister had come over to my house and said o ricky which is my ex doesn't want to be with you anymore he was going to break up with u cuz he likes another girl but she told me o don't tell him i said that cuz he will sock me so i was like ok so if he doesn't want to be with me ill break up with him so that night i called and broke up with him then the next day we went to her house and he was there when she had said he was going to the girls house who he was supposedly liked so i have a feeling she lied cuz i talked to him and he said that it was alie and if that were true who wouldnt of told his sis 2 do and i toldd him if he wanted to get back together an he was thinkingAdvice help !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
Don't ever listen to other people. Only believe what comes straight from the person of interest. There are too many people out there trying to cause waves between people because they think it is funny.carmex balm
Don't ever listen to other people. Only believe what comes straight from the person of interest. There are too many people out there trying to cause waves between people because they think it is funny.
I need your cooking advice please it is greatly appreciated!!! Help:)?
I want to make my boyfriend a wonderful meal, but I have to admit I am not the best cook:( I am trying though. He doesn't like onions, that is about it. If you have any great meal ideas/recipes can you please share them with me, I want him to absolutley love it:) Thank you so much.I need your cooking advice please it is greatly appreciated!!! Help:)?
My hubby is the same way, simple and easy to please. This is a good thing most of the time, but they can tend to be picky.
A good grilled steak will please any man's tummy, pair it with a good mashed or baked potatoe with lots of flavor (food network or all recipes.) A nice baby green salad on the side is good. If you want dessert, keep it simple with classic favorites that men never make for themselves, ie: root beer floats, toll house cookies, lemon bars, fudge brownies.I need your cooking advice please it is greatly appreciated!!! Help:)?
Hello,
I am a full-time worker married to a food connoisseur who loves eating delicious, gourmet dishes! Since I do not have much time, I always look for shortcut recipes, which are easy but are tasty at the same time and look and smell like a thousand buck!
Here is my fav. recipe and it is the fastest, yummy dish that you can make and impress everyone. It is called 'Polo Piblano' - I think it is Italian but never mind ...
Ingredients:
Oil/Butter - 1-2 tbsp
Chicken - 1-2 boneless and skinless breast (cut into cubes)
Cream of Mushroom Soup - 1 can (I use Campbell's)
Mushrooms - 1 can (sliced)
Chicken Stock Cubes - 2
Cheez Wiz - 1 tbsp
Basil - 1/2 tsp
Cayenne Pepper - 1/2 tsp (optional)
Black Pepper - 1/2 tsp
Salt - Not required if stock cubes are salted
Procedure:
Heat the oil/butter in a pan, add chicken and stir until chicken is white. Add mushroom and stir for a minute before adding can soup, with stock cubes. Wait till it boils and the cubes dissolve. Add black pepper, cayenne pepper and basil (adjust to taste if required). Add Cheez Wiz in the end before turning the heat off - stir and serve with rice or spaghetti!
Total time - 10-15 minutes (including prep. time)
I hope you enjoy it - Bon Appetite!
PS: Let me know if you like it and I will post more soon! :)
Why not try cooking a steak on a George Foreman grill if you have one, and serve with french fries, peas and mushrooms, most men like a steak. or
why not try fajitas,
Just stir fry chicken strips, with coloured pepper strips, add some fajita seasoning, then serve wrapped up in a tortilla wrap, including in it some soured cream, salsa and a little shredded lettuce, these are so simple to make.....!!!
I'm sure he will love what ever you decide to cook him. Good luck and have fun!
Easiest thing ever is Perdue chicken that they sell in marinade bags. If you get the Italian one, that's the best. Cook it in frying pan, it's like seven minutes on each side.
Boil some potato (cut into cubes) then bake them with some olive oil, salt, pepper and italian seasoning. 300F for i don't know... 20 minutes maybe (until they are soft when poked with fork)
To round it off, I woould boil some broccoli or zucchini.
Simple :)
Something super easy -
take two pork chops (lightly salted and peppered), first coat in grated parmesan cheese, then in an egg wash, then in italian style bread crumbs - pan fry each chop for 3 - 7 minutes on each side (depending on thickness) and serve with some dirty rice and a salad - good luck!
1 lb. of ground beef, 1 large can of tomato sauce, 1 can of corn elbow noodles. Cook the noodles. Fry up the ground beef. strain out the grease, add the tomato sauce, noodles and corn.
enjoy.
try making spaghetti and meatballs. add either dinner rolls or garlic bread.
rice, chicken, and broccoli and carrots are good too.
steak, baked potato, veggies, rolls with butter and some dessert. if he doesnt like that and give you a compliment then he aint a man
My hubby is the same way, simple and easy to please. This is a good thing most of the time, but they can tend to be picky.
A good grilled steak will please any man's tummy, pair it with a good mashed or baked potatoe with lots of flavor (food network or all recipes.) A nice baby green salad on the side is good. If you want dessert, keep it simple with classic favorites that men never make for themselves, ie: root beer floats, toll house cookies, lemon bars, fudge brownies.I need your cooking advice please it is greatly appreciated!!! Help:)?
Hello,
I am a full-time worker married to a food connoisseur who loves eating delicious, gourmet dishes! Since I do not have much time, I always look for shortcut recipes, which are easy but are tasty at the same time and look and smell like a thousand buck!
Here is my fav. recipe and it is the fastest, yummy dish that you can make and impress everyone. It is called 'Polo Piblano' - I think it is Italian but never mind ...
Ingredients:
Oil/Butter - 1-2 tbsp
Chicken - 1-2 boneless and skinless breast (cut into cubes)
Cream of Mushroom Soup - 1 can (I use Campbell's)
Mushrooms - 1 can (sliced)
Chicken Stock Cubes - 2
Cheez Wiz - 1 tbsp
Basil - 1/2 tsp
Cayenne Pepper - 1/2 tsp (optional)
Black Pepper - 1/2 tsp
Salt - Not required if stock cubes are salted
Procedure:
Heat the oil/butter in a pan, add chicken and stir until chicken is white. Add mushroom and stir for a minute before adding can soup, with stock cubes. Wait till it boils and the cubes dissolve. Add black pepper, cayenne pepper and basil (adjust to taste if required). Add Cheez Wiz in the end before turning the heat off - stir and serve with rice or spaghetti!
Total time - 10-15 minutes (including prep. time)
I hope you enjoy it - Bon Appetite!
PS: Let me know if you like it and I will post more soon! :)
Why not try cooking a steak on a George Foreman grill if you have one, and serve with french fries, peas and mushrooms, most men like a steak. or
why not try fajitas,
Just stir fry chicken strips, with coloured pepper strips, add some fajita seasoning, then serve wrapped up in a tortilla wrap, including in it some soured cream, salsa and a little shredded lettuce, these are so simple to make.....!!!
I'm sure he will love what ever you decide to cook him. Good luck and have fun!
Easiest thing ever is Perdue chicken that they sell in marinade bags. If you get the Italian one, that's the best. Cook it in frying pan, it's like seven minutes on each side.
Boil some potato (cut into cubes) then bake them with some olive oil, salt, pepper and italian seasoning. 300F for i don't know... 20 minutes maybe (until they are soft when poked with fork)
To round it off, I woould boil some broccoli or zucchini.
Simple :)
Something super easy -
take two pork chops (lightly salted and peppered), first coat in grated parmesan cheese, then in an egg wash, then in italian style bread crumbs - pan fry each chop for 3 - 7 minutes on each side (depending on thickness) and serve with some dirty rice and a salad - good luck!
1 lb. of ground beef, 1 large can of tomato sauce, 1 can of corn elbow noodles. Cook the noodles. Fry up the ground beef. strain out the grease, add the tomato sauce, noodles and corn.
enjoy.
try making spaghetti and meatballs. add either dinner rolls or garlic bread.
rice, chicken, and broccoli and carrots are good too.
steak, baked potato, veggies, rolls with butter and some dessert. if he doesnt like that and give you a compliment then he aint a man
HELP!!! ADVICE NEEDED!!! sorry if tmi but i need help!!!?
i've just been to the toilet and there was a little blood, could this be a show or is something wrong ??? what should i do??? my baby is still kicking a moving about so baby must be ok surely please help :/HELP!!! ADVICE NEEDED!!! sorry if tmi but i need help!!!?
How many months are you. If u are almost to term u need to go the hospital becuase it possible that u might be having ur baby soon. If its too early for ur baby to come u also need to go to the hospital or if possible call ur doctor and tell him that u are bleeding and then take it from there. something might be wrong. take careHELP!!! ADVICE NEEDED!!! sorry if tmi but i need help!!!?
How far along are you? If you're almost to term, then it could be the start of a show. If you're not quite that far along, I would really call your doctor immediately just in case. It's a great sign that baby's still moving around ok, I'm sure it's either just the start of labor or nothing major, but in this case it would probably be a good idea to give your doctor a call anyway.
*EDIT* I just read that you're due in April. Labor shouldn't be starting this early, so I think you should definitely give your doctor a call just in case, and try to just rest and relax until you can get through to your doctor.
If you found blood in your stools, it could be hemorrhoids. If you have a clear vaginal discharge with some blood in it, it is the ';show';.
Still I think you ought to call your doctor and him/her about the blood. Could be something as simple as hemorrhoids or you strain yourself because of constipation to something way more serious.
Don't worry I am sure you and your baby will be fine, but you got to call your doctor to check on you, if only for your piece of mind.
Call you doctors office and speak to a nurse be ready to describe the color and consistency of the blood. It may just be your cervix softening. Also if you have had intercourse recentley it could have caused it and they say its normal but be sure to call and ask.
Don't be embarassed those nurses have heard it all- besides rather be safe than sorry
They will probably have you come in for a check up to be sure.
Good Luck!
Best Wishes!
Let me know how it goes!
My doctor just told me yesterday a little blood is nothing to worry about and is actually a good thing. She said it comes from your cervix thinning and stretching and dilating. You don't say how far you are, but if you are 36 weeks and past then its nothing to worry about at all. Heavy blood is something to worry about but enough to stain your underwear without soaking it is ok and normal and from what my doc said actually a good thing. SO i guess congratulations you are almost there!!
i know u tend to do that in late pregnancy and after sex so im wondering what week are u in and did u rendezvous but i would call the doctor or better yet sit in the dr office and make them see u you never know
it could be show. If you are starting to have any pain call the doc, and if it are really scared about it call the doc for reassurances. Best wishes
ring the doc or hospital hun just to be on the safe side....good luckx
baby is moving so thats a good sign but go for your health and your bubs x
CALL TH3 DoCToR RiT3 NoW. YU WoULDNT WANT iT TU BE SoMETHiNG YU NEVER EXPECTED.Go AND SEE YoUR DoCToR iF YOU CANT CALL HiM. THATS JUS WHAT i WoULD DO ANYWAY.
It could be nothing, but its best to get it checked out soon as possiable, You dont want to leave it too late,
You might want to call your doctor, as you aren't far enough along yet to be going into labor.
Just check with your doctor...immediately. He'll let you know what's going on. Just check with him ASAP.
you should call your doctor to make sure...i occasionally still have a tiny bit of blood every once and a while too
well i heard that if it s king of pink,Very light it s normal, but i d call doctor f i was u, just to make shure
some people do have a little blood sometimes..
but you should call your docter and make sure.
how far along are you??..
Call your effing doctor!!! Why fiddle around on the internet at a time like this?
Hi
How far are you?
i would get checked to be on the safe side chick xx
just call your doctor
You should call your doctor or labor and delivery at the hospital and see what they say. I don't want to tell you everything will be fine and I don't want to tell you to rush to the ER STAT! So call them and see what they say. I usually post things on here before I do anything to see if anyone else experienced it but all I get is ';GO TO THE HOSPITAL NOW!!!'; which is no help sometimes...
Good Luck !
Congrats on the baby :)
How many months are you. If u are almost to term u need to go the hospital becuase it possible that u might be having ur baby soon. If its too early for ur baby to come u also need to go to the hospital or if possible call ur doctor and tell him that u are bleeding and then take it from there. something might be wrong. take careHELP!!! ADVICE NEEDED!!! sorry if tmi but i need help!!!?
How far along are you? If you're almost to term, then it could be the start of a show. If you're not quite that far along, I would really call your doctor immediately just in case. It's a great sign that baby's still moving around ok, I'm sure it's either just the start of labor or nothing major, but in this case it would probably be a good idea to give your doctor a call anyway.
*EDIT* I just read that you're due in April. Labor shouldn't be starting this early, so I think you should definitely give your doctor a call just in case, and try to just rest and relax until you can get through to your doctor.
If you found blood in your stools, it could be hemorrhoids. If you have a clear vaginal discharge with some blood in it, it is the ';show';.
Still I think you ought to call your doctor and him/her about the blood. Could be something as simple as hemorrhoids or you strain yourself because of constipation to something way more serious.
Don't worry I am sure you and your baby will be fine, but you got to call your doctor to check on you, if only for your piece of mind.
Call you doctors office and speak to a nurse be ready to describe the color and consistency of the blood. It may just be your cervix softening. Also if you have had intercourse recentley it could have caused it and they say its normal but be sure to call and ask.
Don't be embarassed those nurses have heard it all- besides rather be safe than sorry
They will probably have you come in for a check up to be sure.
Good Luck!
Best Wishes!
Let me know how it goes!
My doctor just told me yesterday a little blood is nothing to worry about and is actually a good thing. She said it comes from your cervix thinning and stretching and dilating. You don't say how far you are, but if you are 36 weeks and past then its nothing to worry about at all. Heavy blood is something to worry about but enough to stain your underwear without soaking it is ok and normal and from what my doc said actually a good thing. SO i guess congratulations you are almost there!!
i know u tend to do that in late pregnancy and after sex so im wondering what week are u in and did u rendezvous but i would call the doctor or better yet sit in the dr office and make them see u you never know
it could be show. If you are starting to have any pain call the doc, and if it are really scared about it call the doc for reassurances. Best wishes
ring the doc or hospital hun just to be on the safe side....good luckx
baby is moving so thats a good sign but go for your health and your bubs x
CALL TH3 DoCToR RiT3 NoW. YU WoULDNT WANT iT TU BE SoMETHiNG YU NEVER EXPECTED.Go AND SEE YoUR DoCToR iF YOU CANT CALL HiM. THATS JUS WHAT i WoULD DO ANYWAY.
It could be nothing, but its best to get it checked out soon as possiable, You dont want to leave it too late,
You might want to call your doctor, as you aren't far enough along yet to be going into labor.
Just check with your doctor...immediately. He'll let you know what's going on. Just check with him ASAP.
you should call your doctor to make sure...i occasionally still have a tiny bit of blood every once and a while too
well i heard that if it s king of pink,Very light it s normal, but i d call doctor f i was u, just to make shure
some people do have a little blood sometimes..
but you should call your docter and make sure.
how far along are you??..
Call your effing doctor!!! Why fiddle around on the internet at a time like this?
Hi
How far are you?
i would get checked to be on the safe side chick xx
just call your doctor
You should call your doctor or labor and delivery at the hospital and see what they say. I don't want to tell you everything will be fine and I don't want to tell you to rush to the ER STAT! So call them and see what they say. I usually post things on here before I do anything to see if anyone else experienced it but all I get is ';GO TO THE HOSPITAL NOW!!!'; which is no help sometimes...
Good Luck !
Congrats on the baby :)
OCPD - help just found out my fiance has OCPD - What to do? Any advice?
He has made some very ';compulsive'; choices throughout his life. Now I am beginning to see the pattern of his choices and see that many of the choices are not for our good and cause problems - financial and time investment focused only on one thing - these are the main concerns!!OCPD - help just found out my fiance has OCPD - What to do? Any advice?
You say you found out he has it, is this an observation or a diagnosis? Sounds like you are prepared to help him through this, good for you. There is alot of help out there, but I think he will probably have to be identified as having the disorder before alot of the resources are available. However, plenty of books, websites and community people have tons of info on this. I have added a few, but be sure to look for something in your community, as it may lead to hands on help. Good luck.
http://www.realmentalhealth.com/personal鈥?/a>
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/OCP鈥?/a>
http://www.brainphysics.com/oc-personali鈥?/a>
http://www.thehealthcenter.info/adult-oc鈥?/a>OCPD - help just found out my fiance has OCPD - What to do? Any advice?
BEFORE you marry him for your sake and his tell him that you two have to get some professional help. His disorder can be treated and his acknowledgement of it and decisions do have hope. However, you have to be willing to seek the treatment too. Spouses of OCD people really need to have a true understanding of the disorder too. It affects you too, obviously. He really needs to get this help prior to an actually wedding or you could find yourself in a worse condition than what your complaints are already! Good Luck!!
This is what I would do, you dont have to... this is a free site and technique that is reportedly working (read articles) www.emofree.com and then I would change errors in diet, lifestyle, and get healthy.... off processed foods, sugar, etc....
you might try michael thurmonds site for body type and diet...
you might try a naturopathic, homeopathic, or someone trained to find food /chemical sensativities
You two are just going to have to get healthy... regular therapy and medicine will just put you on expensive drugs that dont help, and tell you there is no cure..... that isnt true, go to the site I gave you and see for yourself that people are healing from this...
You say you found out he has it, is this an observation or a diagnosis? Sounds like you are prepared to help him through this, good for you. There is alot of help out there, but I think he will probably have to be identified as having the disorder before alot of the resources are available. However, plenty of books, websites and community people have tons of info on this. I have added a few, but be sure to look for something in your community, as it may lead to hands on help. Good luck.
http://www.realmentalhealth.com/personal鈥?/a>
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/OCP鈥?/a>
http://www.brainphysics.com/oc-personali鈥?/a>
http://www.thehealthcenter.info/adult-oc鈥?/a>OCPD - help just found out my fiance has OCPD - What to do? Any advice?
BEFORE you marry him for your sake and his tell him that you two have to get some professional help. His disorder can be treated and his acknowledgement of it and decisions do have hope. However, you have to be willing to seek the treatment too. Spouses of OCD people really need to have a true understanding of the disorder too. It affects you too, obviously. He really needs to get this help prior to an actually wedding or you could find yourself in a worse condition than what your complaints are already! Good Luck!!
This is what I would do, you dont have to... this is a free site and technique that is reportedly working (read articles) www.emofree.com and then I would change errors in diet, lifestyle, and get healthy.... off processed foods, sugar, etc....
you might try michael thurmonds site for body type and diet...
you might try a naturopathic, homeopathic, or someone trained to find food /chemical sensativities
You two are just going to have to get healthy... regular therapy and medicine will just put you on expensive drugs that dont help, and tell you there is no cure..... that isnt true, go to the site I gave you and see for yourself that people are healing from this...
Any advice to help memory?
Any opinions on herb or food for memorization, to help the memory more effective?Any advice to help memory?
Ginkgo biloba, is an herb used as a memory booster.Any advice to help memory?
I can't say I know of any food that will help memory, but I know from personal experience that if you cut back on TV watching %26amp; video games, and do more reading/jigsaw-puzzles/play chess, then it will improve your memory. Also, acronyms are always useful, and writing things down just makes sense.
(edit) Everything the guy above me said is great advise, too.
Almonds help as a memory booster. Soak 4-5 almonds in some milk and have them early in the morning.
Playing Mah-jonng also helps to improve the memory.
Good Luck ! :-)
Well i use to give my children PEANUTs,,,,mostly when reviewing for exams...Really this helps a lot....
Some students use Huperzine-A. It seems to be effective, is not really expensive, and can be obtained without a Rx.
Good diet and exercise will help with memory and more. When learning new material, the more of your senses that are actively involved, the more of your brain is working for you. Visualize, hear, say, read, write. You might be surprised.
Ginkgo biloba, is an herb used as a memory booster.Any advice to help memory?
I can't say I know of any food that will help memory, but I know from personal experience that if you cut back on TV watching %26amp; video games, and do more reading/jigsaw-puzzles/play chess, then it will improve your memory. Also, acronyms are always useful, and writing things down just makes sense.
(edit) Everything the guy above me said is great advise, too.
Almonds help as a memory booster. Soak 4-5 almonds in some milk and have them early in the morning.
Playing Mah-jonng also helps to improve the memory.
Good Luck ! :-)
Well i use to give my children PEANUTs,,,,mostly when reviewing for exams...Really this helps a lot....
Some students use Huperzine-A. It seems to be effective, is not really expensive, and can be obtained without a Rx.
Good diet and exercise will help with memory and more. When learning new material, the more of your senses that are actively involved, the more of your brain is working for you. Visualize, hear, say, read, write. You might be surprised.
Need Help With bedrrom Advice?
OK im getting my room redone soon and need some help. I realy want to paint it red but i hear red is not a good color to paint a room. I want to have black and white accessories like bedspread/rugg/ etc. Can someone send me pictures or names of good reds or good colors to paint rooms?Need Help With bedrrom Advice?
If you want to achieve a modern look for your room with those black/white accessories, I suggest wallpaper instead of paint.
New, fancy, modern wallpapers that are great for such accessories are like these here
http://www.color24.eu/shop/USER_ARTIKEL_鈥?/a>
Try find some in your area.
Hope you make a great bedroom.Need Help With bedrrom Advice?
I have never painted anything red but I heard that its really hard to make it look even. Plus if you ever want to change it, it takes forever to cover it up. Also, I've read in some magazines that reds are not soothing and calming colors like blues and greys. Maybe you could do a red accent wall. In my living room and dining room, we have red as the accent color and its just enough. The walls are a taupe color above the chair rail and a rich dark brown below the chair rail. We have red curtains and red candles.
what my brother painted his room was all the colors you want: the wall with the windows black (so you don't see black when you are looking at our house) the wall oppisite the windows red, and the other 2 walls white. it came out looking really nice actually
My living room is red- ';Stop'; is the true paint color name from Sears Easy Living . I love it-and yes, it took 3 coats to be even. Some people will tell you dark colors make a room appear smaller- I feel the dark color makes the room cozy. I do have 9 foot ceilings-that are painted white.
I say go for it. If you don't like it- paint is cheap. Black and white things would also go nice with many other colors, including yellow or blue. Best of luck. Look in catalogs, Black and White is very trendy right now, and you can usually find pictures of finished rooms in catalogs.
if you want red just do the biggest wall in your room red and pick a beige or another color that will match the red for the rest of the room.
Red is a really hard colour to paint due to unevenness. If your heart is set on red make sure you use a primer tinted red before you paint. This will help even it out. Good Luck.
If you want to achieve a modern look for your room with those black/white accessories, I suggest wallpaper instead of paint.
New, fancy, modern wallpapers that are great for such accessories are like these here
http://www.color24.eu/shop/USER_ARTIKEL_鈥?/a>
Try find some in your area.
Hope you make a great bedroom.Need Help With bedrrom Advice?
I have never painted anything red but I heard that its really hard to make it look even. Plus if you ever want to change it, it takes forever to cover it up. Also, I've read in some magazines that reds are not soothing and calming colors like blues and greys. Maybe you could do a red accent wall. In my living room and dining room, we have red as the accent color and its just enough. The walls are a taupe color above the chair rail and a rich dark brown below the chair rail. We have red curtains and red candles.
what my brother painted his room was all the colors you want: the wall with the windows black (so you don't see black when you are looking at our house) the wall oppisite the windows red, and the other 2 walls white. it came out looking really nice actually
My living room is red- ';Stop'; is the true paint color name from Sears Easy Living . I love it-and yes, it took 3 coats to be even. Some people will tell you dark colors make a room appear smaller- I feel the dark color makes the room cozy. I do have 9 foot ceilings-that are painted white.
I say go for it. If you don't like it- paint is cheap. Black and white things would also go nice with many other colors, including yellow or blue. Best of luck. Look in catalogs, Black and White is very trendy right now, and you can usually find pictures of finished rooms in catalogs.
if you want red just do the biggest wall in your room red and pick a beige or another color that will match the red for the rest of the room.
Red is a really hard colour to paint due to unevenness. If your heart is set on red make sure you use a primer tinted red before you paint. This will help even it out. Good Luck.
Christians, I really need your help/advice?
I think it's clear to everyone that being a teen is not easy. There's always some form of pressure being put on me. And it seems like every time God has tested my faith, I always fail. I always give in. How can I cope with all the pressure I'm facing to be a better christian? I know a problem I need to work on is letting other people run over me, I tend to let that happen a little too often.Christians, I really need your help/advice?
';How can I cope with all the pressure I'm facing to be a better christian?'; One need not be Christian to know the basic answer to this question. The basic answer is that you need to put you relationship with God above your relationship with your peers.
It sounds to me like you are feeling pressured from without to be a better Christian. When your drive (pressure) to be a better Christian comes from within and you focus on trying to please your God instead of trying to please people you will have found the path to being a better Christian.
If you work at being a better person; then you shall please your God(s) regardless of what your religious affiliation is.
The complex issue is why do you feel a need to respond to peer-pressure so that you will be identified as a better Christian in the eyes of others? If you put you relationship with God above your relationship with your peers it will naturally follow that your need to please your peers will be lessened.
Some day you will take a stand and declare to someone for the first time that your relationship with God is just fine and that if they think otherwise that the problem lies within them and not within you. You will make this declaration many more times throughout your life. But making that declaration from your heart shall be a turning point in your life.Christians, I really need your help/advice?
If you want stronger faith or more patience just ask God for both? Remember, however, these are qualities that He will see that you have an opportunity to build into your own character. In other words, you will be tested; there will be trials. He never said we wouldn't be tested or tried, only that He would be there day to day and see us clear to the other side.
The best gold is purified by fire, same as your faith.
When these thing come, praise God, you are growing. Your salvation and the helps which God provides at the point you are born again in the spirit, will continue to enable you to grow in stature and wisdom in the faith. You will not be so easily swayed. John 3:3 and Romans 10:8-10 are relevant scripture verses.
In your relationships, as a christian, be gentle but wary. You are not to be antagonistic but also certainly not a doormat, for those who would tempt you into a direction that would take you in a way opposite from where you know you should go. As a teen, you are a babe in Christ, physically as well as spiritually, you will grow and your faith with you.
Why do you think you need a god to help you? Life is full of pressures, and also full of joy. The key to success is to find the proper balance.
If you have identified the problem you need to work on, you are already halfway there. Now you have to identify different strategies to resolve your identified problem, and choose the best strategy to employ. Then, you have to employ it.
Practice makes perfect. Good luck.
You need to relaz and think ';God made no one perfect!'; he made us all different and when he made us all different is so that we learn lesson's! when we learn lesson's we face diffilcaulty's and stresssful moments! So you just need to think of a time when you have a best friend. You were at home sitting to your self and then a friend email's or call's and spill's all of there problem's like jelousey and cussing about it. you probably go along with it but from that moment on you do the exact things when you are stress's. so when your friend is cussing about somebody you should just say ';this is horrible maybe we could have a calm conversation at my house in an hour?'; you alway's need to calm down
hope this helps??!?!?!?
You are still young and living the Christian life is a life long journey. When you were a little kid learning to walk you fell down many times before you could walk then run. Its the same with our faith. Trust in the Lord to lead you and when you fall He will help you up. Grow in trust of God and it will be easier. God Bless.
You need to daily read what God has to say in his holy word. Read the Bible for a stronger faith.
I understand how you feel. I'm not a teen anymore but I will be honest with you- you face a lot of pressures as an adult too. Be faithful though- as you get older you get better equipped to handle them!
Ah, the ol' welcome mat syndrome. I know how you feel there too, that was me! It's hard when you have a big heart and just want to love everyone and please everyone. It would be the end of the world if you thought you upset someone or made them mad at you, right?
Easier said than done, but, my dear you can't go on that way. People easily take advantage of you and will continue to do so. While you are doing it out of love and caring people are taking from you out of selfish greed. You spend so much time worrying about others that you constantly put yourself last, right?
Well, the first place I would start is talk with your youth pastor, and possibly one of the leaders from your church's women ministry-- preferably with at least one teen of her own. They will understand and be able to offer you sage advice.
Take a step back and analyze your current friendships: How are they impacting you spiritually? Do you find yourself working hard to maintain the relationships? Is working to maintain those relationships easy or stressful? Are there any friends that you hang out with whom you can confide in about anything at all? Think about someone, out of your group of friends, who you completely trust.
It's easier to surround yourself with people who share the same hopes and feelings that you do, who are also experiencing the same struggles. This way you can help keep each other accountable and offer support.
If you are hanging around with kids who think it's ';cool'; to do x, y, and z yet you feel in your heart that x, y, and z are totally wrong: Don't do it and stay away from them. TRUST ME, the cool kid stigma ends when college starts. After college that kind of stuff doesn't matter anymore. The adults you see later on in life who are still trying to live the same way they did in high school are struggling, big time. It's very sad to see and it's also very true.
I have quite a few friends who are still trying to live out their high school years by partying and doing all sorts of junk at the expense of their faiths. I still love and encourage them, but, because I'm not a joiner and not into peer pressure I distance myself.
I've learned to put God first in my life and you know what, the rest falls into place.
You aren't alone in your struggles, I'm sure many people beside me can relate. Keep your head up and hold onto what you know to be true and live it! It's hard to imagine now but believe me, when the years go on you'll see what I mean about how things change.
Peace to you. :)
/HUGScarmex balm
';How can I cope with all the pressure I'm facing to be a better christian?'; One need not be Christian to know the basic answer to this question. The basic answer is that you need to put you relationship with God above your relationship with your peers.
It sounds to me like you are feeling pressured from without to be a better Christian. When your drive (pressure) to be a better Christian comes from within and you focus on trying to please your God instead of trying to please people you will have found the path to being a better Christian.
If you work at being a better person; then you shall please your God(s) regardless of what your religious affiliation is.
The complex issue is why do you feel a need to respond to peer-pressure so that you will be identified as a better Christian in the eyes of others? If you put you relationship with God above your relationship with your peers it will naturally follow that your need to please your peers will be lessened.
Some day you will take a stand and declare to someone for the first time that your relationship with God is just fine and that if they think otherwise that the problem lies within them and not within you. You will make this declaration many more times throughout your life. But making that declaration from your heart shall be a turning point in your life.Christians, I really need your help/advice?
If you want stronger faith or more patience just ask God for both? Remember, however, these are qualities that He will see that you have an opportunity to build into your own character. In other words, you will be tested; there will be trials. He never said we wouldn't be tested or tried, only that He would be there day to day and see us clear to the other side.
The best gold is purified by fire, same as your faith.
When these thing come, praise God, you are growing. Your salvation and the helps which God provides at the point you are born again in the spirit, will continue to enable you to grow in stature and wisdom in the faith. You will not be so easily swayed. John 3:3 and Romans 10:8-10 are relevant scripture verses.
In your relationships, as a christian, be gentle but wary. You are not to be antagonistic but also certainly not a doormat, for those who would tempt you into a direction that would take you in a way opposite from where you know you should go. As a teen, you are a babe in Christ, physically as well as spiritually, you will grow and your faith with you.
Why do you think you need a god to help you? Life is full of pressures, and also full of joy. The key to success is to find the proper balance.
If you have identified the problem you need to work on, you are already halfway there. Now you have to identify different strategies to resolve your identified problem, and choose the best strategy to employ. Then, you have to employ it.
Practice makes perfect. Good luck.
You need to relaz and think ';God made no one perfect!'; he made us all different and when he made us all different is so that we learn lesson's! when we learn lesson's we face diffilcaulty's and stresssful moments! So you just need to think of a time when you have a best friend. You were at home sitting to your self and then a friend email's or call's and spill's all of there problem's like jelousey and cussing about it. you probably go along with it but from that moment on you do the exact things when you are stress's. so when your friend is cussing about somebody you should just say ';this is horrible maybe we could have a calm conversation at my house in an hour?'; you alway's need to calm down
hope this helps??!?!?!?
You are still young and living the Christian life is a life long journey. When you were a little kid learning to walk you fell down many times before you could walk then run. Its the same with our faith. Trust in the Lord to lead you and when you fall He will help you up. Grow in trust of God and it will be easier. God Bless.
You need to daily read what God has to say in his holy word. Read the Bible for a stronger faith.
I understand how you feel. I'm not a teen anymore but I will be honest with you- you face a lot of pressures as an adult too. Be faithful though- as you get older you get better equipped to handle them!
Ah, the ol' welcome mat syndrome. I know how you feel there too, that was me! It's hard when you have a big heart and just want to love everyone and please everyone. It would be the end of the world if you thought you upset someone or made them mad at you, right?
Easier said than done, but, my dear you can't go on that way. People easily take advantage of you and will continue to do so. While you are doing it out of love and caring people are taking from you out of selfish greed. You spend so much time worrying about others that you constantly put yourself last, right?
Well, the first place I would start is talk with your youth pastor, and possibly one of the leaders from your church's women ministry-- preferably with at least one teen of her own. They will understand and be able to offer you sage advice.
Take a step back and analyze your current friendships: How are they impacting you spiritually? Do you find yourself working hard to maintain the relationships? Is working to maintain those relationships easy or stressful? Are there any friends that you hang out with whom you can confide in about anything at all? Think about someone, out of your group of friends, who you completely trust.
It's easier to surround yourself with people who share the same hopes and feelings that you do, who are also experiencing the same struggles. This way you can help keep each other accountable and offer support.
If you are hanging around with kids who think it's ';cool'; to do x, y, and z yet you feel in your heart that x, y, and z are totally wrong: Don't do it and stay away from them. TRUST ME, the cool kid stigma ends when college starts. After college that kind of stuff doesn't matter anymore. The adults you see later on in life who are still trying to live the same way they did in high school are struggling, big time. It's very sad to see and it's also very true.
I have quite a few friends who are still trying to live out their high school years by partying and doing all sorts of junk at the expense of their faiths. I still love and encourage them, but, because I'm not a joiner and not into peer pressure I distance myself.
I've learned to put God first in my life and you know what, the rest falls into place.
You aren't alone in your struggles, I'm sure many people beside me can relate. Keep your head up and hold onto what you know to be true and live it! It's hard to imagine now but believe me, when the years go on you'll see what I mean about how things change.
Peace to you. :)
/HUGS
Any advice to help my ear training?
I know intervals and rhythm i just want to get better at it. Any advice.Any advice to help my ear training?
Now that you know intervals, it is time to start familiarizing yourself with chords. Start with major, minor, diminished, and augmented triads. Then move to the different types of seventh chords: major-major, major-minor, minor-minor, half-diminshed, and diminished.
You can purchase software to help you with this, but as I have not been in the market for such a product for years, I don't know specific titles offhand.
Now that you know intervals, it is time to start familiarizing yourself with chords. Start with major, minor, diminished, and augmented triads. Then move to the different types of seventh chords: major-major, major-minor, minor-minor, half-diminshed, and diminished.
You can purchase software to help you with this, but as I have not been in the market for such a product for years, I don't know specific titles offhand.
Choosing classes next year(APUSH) help & advice please?!?
I am an oncoming junior :[
I am considering taking AP U.S History, but the thing is, this will be the only AP class I will take, along with three other honors classes.
Is AP US History hard?(I heard it is) Should I take a risk %26amp; go for it?
Also, How is Chemistry Honors, is it manageable?
I heard it's a lot of math, but will I be able to understand it along with taking Alg 2 Honors at the same time?
THANKS(: !Choosing classes next year(APUSH) help %26amp; advice please?!?
I'm also an incoming Junior and I will be taking APUSH and Chem Honors next yr! From what I heard, APUSH is definitely not easy, but not very hard as well. I've ask a question about APUSH here in Yahoo answers before, and most of the people who answered said that they enjoyed APUSH. All I know is there will be a lot of reading, and if you can handle that, I suggest you go for it!
Chem Honors, on the other hand, I heard is hella hard. I don't think the Math part in Chemistry is very difficult though. I think the most difficult part will be understanding Chemistry itself. Algebra 2 Honors is easy, even easier than Geometry Honors. First semester will be like a review of Algebra 1, and the rest are topics that are not hard at all.
So yeah, I think you'll be fine.Choosing classes next year(APUSH) help %26amp; advice please?!?
if ur ready for the big amount of work, then sure go ahead.
I am an oncoming senior and just finished taking both of those classes. The rumors were right, APUSH is hard. It is a lot of reading, and a LOT of memorization. It is very easy to get behind, so my advice to you is to not procrastinate and don't fall behind. There are a lot of chapters to read, so a good idea is to look to the internet for help. There is ahuge APUSH support sytstem out there. Start reviewing everything about a month or two before the AP test. It sounds like a lot of work, but it's necessary, trust me. If you like sleep and dont like stress, you would heed my advice.
As for honors chemistry, its not bad. It really depends on the teacher. There is math, but it's basic division and multiplication. You already know how to do the problems, probably, you just have to know the formulas. Don't stress about this class. If you are a good student, this shouldn't be too much of a challenge.
Good luck to you on your Junior year! Don't be like me and procrastinate, it will make every twice as bad. Procrastination is your worst enemy. Just keep going, even when things get hard, and don't be afraid to ask for help from teachers and peers.
I am considering taking AP U.S History, but the thing is, this will be the only AP class I will take, along with three other honors classes.
Is AP US History hard?(I heard it is) Should I take a risk %26amp; go for it?
Also, How is Chemistry Honors, is it manageable?
I heard it's a lot of math, but will I be able to understand it along with taking Alg 2 Honors at the same time?
THANKS(: !Choosing classes next year(APUSH) help %26amp; advice please?!?
I'm also an incoming Junior and I will be taking APUSH and Chem Honors next yr! From what I heard, APUSH is definitely not easy, but not very hard as well. I've ask a question about APUSH here in Yahoo answers before, and most of the people who answered said that they enjoyed APUSH. All I know is there will be a lot of reading, and if you can handle that, I suggest you go for it!
Chem Honors, on the other hand, I heard is hella hard. I don't think the Math part in Chemistry is very difficult though. I think the most difficult part will be understanding Chemistry itself. Algebra 2 Honors is easy, even easier than Geometry Honors. First semester will be like a review of Algebra 1, and the rest are topics that are not hard at all.
So yeah, I think you'll be fine.Choosing classes next year(APUSH) help %26amp; advice please?!?
if ur ready for the big amount of work, then sure go ahead.
I am an oncoming senior and just finished taking both of those classes. The rumors were right, APUSH is hard. It is a lot of reading, and a LOT of memorization. It is very easy to get behind, so my advice to you is to not procrastinate and don't fall behind. There are a lot of chapters to read, so a good idea is to look to the internet for help. There is ahuge APUSH support sytstem out there. Start reviewing everything about a month or two before the AP test. It sounds like a lot of work, but it's necessary, trust me. If you like sleep and dont like stress, you would heed my advice.
As for honors chemistry, its not bad. It really depends on the teacher. There is math, but it's basic division and multiplication. You already know how to do the problems, probably, you just have to know the formulas. Don't stress about this class. If you are a good student, this shouldn't be too much of a challenge.
Good luck to you on your Junior year! Don't be like me and procrastinate, it will make every twice as bad. Procrastination is your worst enemy. Just keep going, even when things get hard, and don't be afraid to ask for help from teachers and peers.
Legal advice, please help i am a college student?
My uncle is an employee at my university and I am his nephew. I received a tuition scholarship from my university because my uncle claimed income taxes on me as a dependent child. it was one of the eligibility criteria of the university to receive free tuition. However, now the university is saying that they can鈥檛 offer me tuition benefits form my uncles employee benefits anymore after giving it for two semester. They say that they made a mistake in the process and to be eligible as a dependent child that I must be legally adapted by my uncle, which I am not. My university gave a letter saying that I am eligible to receive tuition benefits up to 8 semesters. Now they say they can鈥檛 give it anymore. Can I take any legal actions and reclaim my tuition benefits under this situation?Legal advice, please help i am a college student?
Yes take it to court. If they gave u a letter stating 8 semesters. then you will win. By the way I'm a federal prosecutorLegal advice, please help i am a college student?
Nope
No. You are not his legal child; therefore, they owe you nothing.
Indeed, I hate to tell you this, but if they wanted to, they could persue fraud charges against you and your uncle and force you to repay tuition fees.
If I were you, I'd let it go and just be glad that I got two semesters' tuition for free.
No, the fringe benefits your uncle has with the university are most likely for immediate family only, which counts out the nephew. If anything, they can claim that they gave you free tuition based on a fraudulent representation of yourself, they clearly thought you were his son.
no. you cannot sue. they made the mistake. they could possibly sue your uncle or fire him if pursued.
Well, let's analyze the situation under general contract concepts. The issue is whether you have an enforceable contract. Well, it is in writing, and you did rely on the eligibility letter (i.e. you may have given up other opportunities/scholarships at other universities). However, what benefit did they receive from you accepting the offer? Probably none, as they are footing the bill of your education. As such, there is no contract.
You were never ';legally entitled'; to the benefit, and the tuition waiver is more accurately characterized as a gift. Gifts may be freely given and retracted at the discretion of the givee.
Without going too far into third party contracts (e.g. survivor benefits, or in your case your uncle's agreement that in exchange for his work, his family gets scholarships), it does not appear applicable as you are not w/i the class of beneficiaries contemplated by the contract.
If you have documented proof of them saying that you are elgible then actually it sounds like you might have a case.
Call a lawyer for a consultation.
Uh....no. You're lucky that the university didn't report you and your uncle to the IRS for tax fraud. Just walk away before it gets worse.
Count your blessings you scammed the university out of two semesters of tuition and prepare to pay.
Obviously, you are not your uncle's legal dependent and you will be lucky if they do not come back on you or him for defrauding them of the tuition you were given.
Yes take it to court. If they gave u a letter stating 8 semesters. then you will win. By the way I'm a federal prosecutorLegal advice, please help i am a college student?
Nope
No. You are not his legal child; therefore, they owe you nothing.
Indeed, I hate to tell you this, but if they wanted to, they could persue fraud charges against you and your uncle and force you to repay tuition fees.
If I were you, I'd let it go and just be glad that I got two semesters' tuition for free.
No, the fringe benefits your uncle has with the university are most likely for immediate family only, which counts out the nephew. If anything, they can claim that they gave you free tuition based on a fraudulent representation of yourself, they clearly thought you were his son.
no. you cannot sue. they made the mistake. they could possibly sue your uncle or fire him if pursued.
Well, let's analyze the situation under general contract concepts. The issue is whether you have an enforceable contract. Well, it is in writing, and you did rely on the eligibility letter (i.e. you may have given up other opportunities/scholarships at other universities). However, what benefit did they receive from you accepting the offer? Probably none, as they are footing the bill of your education. As such, there is no contract.
You were never ';legally entitled'; to the benefit, and the tuition waiver is more accurately characterized as a gift. Gifts may be freely given and retracted at the discretion of the givee.
Without going too far into third party contracts (e.g. survivor benefits, or in your case your uncle's agreement that in exchange for his work, his family gets scholarships), it does not appear applicable as you are not w/i the class of beneficiaries contemplated by the contract.
If you have documented proof of them saying that you are elgible then actually it sounds like you might have a case.
Call a lawyer for a consultation.
Uh....no. You're lucky that the university didn't report you and your uncle to the IRS for tax fraud. Just walk away before it gets worse.
Count your blessings you scammed the university out of two semesters of tuition and prepare to pay.
Obviously, you are not your uncle's legal dependent and you will be lucky if they do not come back on you or him for defrauding them of the tuition you were given.
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