I have never been so desperate for advice please help me

i have been hurt by a guy before he was a cheater and a liar and hooked up with my best friend. i kicked that garbage to the curb. now i met a new guy and he is great. but loses control when he is drunk and listens to his d*ck not his brain. we are not going out but we definitely have a 'thing' and he hooked up with this girl drunk two nights ago. how pissed do i have a right to be? does he get a second chance? he has cheated on his ex girlfriend of 1.5 yrs because he ';didn't know what he wanted'; once a cheater always a cheater???? help me, do i forgive him?I have never been so desperate for advice please help me
Ditch him, He sounds like trouble.





I dont believe in the once a cheater always a cheater because i cheated on my boyfriend once, and will never EVER cheat on any guy ever again.





Make him become sober if you want to date himI have never been so desperate for advice please help me
he needs to get sober before you go anywhere near him and a guy like that sounds like he would be pretty quick to hurt you if it meant he got what he wanted. he doesn't sound like somebody you want to be affiliated with. sorry to be so negative but he sounds like kind of an ***, and you sound far too good for him :(
its easy to forgive but not to forget.











most the time ';once a cheater, always a cheater'; is true.








forgive him but i dont suggest hooking up with him again.
First of all once a cheater always a cheater is not true. But I personally wouldn't take him back unless he agreed to stop getting drunk.
No.


You were his 'second chance', and he's gone and screwed that up, too.
nope.. u said it yourself once a cheater always a cheater and why would you even wanna be with a person who can't control himself when he is drunk...gal u can do so much better
u shud forgive himbut not give him another chance if hes doing this so much hes not good for u!
YES.


Once a cheater always a cheater.


My girlfriend spent a weekend with an older guy and I took her back, and six weeks later she saw him twice again and then another guy the next month. Then I took her back ';again'; but I know things are really basically over and haven't the heart to tell her or face it. And I don't believe for a minute that she isn't going to cheat again...so once a cheater, almost always a cheater, especially when it's so easy to cheat. That doesn't mean you need to cast this guy out of your life - I still love my girlfriend very much - but it means you need to be a lot more independent, and stronger in yourself and your own life, and you need not to be attached, and be prepared to cheat before he is. It's the only way not to get hurt.

carmex balm