i know iam not alone here, but my life has been very hard. iam 30, and very depressed. i am in debt up to my eyeballs, and i have no college degree, but i did go for a few semesters, i am smart, but suffer from bi-polar, and it has cost me alot. i have a crimal record for theft,forgery,burglury. i am a chef with no hope in sight. my parents wont help me, and i just had 24 thousand dollars and spent it on stupid stuff. i owe this person too now, plus student loans. hospital bills, credit cards, restitution, court costs, etc. i hate my job, i work for a mean old lady who does not pay fairly, and there are no jobs around here. i really want to pursue boxing, but i cant qiut smoking, and i cant save money to move to vegas to train, and work. if i try hard i could save 2-300 a month and move in 2 years and use this time to condition my body. those are just a few of the problems, i could write a book, i thought about that too. well, if anyone has some advice or anything please help..thanks!I need life advice please help?
JOE! You are just like my daughter!!! Although she won't admit she's bi-polar. She's irresponsible, has an addictive personality and won't listen to anyone. She thinks she's got the world by the balls and she's making huge mistakes (Just like you) You are young! If your parents helped you out of your mess, you would be right back in it in a year. Guaranteed! How can we help you? We can't pay your bills... We can't drag you out of your depression....We can't get you a good job and we sure can't get you into the boxing ring. I hate to tell you this but it will only be a few short years before you are considered too old to box. (I love boxing) Anyway, what I'm trying to say is...Joe, honey....it's all up to you. Pull yourself up by the scruff of your neck and help yourself. DO NOT feel sorry for yourself because you will be defeated before you start... Be a man and don't let anybody help you. Pride in who you are and what you do is the greatest feeling in the world. You can do it if you work hard!!!!I need life advice please help?
file bankruptcy and get some medication for your condition..
you don't have to move to vegas to become a boxer. there is a very famous trainer here in the small town i live in. if you know boxing you'll know don turner. so take your meds, save your money and while you are getting serious about becoming a boxer look into any and all options available to you.
Sorry about your situation, but you won't find much of a solution here unless you get serious professional help. Presently you are on a one way road to oblivion. Bi-polar is nothing to take lightly. You are 30 years old and you WANT TO PURSUE BOXING! I would re-think that seriously if I were you. With all the baggage you are now carrying, I think boxing is a bad idea for you. You need to get your life and health in order. Presently, you seem to have both feet firmly planted in the air. Since you are strapped for money I would suggest that you go to an emergency room and they can steer you in the right direction based upon your financial situation. Good luck and God bless.
Funny yo gotz a computer and internet. I hazta go down to the library to get internet access. And read. And relax from my two jobz. But it's cheap and I savin' my azz off. Give me a couple yearz and no white man iz gonna stop this blackazz.
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I think you need a few bong rips. Might help you out to relax and really think about things. if that doesnt work...then....idk.
Rock On!!
First of all, get off the pity pot and stop feeling sorry for yourself. If you are alive, everything else is gravy. If you don't have a wife kids you are Lucky at this point because you only have to take care of yourself. Cut the criminal crap out and see if you can file bankruptcy. Think about relocating to another town for a couple of years and reinvent yourself. find a good gym and work on your boxing. sharpen your computer skills. find a nice girl who can help you with the day to day bills, rent etc. when you have time go back to school. make sure you talk to school counselors so that you have some direction. Don't forget to take your meds.
dude i got a plan. get of the tabace!!! its herting you.get a pach. then get a job and put the money in a mutual fund. say a 100 bucks. then work some more and every paycheck and put a little in that fund get a bank account and a girlfreind . your hit but not down!
Friday, January 8, 2010
Help? advice for passing higher english?
i am sitting higher english this year and am pretty sure im going to fail. any advice to how to pass?Help? advice for passing higher english?
You did not indicate any reasons for or problems with the class. It is therefore difficult to advise you other than speaking to your teacher and asking for her suggestions./Help? advice for passing higher english?
I will probably sound like you're teacher but try to say once a week log onto the Times newspaper online and read a few articles. It will help you in both close reading aspects and critical essay.
Know you're text reeeeeally well. For example be able to write on basically any question that comes up..theme, characterisation, key scene, symbolism etc Start slowly learning you're quotes now so that it wont be a brain strain for the actual exam.
Practice critical essays and get you're teacher to mark them.
And just think if you do really well this year then you wont have to resit again next year!!
You did not indicate any reasons for or problems with the class. It is therefore difficult to advise you other than speaking to your teacher and asking for her suggestions./Help? advice for passing higher english?
I will probably sound like you're teacher but try to say once a week log onto the Times newspaper online and read a few articles. It will help you in both close reading aspects and critical essay.
Know you're text reeeeeally well. For example be able to write on basically any question that comes up..theme, characterisation, key scene, symbolism etc Start slowly learning you're quotes now so that it wont be a brain strain for the actual exam.
Practice critical essays and get you're teacher to mark them.
And just think if you do really well this year then you wont have to resit again next year!!
Serious period question. i reallllly need good advice, PLEASE HELP!!!?
Im going to chicago, illinois this weekend with my dad and my new stepmom. last week i had like liiiiiittttllle tiny spotting (i think) i i have had slight cramps the last two days and my mom got her period right around this time. So should i be prepared to get it soon and should i bring pads to chicago with me? PLEASE HELP cuz im confusedSerious period question. i reallllly need good advice, PLEASE HELP!!!?
Those definitely sound like warning signs.
There's no harm in bringing pads with you to Chicago. Better safe than sorry.Serious period question. i reallllly need good advice, PLEASE HELP!!!?
Definitely be prepared. A funny thing happened to my friend and I that is similar to this. I have my period for two days now. I just slept over at my friends house. Her normal time of the month is about next week. I guess because of the hormones or something, I triggered her to get her period today. If your mom has her period now, it is very likely that you will be getting yours soon!! So be prepared and have a fun trip :)
It sunds like you might be starting your period soon, I would bring pads with you just in case because you can't tell xactly when this will start. Just ask your mom for some advice and you will be fine
you should just in case.
i got stuck once without pads.
the best thing is to bring them!:)
be prepared always! you'll probably start if you were spotting
u should put pad in your in anywhere you go
to be ready because you probably get it in anytime
yes just be prepared any thing can happen
Bring pads and tampons just to be safe.
it wouldnt hurt.
yes bring pads with you and motrin just in case of cramps
bring them just in case, it cant hurt.
just bring them in case. even you u dont get it, your always prepared.whiteheads
Those definitely sound like warning signs.
There's no harm in bringing pads with you to Chicago. Better safe than sorry.Serious period question. i reallllly need good advice, PLEASE HELP!!!?
Definitely be prepared. A funny thing happened to my friend and I that is similar to this. I have my period for two days now. I just slept over at my friends house. Her normal time of the month is about next week. I guess because of the hormones or something, I triggered her to get her period today. If your mom has her period now, it is very likely that you will be getting yours soon!! So be prepared and have a fun trip :)
It sunds like you might be starting your period soon, I would bring pads with you just in case because you can't tell xactly when this will start. Just ask your mom for some advice and you will be fine
you should just in case.
i got stuck once without pads.
the best thing is to bring them!:)
be prepared always! you'll probably start if you were spotting
u should put pad in your in anywhere you go
to be ready because you probably get it in anytime
yes just be prepared any thing can happen
Bring pads and tampons just to be safe.
it wouldnt hurt.
yes bring pads with you and motrin just in case of cramps
bring them just in case, it cant hurt.
just bring them in case. even you u dont get it, your always prepared.
Would lesbians be nice to guys who wear lingerie I need some advice and help?
Lesbians, like any other person, can be nice or mean to people, be they men or women, whatever they're wearing. It just depends on the individual.
Now, if you're asking if lesbians are going to be attracted to men in lingerie, the answer is probably no. Only if you look sufficiently like a woman, and even then, the attraction is only going to last so long as you keep up the womanly appearance. Lesbians aren't attracted to men.
Hope that helps.Would lesbians be nice to guys who wear lingerie I need some advice and help?
I don't see why not. I see lingerie in the drag shows I attend... so why not guys wearing lingerie on a daily basis or so...Would lesbians be nice to guys who wear lingerie I need some advice and help?
would that mean you are a crossdresser%26gt;?
i think so
I'm a transsexual lesbian. Click on my avatar to find out more. Then ask away, cause you have a question, don't you? Just be respectful.
Now, if you're asking if lesbians are going to be attracted to men in lingerie, the answer is probably no. Only if you look sufficiently like a woman, and even then, the attraction is only going to last so long as you keep up the womanly appearance. Lesbians aren't attracted to men.
Hope that helps.Would lesbians be nice to guys who wear lingerie I need some advice and help?
I don't see why not. I see lingerie in the drag shows I attend... so why not guys wearing lingerie on a daily basis or so...Would lesbians be nice to guys who wear lingerie I need some advice and help?
would that mean you are a crossdresser%26gt;?
i think so
I'm a transsexual lesbian. Click on my avatar to find out more. Then ask away, cause you have a question, don't you? Just be respectful.
What can help a person who wastes all there money... Some good advice please!?
Can u make me think In a way that would help me want to save money?What can help a person who wastes all there money... Some good advice please!?
What is more important in the long runWhat can help a person who wastes all there money... Some good advice please!?
there was this girl once on Oprah, who saved ten a dollar a day (I think) from when she was a teen - put it away in a savings account and didn't touch it at all, and was a millionaire by her early thirties!!!!!!
Even if you are not a teen I'm sure it is not too late to start.
This is the issue: almost undoubtedly you are trying to fill non-money needs with money.
Kinda like drinking when you're hungry or eating when you're thirsty.
There is something in your life that you care about even more than spending money.
Go attend to that.
1 thing you could do is get a bank account and put your money in it say each week . Then maybe give you card to a parent and ask them to mind it for you. Just think how much you will have and set a target for a date.
Try making up an objective that requires monetary assistance.
Often, this is the easiest way to do the most good.
you can't help anyone who doesn't want to be helped. You'll learn. I wouldn't want to interfere with your evolution.
Give it to me to put it in the bank.
What is more important in the long runWhat can help a person who wastes all there money... Some good advice please!?
there was this girl once on Oprah, who saved ten a dollar a day (I think) from when she was a teen - put it away in a savings account and didn't touch it at all, and was a millionaire by her early thirties!!!!!!
Even if you are not a teen I'm sure it is not too late to start.
This is the issue: almost undoubtedly you are trying to fill non-money needs with money.
Kinda like drinking when you're hungry or eating when you're thirsty.
There is something in your life that you care about even more than spending money.
Go attend to that.
1 thing you could do is get a bank account and put your money in it say each week . Then maybe give you card to a parent and ask them to mind it for you. Just think how much you will have and set a target for a date.
Try making up an objective that requires monetary assistance.
Often, this is the easiest way to do the most good.
you can't help anyone who doesn't want to be helped. You'll learn. I wouldn't want to interfere with your evolution.
Give it to me to put it in the bank.
Girls I need your help/advice?
Im in 8th grade and really like this girl. We have no classes except study hall. We only talk occasionally in the halls. We arnt really friends.Girls I need your help/advice?
what is that u want help about?
assuming that u like her and would like 2 be her friend,then i would suggest that u talk 2 her about anything like classes,your common friends or something like that..to develop any relationship,it is imprtant that u dpend time with the person..show genuine interest in her..let her know that u wud like 2 be her frnd etc..Girls I need your help/advice?
im in thaa same situation :( but its a guy. i dont even think he notices me , i would say you should just be confident and talk to her , girls like it , well i know i like it when a boys shy but not too shy and is confident and will just be like hey instead of waiting for like 5 months. wanna answer my question? go to my profile , its kindaa the same but i need a guys opinion ;)
then be her friend boyyy :) haha
8th grade seems hard but trust me if it doesnt work out... when you get to high school theres so many girls. you're going to be like in heaven haha.
but try talking to her more often and become her friend :)
things should start to fall into place.
okay so what do you want to know? lol how to ask her out? just do it and she what she says, lol theres no other option :(
Give her a compliment when she walks by. Tell her that outfit is nice or something.
ask her to hang out at lunch or something
what is that u want help about?
assuming that u like her and would like 2 be her friend,then i would suggest that u talk 2 her about anything like classes,your common friends or something like that..to develop any relationship,it is imprtant that u dpend time with the person..show genuine interest in her..let her know that u wud like 2 be her frnd etc..Girls I need your help/advice?
im in thaa same situation :( but its a guy. i dont even think he notices me , i would say you should just be confident and talk to her , girls like it , well i know i like it when a boys shy but not too shy and is confident and will just be like hey instead of waiting for like 5 months. wanna answer my question? go to my profile , its kindaa the same but i need a guys opinion ;)
then be her friend boyyy :) haha
8th grade seems hard but trust me if it doesnt work out... when you get to high school theres so many girls. you're going to be like in heaven haha.
but try talking to her more often and become her friend :)
things should start to fall into place.
okay so what do you want to know? lol how to ask her out? just do it and she what she says, lol theres no other option :(
Give her a compliment when she walks by. Tell her that outfit is nice or something.
ask her to hang out at lunch or something
What would look better on me?!?!?! help.. fashion advice.!?
Ok so.. im doing my first photoshoot and i know what i wanna wear but idk what colors.... I really want to wear CHEETAH heels... but would cheetah heals look better with a WHITE dress or BLACK dress.. im 5'11.... dark brown hair.... tan/olive skin... baby blue eyes......!?!?! so a white dress or black dress?!? or any other suggestions.What would look better on me?!?!?! help.. fashion advice.!?
Black dress, maybe with some bold jewelry to go along with the heels. Good luck! :)
Black dress, maybe with some bold jewelry to go along with the heels. Good luck! :)
Advice Please Help: How do i get him to understand that we need an open relationship?
We have been dating about 9 months now. I am really in love with him, but he sleeps around. I know this sounds crazy, but everytime we would end up hooking back up. After a while, I accepted it. I love him the same...but our sex-life and came to a stand-still at a point (I'm talking like 3 months without). I asked him why'd we stop...I even tried to initiate (which is odd for me)...but to no avail. Anyway, a few months ago, I acted out on my urges...with an old friend. It's just sex (of course protected). My boyfriend found out. One day when I was with my ';friend';, I accidently called my boyfriend and he heard....it all. What are the chances of that!! But okay...my boyfriend was in RAGE...but he realized what he was putting me through. Ever since he found out...he's been taking me out to eat daily, buying flowers, and just paying alot more attention to me...like it used to be. I told him that my fling was over, but how do i make him understand that i don't want it to be....Help!Advice Please Help: How do i get him to understand that we need an open relationship?
just tell him thanxs. go to him and say how you appreciate how he showed you it was ok to have a fling. tell him how your beating yourself up on how you let his flings bother you so much and how you have seen the light and are going to do just what he has shown you. lol a little manipulation wit a little truth for real blame it on him and how his unfaithfulness showed you that an open relaitionship is what you want. he'll be pissed and probably say no but just threaten him that you'll find someone else then.Advice Please Help: How do i get him to understand that we need an open relationship?
he was taking you for granted, trust me ima dude, now that you found something else, hes trying to get back on his p's and q's, tell him like this (yes it has to be mean): YOU FYCKED UP! NOW YOU WANA BE WITH ME BECUZ I FOUND SOMETHING BETTER WHEN YOU WAS PRETENDING LIKE I WASNT THERE! DONT CALL ME NO MORE! DONT TEXT ME NO MORE! DONT SEND ME ANYMORE FYCKIN MYSPACE MESSEGES! IM SORRY YOU DIDNT WANT ME, SO NOW IM MOVING ON! then dont answer any of his calls ignore him when you see him blah blah blah... now if you do stll have feelings for him, sit down and talk it out like adults
communication is very important, you need to tell him how you feel honey, hes being nice to you because hes aafraid to loose you, he wants his cake and eat it too, an open relationship can only be a good thing if its a joint decision, to me this seems one sided so talk it over with him and tell how you feel, if he doesnt understand your feeling then he never will. move on hun!!
You can make him understand that you need an open relationship but that does not mean that he does. If what you want is diametrically opposed to what he wants there is probably no middle ground. Slightly open relationships do not exist. You may be able to agree to both accept either an open or closed relationship but if you do it will cause problems later. If you accept closed you will feel that he has limited you and controlled your life, if you accept open he will feel cheated and betrayed even when he says he will try not to.
You either need to change the character of one of you or change to a partner that agrees with your philosophy.
Open relationships are difficult and normally fail but the same can be said for closed ones.
you should invest in some self respect
why in earth are you with someone that doing this. it sound lke
the problem is that you need to let him know what going on
unless you really dont mind that he doing this. then dont say
anything both of you need to stop the games, this is not
a place that you need to be in..
just tell him thanxs. go to him and say how you appreciate how he showed you it was ok to have a fling. tell him how your beating yourself up on how you let his flings bother you so much and how you have seen the light and are going to do just what he has shown you. lol a little manipulation wit a little truth for real blame it on him and how his unfaithfulness showed you that an open relaitionship is what you want. he'll be pissed and probably say no but just threaten him that you'll find someone else then.Advice Please Help: How do i get him to understand that we need an open relationship?
he was taking you for granted, trust me ima dude, now that you found something else, hes trying to get back on his p's and q's, tell him like this (yes it has to be mean): YOU FYCKED UP! NOW YOU WANA BE WITH ME BECUZ I FOUND SOMETHING BETTER WHEN YOU WAS PRETENDING LIKE I WASNT THERE! DONT CALL ME NO MORE! DONT TEXT ME NO MORE! DONT SEND ME ANYMORE FYCKIN MYSPACE MESSEGES! IM SORRY YOU DIDNT WANT ME, SO NOW IM MOVING ON! then dont answer any of his calls ignore him when you see him blah blah blah... now if you do stll have feelings for him, sit down and talk it out like adults
communication is very important, you need to tell him how you feel honey, hes being nice to you because hes aafraid to loose you, he wants his cake and eat it too, an open relationship can only be a good thing if its a joint decision, to me this seems one sided so talk it over with him and tell how you feel, if he doesnt understand your feeling then he never will. move on hun!!
You can make him understand that you need an open relationship but that does not mean that he does. If what you want is diametrically opposed to what he wants there is probably no middle ground. Slightly open relationships do not exist. You may be able to agree to both accept either an open or closed relationship but if you do it will cause problems later. If you accept closed you will feel that he has limited you and controlled your life, if you accept open he will feel cheated and betrayed even when he says he will try not to.
You either need to change the character of one of you or change to a partner that agrees with your philosophy.
Open relationships are difficult and normally fail but the same can be said for closed ones.
you should invest in some self respect
why in earth are you with someone that doing this. it sound lke
the problem is that you need to let him know what going on
unless you really dont mind that he doing this. then dont say
anything both of you need to stop the games, this is not
a place that you need to be in..
New to ERISA 404c, Help? Advice?
I am going through all the paperwork and it is telling me about the investment options I have from low-high risk. I am just wondering if I should even invest in anything other than low risk given the condition of the stock market recently. I am almost 30 and I have a long investment time, so some risk may be alright but I'm afraid of losing my money.
Can anyone offer advice?New to ERISA 404c, Help? Advice?
Do some low risk, some medium risk, and some high(er) risk. If you wanted to lean to lower risk, that would be fine. Having said that, lots of investors are putting their monies in lower risk investments. And the crowd is almost always wrong.
Do your asset allocation plan first. After that you can pick your funds/investments. Tell you what my current allocation is right now. 10% cash, 25% bonds, %26amp; 65% equities.whiteheads
Can anyone offer advice?New to ERISA 404c, Help? Advice?
Do some low risk, some medium risk, and some high(er) risk. If you wanted to lean to lower risk, that would be fine. Having said that, lots of investors are putting their monies in lower risk investments. And the crowd is almost always wrong.
Do your asset allocation plan first. After that you can pick your funds/investments. Tell you what my current allocation is right now. 10% cash, 25% bonds, %26amp; 65% equities.
I need expert advice... I'm a model...Can you help me?
I just got into this business; so I don't know what to expect. And I haven't signed any contracts yet. My Agent seems like he keeps blowing me off. It's either that or he's just so busy that he doesn't have the time to meet with me. That's what I'm hopeing at least. He has sent me on a casting call last Saturday. But let me give you an example. Day before yesturday I called him. He ask me to call him the next morning. I called him the next morning. No Answer. I called back an hour later and left a message. He called me back around 2 and said he would call me at 4. He told me to call him if he hadn't called me by then. So I called him around 4:30. He told me he would meet with me and some of the other girls later and he would call me at 8. So 8 rools around no call. I called him at 8:30. He said he was talking to an old friend he would call me in a few minutes. He called me after 9 and told me never mind. He said he felt bad for makeing me come out so late.I need expert advice... I'm a model...Can you help me?
You need a new agent! No professional should treat you like that. I signed with a company that was supposedly legit, and I got ripped off for doing a promotion, and my payments would be consistently late. You should drop this guy quick!I need expert advice... I'm a model...Can you help me?
well, it sounds like there are two different things potentially going on:
1. He's a fraud who will represent anyone who gives him a little cash up front. If you had to give him money at the beginning of this professional relationship, and now he's blowing you off...consider yourself cheated.
2. He doesn't have anything for you. Which means it may be time for you to accept the fact that while you may be pretty, you aren't the type of model that people want.
wow, I would try and help you but, that is WAY to much to read!
You need a new agent! No professional should treat you like that. I signed with a company that was supposedly legit, and I got ripped off for doing a promotion, and my payments would be consistently late. You should drop this guy quick!I need expert advice... I'm a model...Can you help me?
well, it sounds like there are two different things potentially going on:
1. He's a fraud who will represent anyone who gives him a little cash up front. If you had to give him money at the beginning of this professional relationship, and now he's blowing you off...consider yourself cheated.
2. He doesn't have anything for you. Which means it may be time for you to accept the fact that while you may be pretty, you aren't the type of model that people want.
wow, I would try and help you but, that is WAY to much to read!
Help with an advice column name?
My name is Audrey. I don't want Ask Audrey because thats boring. It's for a school paper.
sorry if this is in the wrong section!Help with an advice column name?
create something simple unique and catchy.. Like ';Ask Me and I'll Tell You What You Want Me To Say and I'll Tell You What You Want to Hear';Help with an advice column name?
Audrey Knows Best.
well keep it simple yet unique like: Ask It
sorry if this is in the wrong section!Help with an advice column name?
create something simple unique and catchy.. Like ';Ask Me and I'll Tell You What You Want Me To Say and I'll Tell You What You Want to Hear';Help with an advice column name?
Audrey Knows Best.
well keep it simple yet unique like: Ask It
Exhaust problem on vauxhall vectra, advice neede please help?
i have a R reg 1.8 16v and i noticed some blowing from the exhaust, apparently it's coming from the cat and quick fit quoted me 239 to replace the whole of the front section of the exhaust because they say i have to replace that whole part, is there a cheaper solution? not gun gum or anything like that though. Also the car has started to cut out quiet a lot, is that due to the blowing exhaust? thanksExhaust problem on vauxhall vectra, advice neede please help?
yes its due to the cat problem its not within its engine emmisions limits its going to be expensive anyway try a breakers yard for a second hand cat and try to arrange a refund (prior) if it don t work of or try e-bay or online breaker companies there are plenty about .
yes its due to the cat problem its not within its engine emmisions limits its going to be expensive anyway try a breakers yard for a second hand cat and try to arrange a refund (prior) if it don t work of or try e-bay or online breaker companies there are plenty about .
I get sooo nervous at interviews?? pls pls help....advice, anything..?
I would really like some advice on how to calm myself down when i go to an interview on wednesday. I have tried herbal drops and calmz in tablet forms for other interviews but i think its all psycological bcos they dnt work! and i really want this job, however i think my nerves will get the better of me. I have not been for an interview this important in years! even any advice would be much apreciated! thanks!I get sooo nervous at interviews?? pls pls help....advice, anything..?
Practice at home infront of family and the mirror. And chew gum to calm ur nerves. It helps alot. I get sooo nervous at interviews?? pls pls help....advice, anything..?
Try ';studying'; for the interview the way you would study for a test. Make lists of possible questions that the interviewer might throw your way, and know how to answer them (ex: ';Where do you see yourself in 5 years?';) Also, do a lot of background research on the company and the position you want so that you're prepared for anything. Preparing a lot will calm you down once the interview actually starts.
Good luck! :)
I'm an employment advisor so I think I can offer some expertise here. First things first. Simply think of the interview as an opportunity to have a ';conversation'; about YOU. Notice how I've highlighted the word conversation because that's important. You're there because they're intersted in you - they want you there.
You may have all the right degrees they're looking for but that rarely counts for much unless you have a PERSONALITY to go with it. They
want to know more about YOU as a person, what you can offer their
organisation (cheerful personality, can-do attitude, can get along with others %26amp; show leadership %26amp; initiative if necessary) %26amp; what you like to do ';outside of work'; - that's important too. They want to make sure you have a life outside work %26amp; can bring something to their organisation.
They're looking for a real person - not someone who can ';woo'; them with a whole lot of fancy words (although, that does help). To an employer, it's no good if you have all the right skills needed for the job if you have a bad attitude or lack confidence in your ability to do the job. CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF (who knows you better than you?) and a bit of showmanship are the keys to a successful interview.
Ask yourself? why do I want this job so much? job title, company, salary package or ? Don't be shy about your skills - talk yourself up but make sure it's the truth since they will do background checks. Show confidence by being deliberate about what you expect to be paid - don't settle for less than market rate. That way, they think you have other offers out there (even when you don't) so they'll be keep to snap you up.
Do some research into the background of the company you will be interviewing for. Ask burning questions about the organisation - it tells them you're interested in who they are, what they do and how you might fit into their organisation.
Those are just a few tips AND you're right, a lot of the anxiety around interviews is in your head. But remember - the people interviewing you - they're human too. They had to do an interview to get to where they are so they will understand perfectly how you're feeling. Sometimes, they forget what it's like. Turn your anxieties into adrenalin for constructive thinking.
Practise with a couple of friends first - and just remember, when one door closes, another one opens.
Hope that helps %26amp; good luck :-)
me too
sometimes after the interviews I laugh about things I have said with friends and family and can't believe the silly mistakes and errors that came out of my mouth.
at one interview i was asked for the spelling of my name and paused for more than 3 min.
now I go in interviews laughing in advance. and believe it or not it works I don't know whether it is the possative energy that I spread around or what.
: )
Practice at home infront of family and the mirror. And chew gum to calm ur nerves. It helps alot. I get sooo nervous at interviews?? pls pls help....advice, anything..?
Try ';studying'; for the interview the way you would study for a test. Make lists of possible questions that the interviewer might throw your way, and know how to answer them (ex: ';Where do you see yourself in 5 years?';) Also, do a lot of background research on the company and the position you want so that you're prepared for anything. Preparing a lot will calm you down once the interview actually starts.
Good luck! :)
I'm an employment advisor so I think I can offer some expertise here. First things first. Simply think of the interview as an opportunity to have a ';conversation'; about YOU. Notice how I've highlighted the word conversation because that's important. You're there because they're intersted in you - they want you there.
You may have all the right degrees they're looking for but that rarely counts for much unless you have a PERSONALITY to go with it. They
want to know more about YOU as a person, what you can offer their
organisation (cheerful personality, can-do attitude, can get along with others %26amp; show leadership %26amp; initiative if necessary) %26amp; what you like to do ';outside of work'; - that's important too. They want to make sure you have a life outside work %26amp; can bring something to their organisation.
They're looking for a real person - not someone who can ';woo'; them with a whole lot of fancy words (although, that does help). To an employer, it's no good if you have all the right skills needed for the job if you have a bad attitude or lack confidence in your ability to do the job. CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF (who knows you better than you?) and a bit of showmanship are the keys to a successful interview.
Ask yourself? why do I want this job so much? job title, company, salary package or ? Don't be shy about your skills - talk yourself up but make sure it's the truth since they will do background checks. Show confidence by being deliberate about what you expect to be paid - don't settle for less than market rate. That way, they think you have other offers out there (even when you don't) so they'll be keep to snap you up.
Do some research into the background of the company you will be interviewing for. Ask burning questions about the organisation - it tells them you're interested in who they are, what they do and how you might fit into their organisation.
Those are just a few tips AND you're right, a lot of the anxiety around interviews is in your head. But remember - the people interviewing you - they're human too. They had to do an interview to get to where they are so they will understand perfectly how you're feeling. Sometimes, they forget what it's like. Turn your anxieties into adrenalin for constructive thinking.
Practise with a couple of friends first - and just remember, when one door closes, another one opens.
Hope that helps %26amp; good luck :-)
me too
sometimes after the interviews I laugh about things I have said with friends and family and can't believe the silly mistakes and errors that came out of my mouth.
at one interview i was asked for the spelling of my name and paused for more than 3 min.
now I go in interviews laughing in advance. and believe it or not it works I don't know whether it is the possative energy that I spread around or what.
: )
Help! Advice on piercings?
What is the worst possible thing that could happen to you if you get your nipple pierced? Could you loose feeling? will your nipple screw up?Help! Advice on piercings?
I took my piercings out when I got pregnant. After I had my first baby and my milk came it was shooting out the side of the piercing!
TMI???
Oh- to the person above me- that's a crock of poop. I've breastfed both my kids, and have had both my nipples pierced. In fact, I've spent a total of 2 1/2 years of my life breastfeeding children.Help! Advice on piercings?
i dont recomend it .
if your a girl especially
IF you have a baby in
the future you wont be able
to breast feed ..
:(
For one, you will definitely be able to breastfeed. One piece of jewelry will not affect that- you have numerous milk ducts.
It is recommended to take the jewelry out while the baby breastfeeds, of course.
It's always possible to lose feeling in any area that has been pierced, but it is highly unlikely.
Some people find that nipple piercings heighten their sensation, but it's not like that for everyone.
You could develop an infection like with all piercings, but it's very rare as long as you follow the proper aftercare.
http://www.safepiercing.org/bodyAftercar鈥?/a>
They usually take about a year to heal, though it can be longer.
The worst thing is it could get infected or it can reject the peircing which means the ring will break the skin and it will fall out. It will only leave a scar and if you use cocoa butter on it it should become less visable. No it will not lose feeling. It will actually make them more sensative and help increase sexual arousal. Your nipple will not screw up it will just look hard most of the time but thats it. Hope I could help.
If it gets infected it could be misshaped when you take it out. Like a scar kinda.
you can loose feeling and it can be misshapen if it gets infected. Also, if they pierce it wrong you won't be able to breast feed if you choose when you have children. Also, consider your brest size, will you be able to go for a week with out a bra or more if it does get infected
I don't know the worst possible, but I made my boyfriend take his out because I hated it, and now he has one normal nipple and one huge, oversized, ridiculous looking nipple!
Most likely infection or a faint scar
But is it anything to worry about really?
Who pays that much attention to your nipple?
Go for it and love it - good luck
it could get infected and if ur thinking of having kids then forget it the baby won't beable to be breast feed.
come on now... don't do it...
Like any other piercing if not taken well care of it will get infected. Yes some women notice they lost feeling there because the actual piercing will be going through a bundle of nerves, nipples are one body part that has lots of nerve endings.
I took my piercings out when I got pregnant. After I had my first baby and my milk came it was shooting out the side of the piercing!
TMI???
Oh- to the person above me- that's a crock of poop. I've breastfed both my kids, and have had both my nipples pierced. In fact, I've spent a total of 2 1/2 years of my life breastfeeding children.Help! Advice on piercings?
i dont recomend it .
if your a girl especially
IF you have a baby in
the future you wont be able
to breast feed ..
:(
For one, you will definitely be able to breastfeed. One piece of jewelry will not affect that- you have numerous milk ducts.
It is recommended to take the jewelry out while the baby breastfeeds, of course.
It's always possible to lose feeling in any area that has been pierced, but it is highly unlikely.
Some people find that nipple piercings heighten their sensation, but it's not like that for everyone.
You could develop an infection like with all piercings, but it's very rare as long as you follow the proper aftercare.
http://www.safepiercing.org/bodyAftercar鈥?/a>
They usually take about a year to heal, though it can be longer.
The worst thing is it could get infected or it can reject the peircing which means the ring will break the skin and it will fall out. It will only leave a scar and if you use cocoa butter on it it should become less visable. No it will not lose feeling. It will actually make them more sensative and help increase sexual arousal. Your nipple will not screw up it will just look hard most of the time but thats it. Hope I could help.
If it gets infected it could be misshaped when you take it out. Like a scar kinda.
you can loose feeling and it can be misshapen if it gets infected. Also, if they pierce it wrong you won't be able to breast feed if you choose when you have children. Also, consider your brest size, will you be able to go for a week with out a bra or more if it does get infected
I don't know the worst possible, but I made my boyfriend take his out because I hated it, and now he has one normal nipple and one huge, oversized, ridiculous looking nipple!
Most likely infection or a faint scar
But is it anything to worry about really?
Who pays that much attention to your nipple?
Go for it and love it - good luck
it could get infected and if ur thinking of having kids then forget it the baby won't beable to be breast feed.
come on now... don't do it...
Like any other piercing if not taken well care of it will get infected. Yes some women notice they lost feeling there because the actual piercing will be going through a bundle of nerves, nipples are one body part that has lots of nerve endings.
I need life advice please help?
i know iam not alone here, but my life has been very hard. iam 30, and very depressed. i am in debt up to my eyeballs, and i have no college degree, but i did go for a few semesters, i am smart, but suffer from bi-polar, and it has cost me alot. i have a crimal record for theft,forgery,burglury. i am a chef with no hope in sight. my parents wont help me, and i just had 24 thousand dollars and spent it on stupid stuff. i owe this person too now, plus student loans. hospital bills, credit cards, restitution, court costs, etc. i hate my job, i work for a mean old lady who does not pay fairly, and there are no jobs around here. i really want to pursue boxing, but i cant qiut smoking, and i cant save money to move to vegas to train, and work. if i try hard i could save 2-300 a month and move in 2 years and use this time to condition my body. those are just a few of the problems, i could write a book, i thought about that too. well, if anyone has some advice or anything please help..thanks!I need life advice please help?
JOE! You are just like my daughter!!! Although she won't admit she's bi-polar. She's irresponsible, has an addictive personality and won't listen to anyone. She thinks she's got the world by the balls and she's making huge mistakes (Just like you) You are young! If your parents helped you out of your mess, you would be right back in it in a year. Guaranteed! How can we help you? We can't pay your bills... We can't drag you out of your depression....We can't get you a good job and we sure can't get you into the boxing ring. I hate to tell you this but it will only be a few short years before you are considered too old to box. (I love boxing) Anyway, what I'm trying to say is...Joe, honey....it's all up to you. Pull yourself up by the scruff of your neck and help yourself. DO NOT feel sorry for yourself because you will be defeated before you start... Be a man and don't let anybody help you. Pride in who you are and what you do is the greatest feeling in the world. You can do it if you work hard!!!!I need life advice please help?
file bankruptcy and get some medication for your condition..
you don't have to move to vegas to become a boxer. there is a very famous trainer here in the small town i live in. if you know boxing you'll know don turner. so take your meds, save your money and while you are getting serious about becoming a boxer look into any and all options available to you.
Sorry about your situation, but you won't find much of a solution here unless you get serious professional help. Presently you are on a one way road to oblivion. Bi-polar is nothing to take lightly. You are 30 years old and you WANT TO PURSUE BOXING! I would re-think that seriously if I were you. With all the baggage you are now carrying, I think boxing is a bad idea for you. You need to get your life and health in order. Presently, you seem to have both feet firmly planted in the air. Since you are strapped for money I would suggest that you go to an emergency room and they can steer you in the right direction based upon your financial situation. Good luck and God bless.
Funny yo gotz a computer and internet. I hazta go down to the library to get internet access. And read. And relax from my two jobz. But it's cheap and I savin' my azz off. Give me a couple yearz and no white man iz gonna stop this blackazz.
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I think you need a few bong rips. Might help you out to relax and really think about things. if that doesnt work...then....idk.
Rock On!!
First of all, get off the pity pot and stop feeling sorry for yourself. If you are alive, everything else is gravy. If you don't have a wife kids you are Lucky at this point because you only have to take care of yourself. Cut the criminal crap out and see if you can file bankruptcy. Think about relocating to another town for a couple of years and reinvent yourself. find a good gym and work on your boxing. sharpen your computer skills. find a nice girl who can help you with the day to day bills, rent etc. when you have time go back to school. make sure you talk to school counselors so that you have some direction. Don't forget to take your meds.
dude i got a plan. get of the tabace!!! its herting you.get a pach. then get a job and put the money in a mutual fund. say a 100 bucks. then work some more and every paycheck and put a little in that fund get a bank account and a girlfreind . your hit but not down!carmex balm
JOE! You are just like my daughter!!! Although she won't admit she's bi-polar. She's irresponsible, has an addictive personality and won't listen to anyone. She thinks she's got the world by the balls and she's making huge mistakes (Just like you) You are young! If your parents helped you out of your mess, you would be right back in it in a year. Guaranteed! How can we help you? We can't pay your bills... We can't drag you out of your depression....We can't get you a good job and we sure can't get you into the boxing ring. I hate to tell you this but it will only be a few short years before you are considered too old to box. (I love boxing) Anyway, what I'm trying to say is...Joe, honey....it's all up to you. Pull yourself up by the scruff of your neck and help yourself. DO NOT feel sorry for yourself because you will be defeated before you start... Be a man and don't let anybody help you. Pride in who you are and what you do is the greatest feeling in the world. You can do it if you work hard!!!!I need life advice please help?
file bankruptcy and get some medication for your condition..
you don't have to move to vegas to become a boxer. there is a very famous trainer here in the small town i live in. if you know boxing you'll know don turner. so take your meds, save your money and while you are getting serious about becoming a boxer look into any and all options available to you.
Sorry about your situation, but you won't find much of a solution here unless you get serious professional help. Presently you are on a one way road to oblivion. Bi-polar is nothing to take lightly. You are 30 years old and you WANT TO PURSUE BOXING! I would re-think that seriously if I were you. With all the baggage you are now carrying, I think boxing is a bad idea for you. You need to get your life and health in order. Presently, you seem to have both feet firmly planted in the air. Since you are strapped for money I would suggest that you go to an emergency room and they can steer you in the right direction based upon your financial situation. Good luck and God bless.
Funny yo gotz a computer and internet. I hazta go down to the library to get internet access. And read. And relax from my two jobz. But it's cheap and I savin' my azz off. Give me a couple yearz and no white man iz gonna stop this blackazz.
If a person has accumulated a large amount of credit card debt due to multiple credit cards, the need for a proper counseling for credit card debt consolidation can't be understated. Credit card debt consolidation counseling helps a person get vital insights into the facts that can help him get control over the credit card debt.
Credit card debt consolidation counselors are experts with a good knowledge of debt management, budgeting and behavioral patterns of credit card holders. These services are vital for those struggling to manage their credit card debts. Also called credit counseling or debt counseling the credit card debt consolidation counseling brings immediate relief to a credit card holder.
A person seeking credit counseling can get it from two types of organizations. The professional or commercial organizations, and the non-profit organizations. As depicted by its name or categorization, the commercial organizations charge money for their credit counseling sessions and consolidation help on the other hand the non-profit organizations offer free of charge services. Just because the non-profit organizations are free, it doesn't undermine their quality of service. The persons associated with such organizations are thorough experts and have lived the trauma of being under credit card debt themselves and hence bring their vital experience to the credit card holder.
When a person approaches a credit counseling agency, the first thing it will do is to take stock of the situation and get various facts about the credit card debt. The credit counseling agency collects data about the income, expenditure and spending habits. It will guide the credit card holder about budgeting benefits and try to inculcate good financial habits. Read more form: http://www.credit-card-gallery.com/artic鈥?/a>
hi check this link its useful
http://workathomedataentrysites.blogspot.com/
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I think you need a few bong rips. Might help you out to relax and really think about things. if that doesnt work...then....idk.
Rock On!!
First of all, get off the pity pot and stop feeling sorry for yourself. If you are alive, everything else is gravy. If you don't have a wife kids you are Lucky at this point because you only have to take care of yourself. Cut the criminal crap out and see if you can file bankruptcy. Think about relocating to another town for a couple of years and reinvent yourself. find a good gym and work on your boxing. sharpen your computer skills. find a nice girl who can help you with the day to day bills, rent etc. when you have time go back to school. make sure you talk to school counselors so that you have some direction. Don't forget to take your meds.
dude i got a plan. get of the tabace!!! its herting you.get a pach. then get a job and put the money in a mutual fund. say a 100 bucks. then work some more and every paycheck and put a little in that fund get a bank account and a girlfreind . your hit but not down!
Serious period question. i reallllly need good advice, PLEASE HELP!!!?
Im going to chicago, illinois this weekend with my dad and my new stepmom. last week i had like liiiiiittttllle tiny spotting (i think) i i have had slight cramps the last two days and my mom got her period right around this time. So should i be prepared to get it soon and should i bring pads to chicago with me? PLEASE HELP cuz im confusedSerious period question. i reallllly need good advice, PLEASE HELP!!!?
Those definitely sound like warning signs.
There's no harm in bringing pads with you to Chicago. Better safe than sorry.Serious period question. i reallllly need good advice, PLEASE HELP!!!?
Definitely be prepared. A funny thing happened to my friend and I that is similar to this. I have my period for two days now. I just slept over at my friends house. Her normal time of the month is about next week. I guess because of the hormones or something, I triggered her to get her period today. If your mom has her period now, it is very likely that you will be getting yours soon!! So be prepared and have a fun trip :)
It sunds like you might be starting your period soon, I would bring pads with you just in case because you can't tell xactly when this will start. Just ask your mom for some advice and you will be fine
you should just in case.
i got stuck once without pads.
the best thing is to bring them!:)
be prepared always! you'll probably start if you were spotting
u should put pad in your in anywhere you go
to be ready because you probably get it in anytime
yes just be prepared any thing can happen
Bring pads and tampons just to be safe.
it wouldnt hurt.
yes bring pads with you and motrin just in case of cramps
bring them just in case, it cant hurt.
just bring them in case. even you u dont get it, your always prepared.
Those definitely sound like warning signs.
There's no harm in bringing pads with you to Chicago. Better safe than sorry.Serious period question. i reallllly need good advice, PLEASE HELP!!!?
Definitely be prepared. A funny thing happened to my friend and I that is similar to this. I have my period for two days now. I just slept over at my friends house. Her normal time of the month is about next week. I guess because of the hormones or something, I triggered her to get her period today. If your mom has her period now, it is very likely that you will be getting yours soon!! So be prepared and have a fun trip :)
It sunds like you might be starting your period soon, I would bring pads with you just in case because you can't tell xactly when this will start. Just ask your mom for some advice and you will be fine
you should just in case.
i got stuck once without pads.
the best thing is to bring them!:)
be prepared always! you'll probably start if you were spotting
u should put pad in your in anywhere you go
to be ready because you probably get it in anytime
yes just be prepared any thing can happen
Bring pads and tampons just to be safe.
it wouldnt hurt.
yes bring pads with you and motrin just in case of cramps
bring them just in case, it cant hurt.
just bring them in case. even you u dont get it, your always prepared.
Help! Advice, please?
I have told my friends different stories of how my depruding (first hookup) went. I am almost 15 and that has not actually happened yet. What should I do?Help! Advice, please?
Not dating is nothing to be ashamed of. Quite frankly, I think it's awful that people as young as 11 (some younger too) date. What's the rush? All you'll do is go through many more breakups because it's not likely you'll end up with that person. Don't worry, your time will come. It's better to wait for a nice guy than an stupid one. And some guys may find it cute that you haven't dated. So first of all, stop worrying. Everything will turn out fine. Next, stop lying. Lying will just make everything complicated. As your friends, they should understand. Also, starting from a clean slate will be better not only for you, but for your friends too. If you can't be honest by your friends, there's not much of a chance that a relationship will last long. Anyway, try to improve with the honesty and good luck! :)Help! Advice, please?
you might feel like u need to make up stories to become on the same level as the rest of your friends. but you dont! if they dont like you cuz u havent hooked up then i dont believe they're that good of friends, you know? Just stop talking about the stories. if your friends bring up their hookups, you might be tempted to talk about ';yours'; but think better of it, just listen to your friends until it actually happens to you
you cant take back what you said because your friends will get angry at you..so soon a nice girl will come along then you'll have your first hookup so then you can have a real story and so you can stick with that one. whatever you do, dont make up any other stories. you can tell them the truth but tell them as if it was just a joke. example: ''i was just kidding, i cant believe you guys believed me''
dont lie to make yourself look cool.
be yourself.
they will respect you alot more..
stop lying?
Just tell them the truth...if they're your real friends the should understand!
Not dating is nothing to be ashamed of. Quite frankly, I think it's awful that people as young as 11 (some younger too) date. What's the rush? All you'll do is go through many more breakups because it's not likely you'll end up with that person. Don't worry, your time will come. It's better to wait for a nice guy than an stupid one. And some guys may find it cute that you haven't dated. So first of all, stop worrying. Everything will turn out fine. Next, stop lying. Lying will just make everything complicated. As your friends, they should understand. Also, starting from a clean slate will be better not only for you, but for your friends too. If you can't be honest by your friends, there's not much of a chance that a relationship will last long. Anyway, try to improve with the honesty and good luck! :)Help! Advice, please?
you might feel like u need to make up stories to become on the same level as the rest of your friends. but you dont! if they dont like you cuz u havent hooked up then i dont believe they're that good of friends, you know? Just stop talking about the stories. if your friends bring up their hookups, you might be tempted to talk about ';yours'; but think better of it, just listen to your friends until it actually happens to you
you cant take back what you said because your friends will get angry at you..so soon a nice girl will come along then you'll have your first hookup so then you can have a real story and so you can stick with that one. whatever you do, dont make up any other stories. you can tell them the truth but tell them as if it was just a joke. example: ''i was just kidding, i cant believe you guys believed me''
dont lie to make yourself look cool.
be yourself.
they will respect you alot more..
stop lying?
Just tell them the truth...if they're your real friends the should understand!
Help? advice for passing higher english?
i am sitting higher english this year and am pretty sure im going to fail. any advice to how to pass?Help? advice for passing higher english?
You did not indicate any reasons for or problems with the class. It is therefore difficult to advise you other than speaking to your teacher and asking for her suggestions./Help? advice for passing higher english?
I will probably sound like you're teacher but try to say once a week log onto the Times newspaper online and read a few articles. It will help you in both close reading aspects and critical essay.
Know you're text reeeeeally well. For example be able to write on basically any question that comes up..theme, characterisation, key scene, symbolism etc Start slowly learning you're quotes now so that it wont be a brain strain for the actual exam.
Practice critical essays and get you're teacher to mark them.
And just think if you do really well this year then you wont have to resit again next year!!
You did not indicate any reasons for or problems with the class. It is therefore difficult to advise you other than speaking to your teacher and asking for her suggestions./Help? advice for passing higher english?
I will probably sound like you're teacher but try to say once a week log onto the Times newspaper online and read a few articles. It will help you in both close reading aspects and critical essay.
Know you're text reeeeeally well. For example be able to write on basically any question that comes up..theme, characterisation, key scene, symbolism etc Start slowly learning you're quotes now so that it wont be a brain strain for the actual exam.
Practice critical essays and get you're teacher to mark them.
And just think if you do really well this year then you wont have to resit again next year!!
I have nerve damage in my back that causes pain when I do crunches. Need advice to help lose stomach w/o pain.
Everytime I start to do any situps, a pain shoots down my back and causes my left leg to go numb. It is syatic nerve damage from an old weightlifting injury. I really want to lose the excess stomach I have and feel better at the same time. It's been over 10 years since the problem started and I am ready to move on. Can anyone help? What can I do ?I have nerve damage in my back that causes pain when I do crunches. Need advice to help lose stomach w/o pain.
Ab LoungeI have nerve damage in my back that causes pain when I do crunches. Need advice to help lose stomach w/o pain.
YOUR OVERDOING UR SELF AND YOU NEED TO DO WARM UP BEFORE YOU START LIKE TRY TO SLOW DOWN AND CHANGE YOU WAY OF EXERCISING SO U CAN GET BETTER RESULTS!!
hey, i have a friend who has nerve damge in his back, so he went to a doctor and got a cortizone shot in his back which took the pain away for a while, plus he laid on a stiff matrice until it felt better. that should help
Ab LoungeI have nerve damage in my back that causes pain when I do crunches. Need advice to help lose stomach w/o pain.
YOUR OVERDOING UR SELF AND YOU NEED TO DO WARM UP BEFORE YOU START LIKE TRY TO SLOW DOWN AND CHANGE YOU WAY OF EXERCISING SO U CAN GET BETTER RESULTS!!
hey, i have a friend who has nerve damge in his back, so he went to a doctor and got a cortizone shot in his back which took the pain away for a while, plus he laid on a stiff matrice until it felt better. that should help
I need girl advice, please help?
I have been friends with this extremely beautiful girl for about 4 years now, but i want to have intense sex with her so badly, so how can i get her into bed?I need girl advice, please help?
Do you even like her or are you just trying to have sex with her? If she doesn't like you in that way she probably won't have sex with you. If you want to start a relationship with the girl then having sex with her isn't they way to go about it.I need girl advice, please help?
Do you even care about her?? Find out if she likes you first and be nice to her and show that you care about her. Maybe if your lucky she might just give you what you want....
you can't have sex with her if she doesnt want to....
oh well thats deffinatly going to make her feel wanted.
just be urself, drop in a few hints and if she wants yuo she'l have you
find out if the girl likes you first then if she does say you like her as well then see where it goes from there
Booze :)
uh.. Alcohol? If she's not attracted to you, then I can't help. Find out if she is.
freak
Do you even like her or are you just trying to have sex with her? If she doesn't like you in that way she probably won't have sex with you. If you want to start a relationship with the girl then having sex with her isn't they way to go about it.I need girl advice, please help?
Do you even care about her?? Find out if she likes you first and be nice to her and show that you care about her. Maybe if your lucky she might just give you what you want....
you can't have sex with her if she doesnt want to....
oh well thats deffinatly going to make her feel wanted.
just be urself, drop in a few hints and if she wants yuo she'l have you
find out if the girl likes you first then if she does say you like her as well then see where it goes from there
Booze :)
uh.. Alcohol? If she's not attracted to you, then I can't help. Find out if she is.
freak
I have never been so desperate for advice please help me
i have been hurt by a guy before he was a cheater and a liar and hooked up with my best friend. i kicked that garbage to the curb. now i met a new guy and he is great. but loses control when he is drunk and listens to his d*ck not his brain. we are not going out but we definitely have a 'thing' and he hooked up with this girl drunk two nights ago. how pissed do i have a right to be? does he get a second chance? he has cheated on his ex girlfriend of 1.5 yrs because he ';didn't know what he wanted'; once a cheater always a cheater???? help me, do i forgive him?I have never been so desperate for advice please help me
Ditch him, He sounds like trouble.
I dont believe in the once a cheater always a cheater because i cheated on my boyfriend once, and will never EVER cheat on any guy ever again.
Make him become sober if you want to date himI have never been so desperate for advice please help me
he needs to get sober before you go anywhere near him and a guy like that sounds like he would be pretty quick to hurt you if it meant he got what he wanted. he doesn't sound like somebody you want to be affiliated with. sorry to be so negative but he sounds like kind of an ***, and you sound far too good for him :(
its easy to forgive but not to forget.
most the time ';once a cheater, always a cheater'; is true.
forgive him but i dont suggest hooking up with him again.
First of all once a cheater always a cheater is not true. But I personally wouldn't take him back unless he agreed to stop getting drunk.
No.
You were his 'second chance', and he's gone and screwed that up, too.
nope.. u said it yourself once a cheater always a cheater and why would you even wanna be with a person who can't control himself when he is drunk...gal u can do so much better
u shud forgive himbut not give him another chance if hes doing this so much hes not good for u!
YES.
Once a cheater always a cheater.
My girlfriend spent a weekend with an older guy and I took her back, and six weeks later she saw him twice again and then another guy the next month. Then I took her back ';again'; but I know things are really basically over and haven't the heart to tell her or face it. And I don't believe for a minute that she isn't going to cheat again...so once a cheater, almost always a cheater, especially when it's so easy to cheat. That doesn't mean you need to cast this guy out of your life - I still love my girlfriend very much - but it means you need to be a lot more independent, and stronger in yourself and your own life, and you need not to be attached, and be prepared to cheat before he is. It's the only way not to get hurt.carmex balm
Ditch him, He sounds like trouble.
I dont believe in the once a cheater always a cheater because i cheated on my boyfriend once, and will never EVER cheat on any guy ever again.
Make him become sober if you want to date himI have never been so desperate for advice please help me
he needs to get sober before you go anywhere near him and a guy like that sounds like he would be pretty quick to hurt you if it meant he got what he wanted. he doesn't sound like somebody you want to be affiliated with. sorry to be so negative but he sounds like kind of an ***, and you sound far too good for him :(
its easy to forgive but not to forget.
most the time ';once a cheater, always a cheater'; is true.
forgive him but i dont suggest hooking up with him again.
First of all once a cheater always a cheater is not true. But I personally wouldn't take him back unless he agreed to stop getting drunk.
No.
You were his 'second chance', and he's gone and screwed that up, too.
nope.. u said it yourself once a cheater always a cheater and why would you even wanna be with a person who can't control himself when he is drunk...gal u can do so much better
u shud forgive himbut not give him another chance if hes doing this so much hes not good for u!
YES.
Once a cheater always a cheater.
My girlfriend spent a weekend with an older guy and I took her back, and six weeks later she saw him twice again and then another guy the next month. Then I took her back ';again'; but I know things are really basically over and haven't the heart to tell her or face it. And I don't believe for a minute that she isn't going to cheat again...so once a cheater, almost always a cheater, especially when it's so easy to cheat. That doesn't mean you need to cast this guy out of your life - I still love my girlfriend very much - but it means you need to be a lot more independent, and stronger in yourself and your own life, and you need not to be attached, and be prepared to cheat before he is. It's the only way not to get hurt.
I got a problem with defeating tate and liz any help or advice?
I got lvl 45 blaziken
lvl 41 breloom
lvl 36 swellow
lvl 38 azumarill
lvl 39 tentacruelI got a problem with defeating tate and liz any help or advice?
Level up Tentacruel and Azumarril about five more levels, make sure they both have Surf. That should make the battle easier. Three of your Pok茅mon are weak to Psychic attacks (Breloom, Blaziken and Tentacruel), you might want to use something different for the gym.I got a problem with defeating tate and liz any help or advice?
Psypokes.com
lvl 41 breloom
lvl 36 swellow
lvl 38 azumarill
lvl 39 tentacruelI got a problem with defeating tate and liz any help or advice?
Level up Tentacruel and Azumarril about five more levels, make sure they both have Surf. That should make the battle easier. Three of your Pok茅mon are weak to Psychic attacks (Breloom, Blaziken and Tentacruel), you might want to use something different for the gym.I got a problem with defeating tate and liz any help or advice?
Psypokes.com
Help! Advice or Experience Story Needed..TTC?
I am using the Ovulation Predictor test strips from the brand Answer. Has anyone used these? Did you like them or have success with them? Did it result in Pregnancy? Has anyone that you know used these? What did they think or say about them? Sorry I am just looking for some input on these particular Ovulation Test.Help! Advice or Experience Story Needed..TTC?
i've been looking at Pregnancy and TTC section for a really long time now, and i have seen 1 person who can say for sure that it works, i wasn't ovulating when i got pregnant, and as far as i hear, a lot of women get pregnant during the days they're not actually ovulating. i think that this whole ovulation calender crap is bs, it's just a theory.
i've been looking at Pregnancy and TTC section for a really long time now, and i have seen 1 person who can say for sure that it works, i wasn't ovulating when i got pregnant, and as far as i hear, a lot of women get pregnant during the days they're not actually ovulating. i think that this whole ovulation calender crap is bs, it's just a theory.
Please help just a lil advice needed?
okay well i like this girl alot and she likes me but recently she broke up with her ex and she is still hurt, what can i do to convince her to move on?? to me?Please help just a lil advice needed?
Just give her timea, that's all it takes
Just give her timea, that's all it takes
Adoption; help; advice please!?
i am adopted and all my friends are always making up stuff about cause they are not adopted! and this has got me interested that i want to meet my birthmother, but i am too scared to ask my mom or dad because im not really good at that stuff. Any advice on what to say will be highly appreciated!Adoption; help; advice please!?
I too wanted to know about my first mother - but my adoptive mother always got upset when I questioned her - sadly she made it about her - and not about me.
I was the child - she was the adult.
When adoptive parents do this to adoptees it is extremely painful and unfair - as most adoptees aren't trying to 'pick' one set of parents over the other - they just simply want to know their truth.
I would try to explain some of this to your a-parents - but if they are unwilling to help you - then you may have to go on the search on your own.
I'm not sure how old you are - or where you are.
If you add more details - perhaps more help can be given - or if you email me through my profile - I can help.
I do hope that your a-parents will be helpful.
I'm sure you're scared out of your skull!!
If you need ANY support - pop on over to the best adoptee support forum I've found on the internet -
http://www.adultadoptees.org/forum/index鈥?/a>
There is a teen board if you are not yet 18.
I wish you all the very very best with what lies ahead.
Know that you are NOT alone.Adoption; help; advice please!?
Don't be afraid to ask. No doubt your parents have prepared themselves for these questions from you and most likely are wondering why you haven't asked. My wish for you is that they have some answers and will provide their full support.
All the best.
It is you right if you wish to find your birth parents.
Just express an interest to your parents, saying you are just curious. Make sure you tell them, it is nothing to do with them or anyting they have done wrong, you would jst like to no where you came from.
I hope you are not dissapointed at the end of your search and good luck ^_^
Every adoptive parent knows that their child will have questions about their birthparents. They've already thought this one through for many years. If you just go to them (if you get along better with either your mother or father, you can go to that parent first) and let them know you have some questions. They may not have a lot of information to give you, but they can help with the search.
Best of luck!
I can understand your concern. I am adopted and my mother has always told me if I want to meet my biological mother she would understand. I have always been concerned that I would hurt her anyway. I would still suggest you sit down and talk to your mother and tell her how you feel. I am sure she will understand and in some way has been expected the conversation. I would just be as open and honest from the get go. Explain you are just curious about your back ground because that is very natural. I wish you luck and hope that some of the posting have helped.
If they told you that you were adopted then they will be expecting questions sooner or later. Dont be afraid to ask them as you wont hurt their feelings. I am sure they will be glad to tell you as much as they know about your birth mother. Dont be disappointed if they cant tell you all that much but they will be able to make inquiries for you. Good luck.
First of all, what you're feeling, and what you are curious about, is o.k. If you have a good relationship with your parents, and they are emotionally pretty stable, then pick a particularly calm time, and approach them or one of them, with the sentiment you just shared here. Let them know how it feels when your friends ';make stuff up'; about you. Tell them that this got you to thinking about things, and made you curious to know more. Just let them know you love them and this is in no way about them. Tell them because you trust them, and they have always been there for you (if they have) you need their particular help to maybe find a few answers.
Try not to make it a long drawn out conversation, but just a short one to put some feelers out about how receptive they may be. After you plant the seed, give it a little time for them to think about it. You have been thinking about this a lot, and they may need a little time to digest this. It may feel somewhat uncomfortable to them at first, because some parents can feel scared and insecure at the thought of their child searching for more than they have provided them. But with a little reassurance, they will likely be helpful and supportive. If they can't be, it is not the end of the world. It may be too scary for some parents. Overtime, they may come around if they aren't there for you from the beginning. Meanwhile, you may need to turn to an Aunt or cousin who can support you in your quest.
Good luck!
First, I would start out by asking if they have any information about her, like where she lives, why did she put you up for adoption, etc. However, you really want to make sure you are ready to meet her. You might want to wait until you are close to or already 18. That way you don't have to ask your parents, and you'll be a little bit more mature to handle it. What you find might not be great and you need to make sure you are emotionally ready to handle it.
U could call them instead of talking to them face to face.
its a big step.....if you feel like you should then go for it. Firstly talk over with your mum now...if she finds out behind her back you could hurt her lots. And just ignore your friends..they are being very immature..good luck
Okay I'm just going to say, your birth mother may not understand you, some people don't act like their parents and vice versa at all.
im sure that your parents are aware that there will be some day that you will begin to ask about your birth mother. hopefully you realize that the parents you have now love you very much and probably fear that you asking to meet her means you are not happy with them. so first of all you need to reassure them that you love them very much and dont want anything to change but that you are really curious about your birth mother. tell them that you want to know what she is like and if you have any brothers or sisters out there....that you dont want to give up anything you have in your life now but that you are just curious and just really would like to know as much as possible...good luckcarmex balm
I too wanted to know about my first mother - but my adoptive mother always got upset when I questioned her - sadly she made it about her - and not about me.
I was the child - she was the adult.
When adoptive parents do this to adoptees it is extremely painful and unfair - as most adoptees aren't trying to 'pick' one set of parents over the other - they just simply want to know their truth.
I would try to explain some of this to your a-parents - but if they are unwilling to help you - then you may have to go on the search on your own.
I'm not sure how old you are - or where you are.
If you add more details - perhaps more help can be given - or if you email me through my profile - I can help.
I do hope that your a-parents will be helpful.
I'm sure you're scared out of your skull!!
If you need ANY support - pop on over to the best adoptee support forum I've found on the internet -
http://www.adultadoptees.org/forum/index鈥?/a>
There is a teen board if you are not yet 18.
I wish you all the very very best with what lies ahead.
Know that you are NOT alone.Adoption; help; advice please!?
Don't be afraid to ask. No doubt your parents have prepared themselves for these questions from you and most likely are wondering why you haven't asked. My wish for you is that they have some answers and will provide their full support.
All the best.
It is you right if you wish to find your birth parents.
Just express an interest to your parents, saying you are just curious. Make sure you tell them, it is nothing to do with them or anyting they have done wrong, you would jst like to no where you came from.
I hope you are not dissapointed at the end of your search and good luck ^_^
Every adoptive parent knows that their child will have questions about their birthparents. They've already thought this one through for many years. If you just go to them (if you get along better with either your mother or father, you can go to that parent first) and let them know you have some questions. They may not have a lot of information to give you, but they can help with the search.
Best of luck!
I can understand your concern. I am adopted and my mother has always told me if I want to meet my biological mother she would understand. I have always been concerned that I would hurt her anyway. I would still suggest you sit down and talk to your mother and tell her how you feel. I am sure she will understand and in some way has been expected the conversation. I would just be as open and honest from the get go. Explain you are just curious about your back ground because that is very natural. I wish you luck and hope that some of the posting have helped.
If they told you that you were adopted then they will be expecting questions sooner or later. Dont be afraid to ask them as you wont hurt their feelings. I am sure they will be glad to tell you as much as they know about your birth mother. Dont be disappointed if they cant tell you all that much but they will be able to make inquiries for you. Good luck.
First of all, what you're feeling, and what you are curious about, is o.k. If you have a good relationship with your parents, and they are emotionally pretty stable, then pick a particularly calm time, and approach them or one of them, with the sentiment you just shared here. Let them know how it feels when your friends ';make stuff up'; about you. Tell them that this got you to thinking about things, and made you curious to know more. Just let them know you love them and this is in no way about them. Tell them because you trust them, and they have always been there for you (if they have) you need their particular help to maybe find a few answers.
Try not to make it a long drawn out conversation, but just a short one to put some feelers out about how receptive they may be. After you plant the seed, give it a little time for them to think about it. You have been thinking about this a lot, and they may need a little time to digest this. It may feel somewhat uncomfortable to them at first, because some parents can feel scared and insecure at the thought of their child searching for more than they have provided them. But with a little reassurance, they will likely be helpful and supportive. If they can't be, it is not the end of the world. It may be too scary for some parents. Overtime, they may come around if they aren't there for you from the beginning. Meanwhile, you may need to turn to an Aunt or cousin who can support you in your quest.
Good luck!
First, I would start out by asking if they have any information about her, like where she lives, why did she put you up for adoption, etc. However, you really want to make sure you are ready to meet her. You might want to wait until you are close to or already 18. That way you don't have to ask your parents, and you'll be a little bit more mature to handle it. What you find might not be great and you need to make sure you are emotionally ready to handle it.
U could call them instead of talking to them face to face.
its a big step.....if you feel like you should then go for it. Firstly talk over with your mum now...if she finds out behind her back you could hurt her lots. And just ignore your friends..they are being very immature..good luck
Okay I'm just going to say, your birth mother may not understand you, some people don't act like their parents and vice versa at all.
im sure that your parents are aware that there will be some day that you will begin to ask about your birth mother. hopefully you realize that the parents you have now love you very much and probably fear that you asking to meet her means you are not happy with them. so first of all you need to reassure them that you love them very much and dont want anything to change but that you are really curious about your birth mother. tell them that you want to know what she is like and if you have any brothers or sisters out there....that you dont want to give up anything you have in your life now but that you are just curious and just really would like to know as much as possible...good luck
Need HELP/ADVICE ASAP please!?!?!?
right im gettin a new phone today and i cant choose between the SAMSUNG U600 %26amp; the LG SHINE.
I need some pro's and con's about both.
I love the design of the lg shine but i here the reception is quite poor or is that due to the network? Im on o2 and i get quite gd signal than i did when i was on 3.
Any help/advice will be great thank you.
LilhotzNeed HELP/ADVICE ASAP please!?!?!?
If you go to the following website they say that the Samsung U600 is outstanding and they give it 5 stars out of 5. Also lots of people have reviewed it and the lowest rating it gets is 3 out of 5.
However the LG Shine over all only gets a rating of 3 out of 5. Personally I'd go with the Samsung
http://www.mobile-phones-uk.org.uk/samsu鈥?/a>Need HELP/ADVICE ASAP please!?!?!?
the Shine is also difficult to keep clean as it gathers visible fingerprints everytime you touch it. the screen also scratches easily
A friend of mine has sent his LG Shine back three times because the screen keeps cracking.
I need some pro's and con's about both.
I love the design of the lg shine but i here the reception is quite poor or is that due to the network? Im on o2 and i get quite gd signal than i did when i was on 3.
Any help/advice will be great thank you.
LilhotzNeed HELP/ADVICE ASAP please!?!?!?
If you go to the following website they say that the Samsung U600 is outstanding and they give it 5 stars out of 5. Also lots of people have reviewed it and the lowest rating it gets is 3 out of 5.
However the LG Shine over all only gets a rating of 3 out of 5. Personally I'd go with the Samsung
http://www.mobile-phones-uk.org.uk/samsu鈥?/a>Need HELP/ADVICE ASAP please!?!?!?
the Shine is also difficult to keep clean as it gathers visible fingerprints everytime you touch it. the screen also scratches easily
A friend of mine has sent his LG Shine back three times because the screen keeps cracking.
Guy help.. advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
I like this guy, and he likes me too, I think, I'm to nervous to hug him, even worse to kiss him! What should I do?? He feels the same way. I email him and stuff, but i've never had the guts to ask him out. (I'm in the 5th grade)Guy help.. advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
you shouldn't rush into a relationship you should wait like a year or so eventually your gonna feel like you cant take it anymore and ask him outGuy help.. advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
5th grade?!?!?! ur way to young to kiss or be going out, stay friends!!
You're nervous to hug him? Duh, you're in the 5th grade. Kissing a guy in 5th grade is like you just had sexx.
you shouldn't rush into a relationship you should wait like a year or so eventually your gonna feel like you cant take it anymore and ask him outGuy help.. advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
5th grade?!?!?! ur way to young to kiss or be going out, stay friends!!
You're nervous to hug him? Duh, you're in the 5th grade. Kissing a guy in 5th grade is like you just had sexx.
PLZ HELP. Advice is needed?
So I am going to be a freshman, I get in trouble if most of my grades are not A's. I am going to be taking Algebra 2 and geometry. I am going to be in IB. I probably might join a sport or a club or something. Is that too much.
IB is basically just a little harder then AP.
Any advice is awesome!PLZ HELP. Advice is needed?
I'm not familiar with IB....definitely getting involved is a great amount of significance. I graduated this year since my whole four years in HS i took 11 AP's......and I joined around 10 clubs....just do the much you can...oh and also i scored 4 and above on all my APs .....don't worry before you know it.....you'll be out of HS.....i thought the same what too
IB is basically just a little harder then AP.
Any advice is awesome!PLZ HELP. Advice is needed?
I'm not familiar with IB....definitely getting involved is a great amount of significance. I graduated this year since my whole four years in HS i took 11 AP's......and I joined around 10 clubs....just do the much you can...oh and also i scored 4 and above on all my APs .....don't worry before you know it.....you'll be out of HS.....i thought the same what too
Please Help? ADVICE NEEDED A.S.A.P. ! ! !?
Our computer had some kind of sudden freeze yesterday, and when we restarted it, everything came out small!!! I mean, I can barely see the icons on the screen! Please Help!!! Any Good Advice???
Thanx.Please Help? ADVICE NEEDED A.S.A.P. ! ! !?
Sounds like your screen resolution changed. Go to Start%26gt;Control Panel%26gt;Settings. In the middle of the panel you will see screen resolution. Change this to 800x600 and all will be big again.Please Help? ADVICE NEEDED A.S.A.P. ! ! !?
What os are you running, e.g. is it mac or windows, xp or vista, osx 10.4, osx 10.5
change settings is right!
Just change your seting and u will have it big again or your monitor might be going on u and u may need a new one that happend to me once where everything was going small and then my monitor whent out on me so i dunno it could be on of two thing but first check your setings and see if its not then its your monitor good luck let me know what happends pleas.
i agree with # 1 just change settings
Thanx.Please Help? ADVICE NEEDED A.S.A.P. ! ! !?
Sounds like your screen resolution changed. Go to Start%26gt;Control Panel%26gt;Settings. In the middle of the panel you will see screen resolution. Change this to 800x600 and all will be big again.Please Help? ADVICE NEEDED A.S.A.P. ! ! !?
What os are you running, e.g. is it mac or windows, xp or vista, osx 10.4, osx 10.5
change settings is right!
Just change your seting and u will have it big again or your monitor might be going on u and u may need a new one that happend to me once where everything was going small and then my monitor whent out on me so i dunno it could be on of two thing but first check your setings and see if its not then its your monitor good luck let me know what happends pleas.
i agree with # 1 just change settings
Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?
Recently, I had a job offer that was more money (25% more)and promotion. Because of greed of getting more money than the original offer, I held back. Because of my mistake, the deal fell through and the employer hired someone else. This has been really bothering me. It has been nearly two months now and I can't get past this. I cannot even focus on my current job and my family. I don't know what to do. I feel like I missed out and it's bothering me beyond words. I have never felt like this before. Call it crazy, but I sometimes even get to tears. Help! How can I overcome this? How would you rank this in terms of a regretful life event? Thank you for your help.Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?
Take a deep breath and let it go. You lost NOTHING. Try to understand the enormous gain you have made in this lesson. We pay tens of thousands of dollars for college educations and think nothing of it. ANYTHING like what just happened to you that we learn from, even the hard way, is priceless to us. You are not in this journey only for the you of the moment. The you of tomorrow is most grateful for your hard earned wisdom. Let it go. This happens a lot in life. There's a priceless grace to be found in getting really serious about seeing our ';mistakes'; as valuable to us in the long run. Do not add insult to injury by wallowing in the wake of your past errors. Get your face back in the refreshing breeze at the bow of your ship and sail on most confidently.Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?
Thanks, Hurting. Here is a beautiful and amazing image that I've been sharing with people this week:
http://www.wonderfulinfo.com/a鈥?/a>
This is what I tell my daughter, ';It was a good learning experience.'; Don't beat yourself up. We all make mistakes. I can beat yours. I went to college for five years, didn't get a degree, hated my major, and am now paying back my student loans on a hostess wage!!
first of all, you should forgive yourself. mistakes are meant to be made because they turn you to the right direction. instead of wasting your time regretting for the mistake that you had done, try turning this mistake into something positive. for example, you may have missed this oppurtunity but perhaps the next time you're offered a promotion, you will get a better one. you should also focus more on your performance rather than worrying about your mistake so that your boss will realise that you truly deserve more.
That is the past; now is the future. You had an awesome opportunity but you said no. Dont worry-- Stuff happen.
That door closed on you, but look around-there are many other doors welcoming you. Dont give up...You might find a better job. Good Luck!
Take a deep breath and let it go. You lost NOTHING. Try to understand the enormous gain you have made in this lesson. We pay tens of thousands of dollars for college educations and think nothing of it. ANYTHING like what just happened to you that we learn from, even the hard way, is priceless to us. You are not in this journey only for the you of the moment. The you of tomorrow is most grateful for your hard earned wisdom. Let it go. This happens a lot in life. There's a priceless grace to be found in getting really serious about seeing our ';mistakes'; as valuable to us in the long run. Do not add insult to injury by wallowing in the wake of your past errors. Get your face back in the refreshing breeze at the bow of your ship and sail on most confidently.Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?
Thanks, Hurting. Here is a beautiful and amazing image that I've been sharing with people this week:
http://www.wonderfulinfo.com/a鈥?/a>
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This is what I tell my daughter, ';It was a good learning experience.'; Don't beat yourself up. We all make mistakes. I can beat yours. I went to college for five years, didn't get a degree, hated my major, and am now paying back my student loans on a hostess wage!!
first of all, you should forgive yourself. mistakes are meant to be made because they turn you to the right direction. instead of wasting your time regretting for the mistake that you had done, try turning this mistake into something positive. for example, you may have missed this oppurtunity but perhaps the next time you're offered a promotion, you will get a better one. you should also focus more on your performance rather than worrying about your mistake so that your boss will realise that you truly deserve more.
That is the past; now is the future. You had an awesome opportunity but you said no. Dont worry-- Stuff happen.
That door closed on you, but look around-there are many other doors welcoming you. Dont give up...You might find a better job. Good Luck!
Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?
Recently, I had a job offer that was more money (25% more)and promotion. Because of greed of getting more money than the original offer, I held back. Because of my mistake, the deal fell through and the employer hired someone else. This has been really bothering me. It has been nearly two months now and I can't get past this. I cannot even focus on my current job and my family. I don't know what to do. I feel like I missed out and it's bothering me beyond words. I have never felt like this before. Call it crazy, but I sometimes even get to tears. Help! How can I overcome this? How would you rank this in terms of a regretful life event? Thank you for your help.Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?
Well, you got to learn how to stand by your decisions. Learn from your mistakes, but don't dwell on it too much. The more you think of it, the more you'll be depressed. Do something else, keep your mind occupied with other stuff like crafts, clubbin, girls (or dudes if you are into guys - haha). If you cry about a mistake, what good is it going to give you? Don't worry about life too much! believe me, I've been there! Enjoy life! The more you make mistakes, the stronger you become!Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?
Live and learn and decide whether a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. Celebrate what you are doing right and stop those thoughts anytime they enter your head.
Suck it up and shake it off. You missed out there is nothing you can do now. Thinking about it just gonna cause stress.
Learn from your mistakes so they weren't a total waste. You can't change the past so don't dwell. The only mistake you make is the one you repeat.
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Well, you got to learn how to stand by your decisions. Learn from your mistakes, but don't dwell on it too much. The more you think of it, the more you'll be depressed. Do something else, keep your mind occupied with other stuff like crafts, clubbin, girls (or dudes if you are into guys - haha). If you cry about a mistake, what good is it going to give you? Don't worry about life too much! believe me, I've been there! Enjoy life! The more you make mistakes, the stronger you become!Regretting a Mistake. Need advice. Help?
Live and learn and decide whether a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. Celebrate what you are doing right and stop those thoughts anytime they enter your head.
Suck it up and shake it off. You missed out there is nothing you can do now. Thinking about it just gonna cause stress.
Learn from your mistakes so they weren't a total waste. You can't change the past so don't dwell. The only mistake you make is the one you repeat.
http://www.onlinelifecoach.org
weblifecoach@hotmail.com
HELP!!ADVICE pleazee!!!?
Help i have low self confidence i want to be a cheerleader and i want to be popular .I act just like all the popular kids whenever i'm at home ,but it's too hard to act like that in school. I have pimples or you could call it acne it's on my forehead and i have no self confidence. I can't really stand up for myself. please i want some friend could you please help like advice pleeeeeeeaaaaaaseeeeeee!!!!!! thank you!!!HELP!!ADVICE pleazee!!!?
Fight for your live! Nobody is going to do it for you... nobody can do it for you. Remember always: ';if it is to be, it is up to me';.
But trust in the aid of people who care for you, as mutual aid is a very powerful force :-)HELP!!ADVICE pleazee!!!?
what i do is forget what everyone else says and only listen to the people who really care about me. i have low self confidence sometimes too, but im getting over it by forgeting what people i hate say about me or to me.
Never lack self-confidence!
be brave, confident and this can be achieved! i too was in a similar state like you
but indulgence in relgion made me a stronger person!
You too can i am a buddhist and love buddh's teaching
You too could read bible (if you are a chritian) and feel close too goodness.
be good do good
Cheers and add me as a friend!
well i aint perfect but i make my self feel that way cause heck i dont get treated as a adult due to im 52 uears old and only 4ft 7 inches tall
i even served detention in school 8 yrs ago
it was awsome
being young is hard but have
F A I T H
And every thing falls in place
Get over it and go be a cheerleader, or sit at home depressed and making yourself feel worse. Or get therapy....your choice.
I Have Low Self confidence too! Or at least I did till I found God. No matter Who your friends and or what you look like He Loves You! Maybe you are a christian! Maybe not! And dont think im forceing God Down your throught, Im Trying to help you!
Fight for your live! Nobody is going to do it for you... nobody can do it for you. Remember always: ';if it is to be, it is up to me';.
But trust in the aid of people who care for you, as mutual aid is a very powerful force :-)HELP!!ADVICE pleazee!!!?
what i do is forget what everyone else says and only listen to the people who really care about me. i have low self confidence sometimes too, but im getting over it by forgeting what people i hate say about me or to me.
Never lack self-confidence!
be brave, confident and this can be achieved! i too was in a similar state like you
but indulgence in relgion made me a stronger person!
You too can i am a buddhist and love buddh's teaching
You too could read bible (if you are a chritian) and feel close too goodness.
be good do good
Cheers and add me as a friend!
well i aint perfect but i make my self feel that way cause heck i dont get treated as a adult due to im 52 uears old and only 4ft 7 inches tall
i even served detention in school 8 yrs ago
it was awsome
being young is hard but have
F A I T H
And every thing falls in place
Get over it and go be a cheerleader, or sit at home depressed and making yourself feel worse. Or get therapy....your choice.
I Have Low Self confidence too! Or at least I did till I found God. No matter Who your friends and or what you look like He Loves You! Maybe you are a christian! Maybe not! And dont think im forceing God Down your throught, Im Trying to help you!
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